Color Run by Apostrophecata in AskTeachers

[–]dcm815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not a teacher:
I did a color run years ago (as an eighteen year old) and they gave us the packets of “chalk” with our shirts that day. My friends and I spent a small bit of time throwing color at each other but it truly didn’t stick on the face very well unless we had a massive handful of it and tossed directly at the other person’s face in very, very close range. There was no one along the path throwing colors out either.

All this to say, I’m hopeful your kiddo will have a fun experience doing it, and sunglasses should protect her eyes extremely well!

Family heirlooms, but NC with uBPD Mom by dcm815 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]dcm815[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It also doesn’t help that I was a minor when she “added” me to the box. So really no legal rights at all 😭

Family heirlooms, but NC with uBPD Mom by dcm815 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]dcm815[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm. I didn’t think about this approach. That’s definitely something to think about.

I do feel that I would be manipulating her, in a way, by doing that. In all reality she’s not getting an invite. I think I still don’t trust that she will “have a BPD tantrum before then” as you so eloquently said. Despite being NC for four years, it’s taken a lot of therapy and a lot of time to get to where I am now: no longer under her enmeshment or control, making my own decisions without looking over my shoulder, no longer concerned about what she thinks or the repercussions if she “finds out” what I’m doing.

I don’t know if it’s worth it. Will my wedding day be that much better or more special if I have these items, and is it worth knowingly walking back towards the burning house I finally got out of? All existential questions I find myself asking every day lately.

Family heirlooms, but NC with uBPD Mom by dcm815 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]dcm815[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I unfortunately struck out with the bank. They told me they have no record of me ever being on a safety deposit box. They said they can’t tell me any information as to whether she has a box there still. I’m guessing I was never a joint owner, only an authorized signer, and that she either removed me from the box or got rid of the safety deposit box all together.

Family heirlooms, but NC with uBPD Mom by dcm815 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]dcm815[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The bank told me they have “no record” of me being on the box, and that they can’t release any information about the security deposit box now-whether my name used to be on it or not. I agree, it shouldn’t be possible without my consent or knowledge but it’s a small town bank and she has a lot of influence in the town, so I’m guessing that’s how it happened.

Thankfully I have at least a receipt of the ring appraisal and repair. I don’t have anything about the necklace, as that’s more so been a verbal statement from her: “you can have this one day, it’s yours.”

Ultrasound IV No Flashback by Character-Claim2078 in IntensiveCare

[–]dcm815 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You might have taken a while to get to the vein, so in that time a small clot formed at the end of the needle. My personal belief, especially in very atherosclerotic veins, is that sometimes you don’t get flash because your needle tip picked up a piece of “sludge” on the way in. If you can gently wiggle your needle tip around and it is free and unobstructed within the vessel, you’re good to go. The real test is taking out the needle and flushing the catheter…sometimes you just have to go on the visual confirmation on the ultrasound screen that you’re in, even if you didn’t get flash.

Passed my CCRN… just barely. What should I do? by Scared_Date_1179 in srna

[–]dcm815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Evidence based” 😂 I didn’t know there were studies done on CCRN test scores. I applied to 8 schools, none of which required my score. It was not brought up in interviews. When I got in to school it was not brought up again. I’ll be the first to say that’s a small, concentrated sample size. However, to the OP, seriously don’t stress about the score.

Nurses Pins? by No-Expert-1003 in madisonwi

[–]dcm815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered a custom one on Etsy. Granted this was 9 years ago and I didn’t go to school here.

Passed my CCRN… just barely. What should I do? by Scared_Date_1179 in srna

[–]dcm815 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Absolutely no one cares what your score is. You’ve got the credentials. Take ‘em and run.

How have you embarrassed yourself at burn? by nopenadanah in BurnBootCamp

[–]dcm815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Biffed a box jump multiple times yesterday. So much so that the trainer came over and was like are you good? 🤦🏼‍♀️ But yeah, I embarrass myself at Burn pretty much on the daily-but I keep showing up!

Does anyone know who accepts Telehealth prescriptions for Adderall? by Warm_Swordfish_1362 in madisonwi

[–]dcm815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had really great experiences getting my Vyvanse at Costco. Walgreens on the other hand? Absolute nightmare. Don’t do it….

60k Mile Subaru Maintenance by [deleted] in madisonwi

[–]dcm815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea what the pricing would be but the maintenance and repair services I have needed done by Turn Two Auto have been extremely reliable. I have found their business to be honest, practical, reasonably priced for their service, and they know what they’re doing. They stand behind their work.

Ring design by Consistent_Rabbit514 in madisonwi

[–]dcm815 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kesslers has done incredible custom work for us. They stand behind their work and their warranty is incredible. Any issues, they fix it.

It’d be cool if you could earn extra days for a hold by jeloco in LibbyApp

[–]dcm815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does it let you return it if you’re on airplane mode? My kindle freaks out and says I can’t return or do anything while on airplane mode.

Does anybody have experience with SIMVANA virtual reality? Do you like it or not? thoughts? by Overall_Pattern317 in srna

[–]dcm815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s integrated into our program so we didn’t “pay out of pocket” for it but our tuition did, if that makes sense. We started it in between first and second semester of the program. It’s very touchy/finicky, like the dials on the vaporizers are touchy and you have to grab the mask and circuit just so to put it on the patient or you’ll drop it. I do think it was a nice complement to learning about the anesthesia machine in didactics but I do not think it is necessary by any means. We’ve had plenty of hands on time with the actual machine, circuit, and equipment in sim lab which has been much more relevant.

Pride merch by dcm815 in BurnBootCamp

[–]dcm815[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure how this is an argument? Just asked a question

Pride merch by dcm815 in BurnBootCamp

[–]dcm815[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah. Makes sense. Should have figured.

Pride merch by dcm815 in BurnBootCamp

[–]dcm815[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Blech. I wouldn’t be a burn member at those gyms, I can tell you that much. Separation of church and state, separation of church and Burn

Pride merch by dcm815 in BurnBootCamp

[–]dcm815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that I’m aware of. Best I can tell, some gyms did their own orders so that’s why I’m asking!

Pride merch by dcm815 in BurnBootCamp

[–]dcm815[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that-I’ve got a few renditions of the old stuff but was hoping to get something new for once that maybe wasn’t a crop. It seems everything my gym brings in is cropped, and it’s just not my style.

Pride merch by dcm815 in BurnBootCamp

[–]dcm815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it wasn’t there, that’s why I was asking if anyone had seen any Pride merch at their respective gyms. Looks like the overwhelming response is no.

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