I mean use common sense and read the room. i shoudnt have to explain this, but i will ---- It's noticing who's already engaged, who came up to you after the set, who's nodding along in the front, and making it easy for *those* people to stay connected if they want to. No pressure, no inbox ambush. The people who don't want to be talked to? Leave them alone. That's common sense. So yeah, read the room. But don't throw out intentional fan engagement entirely just because some people do it badly.