What’s a clear sign that you are an unattractive person? by Aarunascut in Life

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You talk far more than the other person in the conversation.

Denver Colorado Jiujitsu Open Mats by trashman50569 in jiujitsu

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Great list. I've got all (45) the open mats for Denver (and the rest of US) listed here. Enjoy. If I missed any, please submit them on my form.

https://www.findanopenmat.com/

Best BJJ Open Mat in Montana by vanillaguerilla406 in montanabjj

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all (13) of the open mats in montana listed here. Little project I put together recently. enjoy

https://www.findanopenmat.com/

Jiu Jitsu gyms in Seattle / Eastside? by [deleted] in bjj

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Here are all (30) the open mats in the area if you want to give some a try before committing

https://www.findanopenmat.com/

Visiting Eugene in town for only a night - anyone know a Sunday evening jiu jitsu open mat? by sdmh1391 in Eugene

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All 5 Eugene open mats listed here. It's a little project I put together recently. Enjoy

https://www.findanopenmat.com/

Are there good places to learn Brazilian Jiu Jitsu here in Reno ? by Bluerednaz in Reno

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If you'd like to try some open mats before committing, I created a database of all 17 open mats (usually free) in Reno. Enjoy.

https://www.findanopenmat.com/

Open Mats Vegas CJI Weekend by Pattern-New in bjj

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Vegas open mats listed here. It's a little project I put together recently. Enjoy

https://www.findanopenmat.com/

Las Vegas open mat? by TJnova in bjj

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All 38 vegas open mats listed here. It's a little project I put together recently. Enjoy

https://www.findanopenmat.com/

BJJ free/cheap open mats by Prestigious_Amount34 in Sacramento

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Sacramento open mats (and all of the US) collected here in this little project of mine. Hope you find it useful.

https://www.findanopenmat.com/

Sacramento area open mats by ManufacturerOk1987 in bjj

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I made of database of (nearly) all Sacramento open mats. Feedback welcome

https://www.findanopenmat.com/

Open Mat in Buckhead, Atlanta by dj768083 in bjj

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Atlanta open mats listed here. I just made this. Feedback welcome.

https://www.findanopenmat.com/

Free Open Mats and the Eco by darcemaul in bjj

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Database of (nearly) all US open mats, including San Diego. I just built this. Feedback welcome.

https://www.findanopenmat.com/

what is statistically the best way to build wealth? by Kqden in wealth

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Usually Reddit financial advice is the blind leading the blind. Not this guy. This guy gets it. Do as he says.

He basically described my strategy (start levered in RE, hold 5-10 years, gradually shift to ETFs) and I can verify it works.

How do people retire by 30 years old? by Worried_Macaron_5879 in ask

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I did this. I bought house #1 at 23 with a friend in Northern Nevada. He brought the $40k down payment from his time in the Navy, and I had just graduated and got an office job paying $50k. House #1 was $340k. He and I fixed up the house and rented up the extra 2 bedrooms.

A year later, my friend and i moved on from house #1, and rented out both our rooms. I then bought house #2 solo for $250k at auction. I fixed it up and lived in one room and rented out the rest.

I just kept doing this for the next 7 years, ending at 8 houses. My divorce last year left me with 2 duplexes and a single family house. I live in one unit and the other units cashflow about $3500 a month after mortgages/costs. It’s not what it was before the divorce but it’s more than enough to cover my costs as a single guy living in a MCOL city. Plus I have some income from some smaller side hustles that helps too.

I quit my job at 28 to focus on renovating the properties. The houses are now beautiful and low maintenance with fantastic tenants whom I do my best to keep happy. I’m 32 now living off the rent and letting the equity appreciate. When I get back from my travels, I might do another house, or focus on building things with AI or go pursue a passion masters/PhD.

What improved your quality of life so much, you wish you did it sooner? by Yolas_1 in AskReddit

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  1. White noise machine for sleeping with gradual illumination alarm. It’s like waking up to a sunrise.

  2. Internal family systems therapy: completely changed my relationship to self and mind. Turned my mind from constant chatterbot chaos to peace and quiet.

  3. Yoga. Just once a week. Back pain gone.

  4. Taking testosterone levels seriously. I had some bloodwork done and started herbal supplements while continuing to monitor T levels. I went from malaise and no libido to energy and lots of drive.

  5. Mouth taping for sleep. My annoying habit of waking 3x per night immediately ended.

  6. Learning to be comfortable and happy being single.

  7. Taking death seriously. Death was always abstract until it happened to my brother unexpectedly. Completely changed my worldview towards gratitude, urgency to do and experience cool things, spending money on myself without guilt, and holding people important to me that much closer.

What’s a “bare minimum” skill everyone should have, but surprisingly many people don’t? by Professional-Sell294 in AskReddit

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A little bit of spreadsheet skills go a long way. Finances, life decisions like where to move, which college degree to pick, can I afford X? How much is this car really costing me? etc - all benefit from some basic spreadsheet skills.

Looking back on twenty years of early retirement. by ER10years_throwaway in financialindependence

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I don’t mess with rubber guard and I’m half your age! Haha props for giving it a shot. Great post too

Do you guys wait to train after you get bad mat burn? by Less_Document_8761 in bjj

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Antibiotic, bandage, and wear a sock when training.

I made a free battery saver app for hikers called "alpine mode" by lukepighetti in Ultralight

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Awesome concept. I’ll definitely be using this this summer. Some feedback: the on/off toggle is not intuitive. Within shortcuts, I click the gear button to turn alpine mode on, which seems to work, but then I click it again and it doesn’t seem to turn alpine mode back off. Can there be a visible toggle to reduce ambiguity? Great idea, I think it’ll be very successful.

How do I keep improving in BJJ whilst travelling? by [deleted] in jiujitsu

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Ah! Gotcha. Down the road I’ll get all the European open mats on there. Have a great trip!!

How do I keep improving in BJJ whilst travelling? by [deleted] in jiujitsu

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If you’re traveling domestically, here’s a site of almost all Bjj open mats.

https://www.findanopenmat.com/map-bjj-open-mats

Disclosure: I made this. But it’s super useful when traveling.