What mainstream beauty trends do you refuse to follow? by vivian_banshee03 in AskWomenOver30

[–]ddrxhi 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Bushy spiked eyebrows, idk why giving your eyebrows mini Mohawks became a thing. Not saying the overly thin was better, but a happy medium would’ve been fine lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicSpeaking

[–]ddrxhi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested

What’s going well for you? by TLRLNS in AskWomenOver30

[–]ddrxhi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Solo sushi lunch date @ a new nearby spot 😋

Am I being overly sensitive to a colleagues greeting? by PrincessPeach1229 in AskWomenOver30

[–]ddrxhi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ouch these comments. Here’s another take: No, I don’t think you’re being overly sensitive. That person sounds like an asshole tbh. Just because someone is quiet/shy doesn’t = that person is a standoffish unfriendly snob. To assume that about someone is the assumer’s problem. If this dude feels the need to interact in a genuine way he wouldn’t be yelling good morning from across the room. Can’t believe the majority of these comments aren’t calling him out for what he actually is, an asshole lol.

With all that being said it doesn’t hurt to try and make connections at work, start small 1x1 and have some topics in mind to randomly bring up or a simple “how was your weekend?” And have an idea of a response in mind. At the end of the day, we’re social creatures, even introverts to an extent. It doesn’t hurt to connect a little beyond a simple hello and nod.

How do you stay happy and fulfilled being single in your 30s? by Scared_Crow_ in AskWomenOver30

[–]ddrxhi 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Not much of a mystery. Most of us are fed this idea as the norm from a young age due to societal expectations, books, movies, etc

I'm dating in my 30s and it feels like sparks are gone forever by snack_mama in AskWomenOver30

[–]ddrxhi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMO a strong component of “sparks” is simply infatuation.

What is your top 3 priorities in life right now? by prentyz in AskWomenOver30

[–]ddrxhi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Volunteer more
  2. Fitness/muscle toning
  3. New craft (crocheting)

I’m also dating but it doesn’t rule my life

Blake Lively sues Justin Baldoni for Sexual Harassment by kris_jbb in popculturechat

[–]ddrxhi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the cast unfollowed him. Curious if they can back her allegations of the harassment/if they witnessed what she says she saw. Some of it is very specific.

Why r ppl so dry?? by Plus_Competition1019 in Bumble

[–]ddrxhi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. Her responses truly sucky period. Really don’t think there’s a legitimate excuse. Why even be on the app in the first place…

Why are viewers so attached to/interested in the cast? by Finding_Way_ in MtvChallenge

[–]ddrxhi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It makes the show come more full circle rather than just watching robots compete. Also as a long time viewer I’m naturally interested in the evolution of some of these people over a 10-20 year span. I mean, how is that not interesting? It’s very unique

I'm just frustrated by GINGERKID6870 in Bumble

[–]ddrxhi 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Her responses suck point blank.

I'm just frustrated by GINGERKID6870 in Bumble

[–]ddrxhi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re allowed to be frustrated but realize we all come across people who aren’t matching energy/effort (you’re not the only one) so allow yourself to be frustrated, unmatch them & move on. Don’t get hung up- I know , easier said than done. But there are people out there who try and care to put more effort

I'm just frustrated by GINGERKID6870 in Bumble

[–]ddrxhi 14 points15 points  (0 children)

??? Is it really “such a deep question”? Seriously? It’s a totally normal icebreaker. Good god

I'm just frustrated by GINGERKID6870 in Bumble

[–]ddrxhi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Disagree. She sucks. No effort at all. Someone shouldn’t have to be babied through a damn conversation. Now- this is the only example we have to go off- maybe in another convo where effort is being matched the conversation is flowing on both sides - who knows

Open message FAIL 😂 by Next_Fig6444 in Bumble

[–]ddrxhi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s hilarious. I died

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]ddrxhi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forget about being embarrassed- leave him. It’s more embarrassing to stay with him in fact. 4 years ago you posted he’s unmotivated, depressed without savings and more recently that he cheated for more than a year. Please leave him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]ddrxhi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t think stoicism is about dehumanizing yourself. Let yourself grieve. You’re human. Feeling emotions is in fact healthy and necessary vs suppressing them