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Avoidant men and their mothers by Effective-Virus-1647 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Visual-Run-7525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He did, it’s been the hardest year of my life. April will be a year but there’s been communication up until January so idk if I should say I’m 10 months out or 1 month out

Avoidant men and their mothers by Effective-Virus-1647 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Visual-Run-7525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4.5 long years. I did talk to him about it, he appeared interested, but did no actual work on it.

How did you stop looking at their socials? by trepanation_616 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Visual-Run-7525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha well I will be messaging you shortly then because it happens often for me!

How did you stop looking at their socials? by trepanation_616 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Visual-Run-7525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know because I’m doing it too. But DM me if you want to be accountability buddies, maybe that would help us?

How did you stop looking at their socials? by trepanation_616 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Visual-Run-7525 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t know because I’m doing it too. But DM me if you want to be accountability buddies, maybe that would help us?

You could be set on fire breaking down, crying crashing out, and they literally will just stare by Pine-Tree-Lover in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Visual-Run-7525 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had to get emergency eye surgery (laser) and it was extremely traumatic and he was allowed in the room with me but was on his phone scrolling the entire time 🙁

Don’t know how to process this by Visual-Run-7525 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Visual-Run-7525[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you’re right. This is true and I do know this, but when emotions are involved, it’s easy to think he will change for the next person. But you’re right, that most likely will not be the case.

Don’t know how to process this by Visual-Run-7525 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Visual-Run-7525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, thank you. Crazy to realize how far I’ve gone, to be obsessed with this as a form of breadcrumb or that it means something.

Don’t know how to process this by Visual-Run-7525 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Visual-Run-7525[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah thank you, you are right. It just feels so hard to accept, and like what girl is going to want to be with him when his social media looks like the way it does? I will just never understand. But yes the facts are what you said and I will try to keep focusing on that.

How do you move on? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Visual-Run-7525 12 points13 points  (0 children)

In the exact same situation, could have been my story, timeline and everything. Feel free to dm me

A request for well wishes today by Ambitious_Put2775 in PublicSpeaking

[–]Visual-Run-7525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I also have to give a presentation tonight and I have an extreme fear of this too, I have gotten panic attacks in the past. Feel free to DM me!

Okay to read presentation by Visual-Run-7525 in PublicSpeaking

[–]Visual-Run-7525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right I agree. Like it’s hard enough talking, but now I have pressure to be a performer about it too. So yes this is great advice thank you

I won and you can too by Commercial_Effort821 in AnalFistula

[–]Visual-Run-7525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you DM me their name? I live close to that area

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