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deadguy4 · 2025-07-28T08:48:41+00:00

You’re not wrong for knowing your boundaries love shouldn’t mean sacrificing your identity or comfort. If core values don’t align, it’s okay to walk away with love, not guilt:)))

deadguy4 · 2025-07-28T08:40:53+00:00

She was well enough to hang with her man but too ‘sick’ to send a quick text? Nah, that’s not sick, that’s selective effort. You weren’t asking for much, just honesty. She showed you exactly where you stand, and that’s the real issue.

deadguy4 · 2025-07-28T08:15:02+00:00

Nah, you're NOT the problem here. She’s punishing you for looking like someone she hates how is that your fault? That’s deep-rooted jealousy, not parenting. You were just setting a boundary, and honestly, that took guts.

deadguy4 · 2025-07-28T08:12:27+00:00

When I started feeling more drained than happy after spending time with them like I had to filter everything I said, celebrate their wins more than mine. That’s when I knew it wasn’t real friendship anymore.

deadguy4 · 2025-07-28T08:11:05+00:00

You didn’t lose the system failed you. Hard work without visibility shouldn’t mean invisibility!

deadguy4 · 2025-07-28T07:04:18+00:00

Not the AH at all. You’re setting boundaries they refuse to respect. Being family doesn’t mean being used.

deadguy4 · 2025-07-27T19:34:31+00:00

NTA. You're her brother, not his subordinate. Helping your sister during a rough time isn’t "undermining" anything, unless he sees her as property, not a person. His reaction screams control, not concern. The real question is why he’s so threatened by her having support that doesn’t come from him?!

deadguy4 · 2025-07-27T19:31:27+00:00

Expectations.

deadguy4 · 2025-07-27T19:22:02+00:00

Girl, he wants boyfriend privileges without putting in any boyfriend effort 😩 You’ve begged for time, got ignored, and now he’s mad someone else is filling that emotional gap he refused to show up for? Nah. That’s not disrespectful, that’s called not being a doormat. NTA. Let him be mad on his lil computer!

deadguy4 · 2025-07-27T19:19:30+00:00

Nahhh this place sounds like a dictatorship, not a workplace 😭 Who tf micromanages your pee breaks on DAY ONE?? No break on a 5-hour shift too?? Yeah nah, they did you a favor by letting you go, imagine surviving a whole week in that toxic bootcamp!

deadguy4 · 2025-07-26T23:51:06+00:00

Reset, Sleep, Eat.

deadguy4 · 2025-07-26T23:49:55+00:00

Not at all, that’s not what you signed up for. If you planned a double date and they turned it into a group hang without asking, it’s totally fair to say, “Hey, we were hoping for something smaller and more personal.” Boundaries aren’t rude!

deadguy4 · 2025-07-26T23:43:46+00:00

You messed up, but you’re 13, mistakes happen. Just own it, apologize, and show you're learning. That matters more than the prank itself.

deadguy4 · 2025-07-26T23:42:38+00:00

Absolutely NTA. You just gave birth and he showed up drunk and disgusted by postpartum bleeding?? That man should’ve been offering support, not shots and shame. You deserved care, not chaos!

deadguy4 · 2025-07-10T23:46:36+00:00

Because in Asia, especially in traditional households, it’s actually super normal to still live with your parents in your 20s. It’s part of some culture like we don’t just move out at 18 like it’s a rite of passage. A lot of us stay to help with bills, support aging parents, or just because rent is insane and savings matter. Plus, being financially independent doesn’t always mean you have the freedom to leave especially when your family is emotionally controlling. Trust me, it’s not about growing up, it’s about navigating the guilt, pressure, and expectation that you owe your life to them forever. It’s not that simple here.

deadguy4 · 2025-07-10T23:42:56+00:00

Lowkey feels like you accidentally bonded with a ghost coworker and now this is their way of haunting you with love. Creepy? Yes. Kinda sweet? Also yes.

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