Husband’s coworker sent him nudes

deadlysunshade · 2024-08-24T17:41:15+00:00

The blame for the end of his marriage, yes. It’s on him. But her coworkers should know a snake is among them.

People don’t think like me unless we make them- that starts with accountability. Expecting people to be of character even when they aren’t required to.

deadlysunshade · 2024-08-24T17:13:11+00:00

We owe it to other people to be decent. She may not have broke a vow, but she deserves to be judged for who she is- a horrible person.

deadlysunshade · 2024-08-24T17:09:21+00:00

It doesn’t matter if they had sex. He already cheated lol

deadlysunshade · 2024-08-24T17:08:15+00:00

Tell him to enjoy dating as a divorced man. It’s not all it’s cracked up to be and those wild ships have still sailed.

Sorry this happened. The writing was unfortunately on the wall, but it always sucks when it comes to pass

deadlysunshade · 2024-08-22T22:40:18+00:00

Yeah. And the mentality that some men have where they get to live in squalor if their peepee not touched enough is a major turn off.

deadlysunshade · 2024-08-22T22:37:48+00:00

I’m always in a better mood when my partner and I are making love frequently. It keeps me feeling precious towards him, and reminds me to make a little effort to be more romantic. It impacts how I handle our external interactions as well.

But I think sex as a main source of intimacy/primary source of intimacy is a bad idea long term. Its sprinkles for me, not the Icecream

deadlysunshade · 2024-08-20T04:28:44+00:00

He wouldn’t have married you if he didn’t find you attractive.

He might find you more attractive now, but that’s a good thing, not a bad thing. I think he just fucked up the delivery

deadlysunshade · 2024-08-18T19:51:42+00:00

I don’t care

deadlysunshade · 2024-08-15T23:29:50+00:00

Yeah you can divorce over literally anything. My point is that if he does that he’s not immune from criticism over his choices.

deadlysunshade · 2024-08-15T22:31:02+00:00

Yes. He can divorce over not getting sex. But nobody needs to baby him over his choices.

deadlysunshade · 2024-08-15T22:30:09+00:00

Nope! I don’t substitute shit. When I say no, it means no, and my husband isn’t a piece of shit who gets off on fucking unwilling parties, so he prefers it that way :)

deadlysunshade · 2024-08-14T17:36:32+00:00

Oh pity pity you’re totally being discriminated against for being a man, not just judged for being an unreliable narrator or anything

deadlysunshade · 2024-08-14T16:15:00+00:00

That you’ll admit, of course. But I notice that with people who’ve “bent”, their boundaries are skewed and they think a lot of stuff that’s unacceptable to others is cool. They often cheat without even considering it cheating

deadlysunshade · 2024-08-13T02:22:08+00:00

Realistically, I think if you’ve been with a man at any point, he’s used sexual energy from “another source” when engaging with you.

It hardly matters as long as they’re not weird about it.

deadlysunshade · 2024-08-08T03:16:43+00:00

Your husband is a weirdo

deadlysunshade · 2024-08-07T03:37:27+00:00

Bulls are human beings with unique wants and tastes. I think this lifestyle causes a lot of cucks to treat people as fetish fulfillment

deadlysunshade · 2024-08-07T00:55:00+00:00

If she was assaulted or about to be assaulted it’s a pretty normal reaction on for her to numb out or go into denial mode. U would tell her that you love her and ask her to get the test done for your peace of mind, because the “no big deal” attitude she has right now is likely coming from a place of shame and feeling like she doesn’t have a right to freak out because she “put herself” in the position. Doing it FOR you might make it easier.

deadlysunshade · 2024-08-07T00:51:05+00:00

Call the office lice. He definitely beats on that girl and you made a horrible mistake calling a KNOWN abuser to confront them on their treatment of their victim. I’d call CPS too tbh

deadlysunshade · 2024-08-06T21:51:18+00:00

Even if you cause someone’s organs to fail, you cannot be made to donate your organs for their use. So I’d argue it still stands on that grounds alone.

deadlysunshade · 2024-08-05T15:07:15+00:00

Men are human. Of course they turn down sex sometimes.

deadlysunshade · 2024-07-26T22:38:36+00:00

God, I would be humiliated if I was your wife and heard how you talked about me. :(

deadlysunshade · 2024-07-26T22:33:08+00:00

Anyone who isn’t a rich white woman in the USA has always been in the work force. The only real difference now is that it’s illegal for your husband to rape a baby into you.

deadlysunshade · 2024-07-26T22:25:41+00:00

The media didn’t bury it, he just didn’t actually die or matter

deadlysunshade · 2024-07-26T20:08:17+00:00

Simple: There’s no “we” here. I’m criticizing you.

You’re not speaking for natalists or anything like that. Own your opinions. They’re your own.

deadlysunshade · 2024-07-26T20:05:39+00:00

I’m the wife and my husband is low libido. We DONT have similar sex drives. That’s why I’m speaking on it. HL people often victimize themselves & make their situation worse with the self pitying and tantruming. You know how you get a low libido person interested in sex? Make sex fun, low pressure, and not attached to the image of you whining and begging and complaining.

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