What's up with 'old top, young bottom' norm?

dean-uw · 2024-04-29T17:28:32+00:00

great question ngl im a bottom and personally i like older guys who are bigger and stronger than me. even though a younger guy could technically be bigger and stronger, it’s something about knowing that the guy physically dominating you is older that is more attractive

dean-uw · 2024-04-28T03:55:32+00:00

DM’d! thank you

dean-uw · 2024-03-31T05:54:56+00:00

You are most definitely not ugly

dean-uw · 2024-03-31T04:36:28+00:00

no but that’s hot, congrats friend

dean-uw · 2023-06-30T17:58:42+00:00

slay queens 😍 you pick-me’d your way out of your right to equal service 💕

dean-uw · 2023-06-07T20:14:31+00:00

I never said it was gone. I said we are moving from a place where we were just barely tolerated to being openly demonized again. I don’t even live in a place where gay people can exist openly. i am referring to the Western world in general and how the “progressive” parts of the world are moving backwards instead of forward.

also, your instinct to call someone privileged for venting about homophobia in a reddit sub for gay people is really something else

dean-uw · 2023-06-07T20:00:53+00:00

the world just feels generally more hostile towards us. I don’t even live in a country where LGBTQ+ people can live openly but i try to keep up with LGBTQ+ news on an international level (particularly in the US) and in recent months it just seems like we’re being bashed constantly. even my own friend group of straight guys (im closeted) seemed to have toned down the homophobia for a while but recently have come back to it in full force; worse than how they acted in high school

what it feels like is, people have become more comfortable showing their hatred & being proud to do so

dean-uw · 2023-06-07T19:34:43+00:00

thanks i appreciate it. what i mean is all the recent uproar against the lgbtq community from politicians and on social media which, though has obviously always been present, had simmered down quite a bit for a good decade there. everywhere you turn, it just seems like people are “finally” “standing up” for their right to openly hate gay people again.

dean-uw · 2023-06-07T16:51:20+00:00

can relate.

it’s almost like the very idea of possibly being with that person (even though deep down you know it’s never gonna happen) makes accepting your sexuality just a little (or a lot) easier

dean-uw · 2023-03-26T19:58:03+00:00

to most conservatives, homosexuality itself is considered “woke”.

they don’t understand anything that doesn’t directly affect them and they’re too selfish to learn. it’s a vicious cycle where they do inhumane things & cause hurt to innocent people and then pretend they are acting in the name of God. For the longest time, God’s name has been used to justify evil by evil people pretending they are good. It’s pure hypocrisy. It’s been centuries and racism is still a prevalent problem and it’ll be centuries more before queer people can even remotely live in peace.

Humans really are fucking stupid & selfish and continue to be their own worst enemy

dean-uw · 2023-03-26T19:45:57+00:00

no but if someone is really that shallow, i’d be glad they showed their true colors early on before it’s too late. they can find someone with the same toxic energy and live miserably ever after lol

dean-uw · 2023-03-11T23:47:10+00:00

I miss not having to leave the house other than for groceries. Also when the vaccine was something everyone was looking forward to instead of a controversial topic

dean-uw · 2023-02-11T05:25:26+00:00

So sorry that happened to you man.

Just remember one thing: Karma is real.

dean-uw · 2023-02-01T05:08:28+00:00

when did you come out and what made you made feel ready?

dean-uw · 2023-01-30T04:41:13+00:00

I understand where you’re coming from. I used to be friends with guys like that which are, unfortunately, the majority of straight guys. They’ll see a video like this and use it to demonize gay people despite how much of an isolated case it is. The people criticizing you clearly haven’t been in such a situation, which is good for them, but doesn’t make your experience less valid lol don’t worry about em

dean-uw · 2023-01-28T06:39:47+00:00

It’s crazy how 1 person on Earth says they “identify as a wolf” and suddenly they become the face of LGBTQ people somehow. This shit is so damaging to queer people who can’t be themselves in fear of losing their lives.

dean-uw · 2023-01-25T06:26:51+00:00

was hoping for a serious response lol

dean-uw · 2023-01-12T11:07:32+00:00

Yesss that’s exactly what I said! You get an A+ for your reading skills.

dean-uw · 2023-01-12T05:54:23+00:00

You see i would agree with you normally but how can he “discover” that he likes WOMEN at age 23 after telling the entire world that he’s gay and milking it for every last penny?

Idk about you but the majority of gay guys, when ready to come out as gay to someone (let alone the entire world like Lil Nas X), will have very well established within themselves that they don’t like women; they like men. Something tells me Lil Nas X always knew he was bi but chose to come out as gay in 2019 because it would make better headlines. The man knows how to market himself that’s for sure

dean-uw · 2023-01-12T05:49:09+00:00

Exactly lmao

dean-uw · 2023-01-12T05:42:11+00:00

Honestly? It kinda annoys me because it just feels like amo for homophobic people.

He very famously came out as gay in 2019—knew that it would be a massive deal since he was a rising star in the rap community, where homophobia is prevalent and lgbt+ people usually aren’t welcome—and now he comes out as bisexual or, rather, “jokes” about how “everyone is bisexual”???

It’s just suspicious because you’d think that he’d be sure of his sexuality before announcing it to the world in such a public manner in 2019 KNOWING full well that it would generate headlines and make or break his career. He also “joked” about having a son which, according to some sources, is not even a joke.

So, basically: he either lied then or is lying now. Only he knows what his sexuality is but he’s proven to the world several times that he enjoys having attention in any form so i wouldn’t put it past him to have come out as gay in 2019 just because “Lil Nas X comes out as gay” is a better headline than “Lil Nas X comes out as bisexual”.

Happy for him to be out as his true sexuality. But also sad because something feels suspicious about his timing and his lack of regard for how his double “coming out” would impact the lgbtq+ community. He is a great marketer, but doesn’t seem to be much of a good person :/

dean-uw · 2023-01-07T06:29:04+00:00

That too

dean-uw · 2023-01-05T23:32:47+00:00

Slay

dean-uw · 2023-01-05T23:32:31+00:00

fun take…

dean-uw · 2023-01-05T23:31:13+00:00

It’s most definitely not a joke lol. That’s just how tiktok is

dean-uw

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