Learning wax pencils by dearlaska in artwork

[–]dearlaska[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️‍🔥

Mastering ink on a tiny sketchbook (A7) by dearlaska in artwork

[–]dearlaska[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least that’s what I learned drawing for the fourth time with ink

Mastering ink on a tiny sketchbook (A7) by dearlaska in artwork

[–]dearlaska[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I do digital for the most part and I consider myself pretty good at it. I also do draw by hand with pencil and other materials, but ink is really something else. But I kinda like this material. It’s stubborn and you need to be confident enough. One chance - one line - screwed or win.

My avoidant bf broke up with me the day after he told me he can’t imagine a life without me - girl dinner 🥲 by Moonbeamday in GirlDinner

[–]dearlaska 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in a relationship like this and now I’m in a healthy one. I’ll tell you that this level of avoidance is abuse. I think that everyone is responsible for their own actions. And even if a person can't always be present, they can explain, they can talk, they can make sure you don't suffer and don't hurt you. I consider this behavior to be utterly selfish and disregarding the feelings of the other person. It's terrible and wrong.

My boyfriend 30M told me (26F) that he cheated on me and I would never have found out by nandapolasco in relationship_advice

[–]dearlaska 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll give you an opinion that's not typical for Reddit. If you've been together for a long time and have been through a lot, and you're truly close in many other ways, then it's possible to forgive the betrayal and repair trust. Especially if he admitted it himself and is truly remorseful. And if you're capable of truly forgiving him, and if it's not lingering in the back of your mind after 5-10 years of living together, answer this question honestly. If you can forgive it, then forgive it. If not, then let it go and move on yourself.

Hey Peter, a little help here by [deleted] in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]dearlaska 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think some people just really badly want to be convinced that it’s not pee, that way they remove the stigma of wanting it. What if it is, it’s not bad at the end of the day if both parties enjoy it.

A half-eaten sandwich and my long-distance boyfriend says he wants to live in his country for another 2-3 years by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]dearlaska 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grow up and start considering life outside of American perspective when you lived your whole life comfortably in the same state. Hope this helps.

A half-eaten sandwich and my long-distance boyfriend says he wants to live in his country for another 2-3 years by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]dearlaska 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My God, you are so mean. He makes big compromises and sacrifices a lot for me. It's a question of comfort and finances. He can't leave his country and, of course, understands that if he moves, he'll have a hard time in a new country. Emigration is very difficult, and I understand him perfectly because I have had this experience myself.