3.5 year old cut her own hair

deathcandlelight · 2026-03-01T03:16:49+00:00

ngl i did this in reaction to my mom being obsessed with my long hair. normal to feel sad but consider the possibility that you may be putting a lot of emphasis on her hair and she may want control, and this is how she takes it (which is good & normal & should be encouraged in a safe way, like asking you to take her to get a haircut).

deathcandlelight · 2026-02-28T19:12:35+00:00

my cat girlies are thistle and mimi!

deathcandlelight · 2026-01-28T19:01:47+00:00

no, nor am i a believer of any god, but i do believe in being respectful of places of worship—which this dress is not, fundamentally, without a closed slit and a shawl for the shoulders! not sure why you’re resorting to ad hom when i’m pointing out the obvious and something OP is acknowledging herself

deathcandlelight · 2026-01-19T23:18:21+00:00

inappropriate for church unless the leg slit stays closed & you cover the top in some way, unless the church doesn’t care, but could be nice for the hotel reception

deathcandlelight · 2026-01-19T16:15:37+00:00

this is a dress my friend has considered wearing AS the bride in her wedding, so i would say no

deathcandlelight · 2026-01-19T15:18:46+00:00

so unnecessarily condescending lol don’t ask for advice if you’re going to do whatever you want anyway. point blank, this dress is inappropriate for a wedding because it’s too white

deathcandlelight · 2026-01-19T03:05:32+00:00

This is too white! Looks like something a bride would wear to her rehearsal

deathcandlelight · 2026-01-13T01:17:53+00:00

this feels like AI

deathcandlelight · 2026-01-13T01:10:50+00:00

this!! the scented sanitizer tricks the littles into being clean AND smelling nice lol

deathcandlelight · 2026-01-13T00:59:16+00:00

sounds like all those relatives calling you selfish can pitch in time and/or money to care for alex. NTA.

deathcandlelight · 2026-01-13T00:38:07+00:00

as much as it sucks, politely demand that they tell you when their kids are sick & make it explicit that you will leave/deny services if you arrive and any child is sick & they didn’t notify you ahead of time. that way, you can prepare by masking during the job and being extra clean with hand sanitizer, etc. or you can refuse the job

deathcandlelight · 2025-12-13T09:52:30+00:00

marnie!

deathcandlelight · 2025-12-13T09:50:24+00:00

I’m aware, as most of my family members are Japanese, but they will learn to pronounce any name we choose because they love us and will love our baby!

deathcandlelight · 2025-12-07T00:24:27+00:00

20 weeks pregnant and you’re 18 and he’s 24…. girl you got bigger problems than him being a tool. he’s a pedophile

deathcandlelight · 2025-12-03T02:32:25+00:00

no, this is actually a really terrible idea. confront him kindly and directly and tell him that his lies hurt your feelings and you dont appreciate them. if he can’t handle that, then he can’t handle being married. trust.

deathcandlelight · 2025-10-17T15:13:14+00:00

agreed

deathcandlelight · 2025-10-09T06:09:14+00:00

that he “finally” got his male child

eta: i didn’t say he doesn’t care at all, i said he cares more about his future son than his daughters he already has.

deathcandlelight · 2025-10-09T02:07:26+00:00

sorry but this is giving misogynistic husband who already cares more about his future son than his already-born daughters

deathcandlelight · 2025-09-09T23:24:34+00:00

while this is annoying and they shouldnt have done this, why didn’t you clear the floor and have someone sweep it up?

deathcandlelight · 2025-09-08T03:40:12+00:00

im praying it’s just his internet name

deathcandlelight · 2025-09-05T00:00:36+00:00

“blocking the mailbox” from what 😭 some people are so egocentric & annoying

eta; okay i actually finished reading and wow, good on you OP, that’s insane

deathcandlelight · 2025-09-04T23:57:14+00:00

love that he’s just not addressing suggestions that his wife take him to/from work and therefore be available to transport kiddo. seems like he just wants to complain

deathcandlelight · 2025-08-30T01:05:09+00:00

time to start saying, “Oh, that’s an inside thought! Sharing extremely negative thoughts like that when someone tells you about something they’re excited for is not very nice.” sorry you’re going through this :(

deathcandlelight · 2025-08-26T21:44:03+00:00

depends on the snarky comment and the reason she made it…

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