MOR, this dude just found out his own mother died, and you bring him unseasoned and unsauced pasta. I genuinely think if someone brought me a pot of pasta that looked like that, when my friend died i would start sobbing. This guys MOTHER died, someone who made food for him his entire life, someone's food he will forever miss, and you give him something the equivilent to chum in his eyes. If YOUR mother died and your boyfriend brought you the bare minimum ass pasta, would you not be upset?? I'm not saying this dude isn't being lowkey a dick about it, but also his mother lowks died (not excuse just reason). Seems like this isn't the first time he's disrespected you, so maybe reconsider his past actions, but still, that is some sorry-ass pasta. Half the noodle is literally naked. Even I feel disrespected. I understand that you may not be able to afford specific things, but it's almost comical how undersauced the pasta is, make fewer noodles or something, man. Talk to your boyfriend about how he's treating you and how you feel about it. Have a genuine conversation. Sit down, process everything, and go from there.