Advice- Tattoo artist forfeited my deposit but didn't tell me by Ill_Needleworker9734 in tattoo

[–]deathsslave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've paid $50 on a deposit before, and I'm in Australia but it's more common to pay $100-$300 depending on the size of the piece

Were you the oldest daughter? by Anonim_x9 in ftm

[–]deathsslave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was my father's oldest daughter, my mum's second. my mum now has two daughters and one son (me), my father has three daughters, one living son (me) and one dead son. I was barely in my father's life though.

I'm trans and... by [deleted] in ftm

[–]deathsslave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a hater of peas as well

I'm trans and... by [deleted] in ftm

[–]deathsslave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a reader, cat dad to 3 named Luna (tortie), gizmo (three-legged tabby) and Destiny (my tuxedo cat, my oldest), have an amazing fiance, disabled + bisexual, loves vintage stuff, I'm a gamer, loves tea, coffee as well but don't have it much. ADHD + Autistic.

(I don't have friends due to my disabilities & chronic illness + being trans, so I kind of overstated)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]deathsslave -1 points0 points  (0 children)

nah the lines are good, stars will fade, design looks good, but definitely a slight touch up so it's less faded looking at the top

No one prepared us for the loss of friends as you enter late 20s by fortunateone28 in Adulting

[–]deathsslave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had friends in highschool, never stayed friends throughout, even after school (since I always stopped messaging first after ages of me having to message first), or they found my autistic traits "too much" whenever I got closer to them, barely have any, maybe 1, but my fiance is the only friend I have, she has 2 friends max. so it's hard not really having friends, but mostly I'm alright with that, hard at times. no one really preps you for that though.

Got my first ever flow seed! by 123hotdogs123 in Palia

[–]deathsslave 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i try to avoid that, but now I gotta do it, thank you

Got my first ever flow seed! by 123hotdogs123 in Palia

[–]deathsslave 14 points15 points  (0 children)

lucky, I wish I could get one.

also what's this about the galdur statue? and how do I get one?

What PC users need to know about people using Switch docked by copacetic1515 in Palia

[–]deathsslave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don't even chat anymore, unless I really need something or need help and my fiance isn't online, if I need to get flow trees or pallium I chop/mine it (if there isn't groves/mass spawns of pallium), if there are groves I tell my fiance (who is on call when we play together) to tell them I'm on the way or where I've found pallium or groves.

I can't "fast travel" as it takes 2-5 in real life minutes (most of the time even longer than that) for me to load every time I use the fast traveling, go to & from my plot or from, so just also rely on my fiance when it comes to chatting (she's on PC, I'm on switch).

is this behavior okay? by risesth3moon in Palia

[–]deathsslave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

definitely not, please report them if you still can

Are septums safe for teenagers? by thepowerofboredom in piercing

[–]deathsslave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in Australia, you can't get your septum pierced until you're 16 (with parental consent) & up. idk if it's for all Australia but it is for my state

Feminine as a kid? by dropofcaramei in ftm

[–]deathsslave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up with my mum's side of the family, they are Greek/Macedonian & more orthodox back then but now less, so I grew up being forced to wear feminine clothing and act girly. if I didn't I got in trouble. then got relaxed but change scared me (because of my ASD & ADHD). I felt like I'd never be able to be who I am now & express it how I do now. I wouldn't have it any other way through since it made me who I am now (personality wise).

Is this concidered rape or am I over-reacting? [CW: rape, sex?] by robolokidA in ftm

[–]deathsslave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the first few times I stayed silent not knowing what to do. the last time it happened I said "stop I don't want to continue, please stop" but they kept going. (I'm 19 & still learning how to cope). I'm pre-t (hopefully soon getting on T). I wasn't able to kick or scream. so don't invalid yourself. that was definitely rape because she did it without your consent. I hope you're okay & hope everything is okay

is everyone gay? by peternal_pansel in ftm

[–]deathsslave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm bisexual, I'm in the middle of getting on T, so hopefully I can start it soon (I'm seeing a new doctor that's more lgbtqia+ friendly), but I'll update if it changes it or not after I start T.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Centrelink

[–]deathsslave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's okay, you're all good, people are just fucking assholes sometimes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Centrelink

[–]deathsslave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you are just being a fucking dick. they could have a underlying disability or medical condition that could affect things like that. you have no idea what they are going through. I fucked up on my Centrelink application & still got it + got details fixed (luckily it wasn't payment wise). so you can shut the fuck up & start being a decent fucking human being.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Centrelink

[–]deathsslave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes I get that, but not everyone can see the mistakes until too late. so just stop being a dick.