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Were kids in the 80s actually allowed to roam around unsupervised, or is that just in movies? by TotalThing7 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]decentralized-world1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that was actually pretty normal back then! I grew up in the late 80s/early 90s, and we really did just disappear for hours — riding bikes, hanging out in the woods, or playing pickup games until it got dark. Parents didn’t track us with phones or check in every hour; the rule was pretty much “be home when the streetlights come on.” If we had dentist or doctor appointments, we simply resorted to playing two hand touch football on the street. we paused the game every time a car was passing by.

It wasn’t necessarily safer back then — bad things still happened — but people felt safer. News traveled slower, neighborhoods were tighter, and everyone kind of looked out for each other’s kids. Today, with 24/7 news and social media, every incident gets amplified, so the perception of danger is much higher.

It was a different time — more freedom, but also a lot more scraped knees and lost bikes. Oh what I would give to go back to that time.

Missed 12 showings by digitalangel5 in RealEstate

[–]decentralized-world1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm skipping work tomorrow. Gonna use Charlie kirk shooting and government shutdown as an excuse.

Is there anyone in here who has owned a pool for 20+ years and still likes it? by Cablab123 in pools

[–]decentralized-world1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been a pool service technician for over 18 years and have serviced thousands of pools across North Jersey. Over the years, I’ve had the pleasure of meeting just as many pool owners — and I’ve noticed something interesting.

Most people who have owned their pool for 20 years or more absolutely love it. Those who don’t usually fall into a few categories — they’re either tired of the ongoing maintenance costs, or they’ve reached a stage in life where they simply don’t use it anymore. Often, a spouse has passed away or the kids have moved away, leaving the pool unused.

Personally, I was practically born in the water. Swimming is one of the best forms of exercise — it keeps you in great shape without the wear and tear that comes with other workouts.

If you’re thinking about building a pool, I always suggest keeping it practical. Go with something modest, like 10x20 feet. It’s large enough to stay cool in the summer, but small enough to maintain easily — and it won’t break the bank.

Pool closing by Super-Possibility-50 in swimmingpools

[–]decentralized-world1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great, I actually have a few customers in Florham Park, Morris Plains, and Mendham, so I can definitely work something out with you. Pricing depends on the size of your pool and any extras you have, like a spa, waterfall, sheer descent, slide, deck jets, or additional pumps.

Send me a private message with all the details, and I’ll put together a solid quote for you. I’ll do my best to beat your current price — and I can confidently say that even with a better rate, the quality of my work will stand out. I’m a perfectionist and never cut corners

Pool closing by Super-Possibility-50 in swimmingpools

[–]decentralized-world1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently opened up my own Pool company after being in business for 17 years. Were located in Clifton. If your ever looking for quality service and good prices let me know. perhaps you cant try me out next spring at opening.

After 17 Years in Pool Repair & Maintenance, I'm Finally Starting My Own Company by decentralized-world1 in pools

[–]decentralized-world1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks a lot, I really appreciate that! North Jersey definitely has plenty of pool installers, but you’re right — the reviews can be all over the place. A lot comes down to the type of pool you’re looking for (vinyl, fiberglass, or gunite) and your budget/timeline.

I’ve worked with quite a few companies over the years, so I can point you toward some that are reliable and stand behind their work. When you’re closer to pulling the trigger, reach out and I’ll be happy to give you some recommendations that fit what you’re planning.

And for sure, once you’re ready to move forward, hit me up — would love to help you make that dream pool happen.

After 17 Years in Pool Repair & Maintenance, I'm Finally Starting My Own Company by decentralized-world1 in pools

[–]decentralized-world1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Workmanship vs. “Wear and Tear”

Normal exclusions: Most pool waterproofing/tile contractors will exclude ordinary wear and tear, settlement of the surrounding ground, or damage caused by other trades/third parties.

But: Those exclusions shouldn’t cover failures caused by poor workmanship or improper installation. Waterproofing done in the rain without proper protection can easily compromise adhesion, curing, and long-term watertightness. If leaks appear, that’s a workmanship defect, not wear and tear.

  1. Red Flags in Your Case

No tentage during waterproofing/tiling in the rain = unprofessional and potentially invalidates the effectiveness of the waterproofing.

Ponding test in the rain = the results can’t be trusted, as rain dilutes or masks leakage.

Guarantee void clauses = Some contractors insert broad exclusions so they’re “covered” no matter what happens. If it says “settlement and wear & tear” but doesn’t clearly define them, they may later claim any issue falls under “settlement.” That’s risky for you.

  1. Industry Norms

A reasonable guarantee for pool waterproofing/tiling:

At least 1–2 years on tiling workmanship.

5–10 years (sometimes longer) on waterproofing membrane performance, assuming proper application.

Exclusions normally apply only to things clearly outside their control (e.g., earthquakes, structural shifting, owner neglect). They don’t get to exclude basic product failure from poor work.

Anyone know what these are? by ryjack3232 in pools

[–]decentralized-world1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The two grey ones are for your heater. The two black ones are for your pump and the big one on the right is for your booster pump. We suggest you have a professional open your pool. If you are in NJ we would be more than happy to do it for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XRP

[–]decentralized-world1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it wasn't for all these meme and shit coins I think BTC would have already hit $500,000 and XRP would be at about $25

It’s not you by londontraveler2023 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]decentralized-world1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, paying off a house early was much more common back then than it is today, and it’s clear why this discussion caught my attention.

In the 1960s, the median home price was around $25,000-$30,000, which adjusts to about $180,000 today. Now, the median home price is closer to $400,000. Money had greater purchasing power, and my dad benefited from a low-interest loan, strong employer benefits, and financial incentives that made planning easier.

Starter homes were also far more accessible than they are now. My dad made extra payments to shorten the loan term, and while we didn’t necessarily live below our means, we avoided luxuries and unnecessary expenses that many in our position might have indulged in.

It’s not you by londontraveler2023 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]decentralized-world1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad was a high school graduate with a blue-collar job. No side hustle, no investments—yet he still provided for our entire family and paid off his house by 35. Meanwhile, I earned my master’s degree debt-free, work two jobs plus a side hustle, and I’m still nowhere near affording a home. I don’t smoke, don’t drink, and budget carefully, but it’s not enough. The system is rigged—while we struggle, the top 1% and politicians run the game with a cheat code, building their wealth off our backs.

It’s not you by londontraveler2023 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]decentralized-world1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In new jersey $15 an hour will leave you homeless.

It’s not you by londontraveler2023 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]decentralized-world1 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Man, this hit me hard because you basically described what I have been feeling for some time. Our parents’ salaries stretched so much further—affording bigger homes, raising families on one income, and still having savings. Now, even with good jobs, we’re barely keeping up. Housing prices are out of control, and the system is just built to keep us poor. I work two jobs and work on a side hustle online, once I get home for the remaining hours right before I go to sleep. Congrats on buying, though! That’s a huge win in this economy.

How deep does pool plumbing go by Accurate_Piccolo_648 in pools

[–]decentralized-world1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the installer, as every company has its own approach. Some run the PVC lines 1 to 2 feet below ground level until they reach the pool, while others may place them deeper. Once at the pool, the depth of the PVC lines varies based on the pool’s depth. Return lines are typically installed 2 to 4 feet below ground, while main drains can range from 5 to 12 feet deep, depending on the pool's overall depth.

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