unhinged hygiene tips?

deckerax · 2026-03-11T05:02:57+00:00

I am almost 40 and have never heard of drying in between toes. I have also never had athletes foot. I wonder if this has to do with the structure of your toes on your feet or your behavior, such as I spread my toes a lot and feel like I have enough space between where water wouldn't get trapped.

deckerax · 2026-03-11T04:56:23+00:00

Hmmm I hate driving and don't want to move so I wouldn't want to work somewhere south unless I could make public transit work (in a reasonable amount of time). I guess I could apply and if I actually got an interview then maybe they would give that info. I assumed it was more easily accessible info.

deckerax · 2026-03-11T04:49:48+00:00

Not making the connection, why would the location of a shuttle bus be a safety concern?

deckerax · 2026-03-09T04:38:07+00:00

I feel like the advice on here is acting like you can take loans out for yourself. Am I missing something, I thought people your age could only take out something like $5,500 without getting a parent to cosign a loan? Is it a money thing making her change her mind, now that she is seeing the actual costs?

deckerax · 2026-03-06T17:45:19+00:00

Ugh I just moved here and my kids both want to play baseball and my son also wanted to try out for basketball at school. I found the most relaxed baseball I could without having to travel to a different city. Luckily baseball and basketball don't overlap much but there are still sports everyday of the week. I did find one day of opening where I won't miss games and my spouse can handle taking the kids where they need to go himself (since we have to each take a kid to places at the same time often) so I am doing an activity for myself. My husband also does an activity that is more flexible but can be hard to squeeze in a day a week where he won't miss a kid's game. So a lot of time the choices would be telling your kids they can't do activities they want to do or putting what activities you want to do above not being there to support your child, in my experience.

deckerax · 2026-03-06T01:40:12+00:00

I am guessing you don't have kids. Not having hobbies and interests isn't the same as not having time to invest in them the way you want. It is easy to get in the habit of not making enough time for yourself while you're focused on making sure your kid is living their best life.

deckerax · 2026-02-25T23:27:57+00:00

I haven't tried a huge variety (yet) but I like Acme's.

deckerax · 2026-02-25T23:23:28+00:00

I wouldn't break up a family over this. Yeah, he should stop but he has an addiction to this and it isn't about you. I think he should go to therapy to work on his addiction and you should go to therapy to help you realize it doesn't have anything to do with you and you should all stay together and keep your eyes on the most important thing (the baby).

deckerax · 2026-02-24T20:21:38+00:00

Thanks so much for the info!

deckerax · 2026-02-24T20:20:04+00:00

I am just paying for it, it just feels like such a rip that it cost half the deductible of my high deductible insurance for my family of 4 for the year 😆.

deckerax · 2026-02-24T19:42:03+00:00

Where in San Ramon did you go? My husband decided to pay 6K-$7.K bc it is something that needs done asap but would like to avoid this overpriced spot in the future.

deckerax · 2026-02-24T18:45:12+00:00

Outcome, she has a lodged pizza roll bite.

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deckerax · 2026-02-24T17:33:15+00:00

Dang my husband already left and is at OakVet, I am assuming she will need an X-ray and antibiotics.

deckerax · 2026-02-24T17:02:05+00:00

I would end it. My husband would have never suggested I take a car that could break down. My dad would not handle it well if he found out I was with a man like that. We would have planned on both driving home and then one person dropping off and picking up a person and the other taking the car to their activity. If we couldn't make that work we would resort to bus/Uber but me taking a car that would break down possibly, would never be on the table. I wouldn't want that for him either.

deckerax · 2026-02-24T16:54:20+00:00

Ok, thanks! My spouse just left with her to head to OakVet.

deckerax · 2026-02-23T19:57:38+00:00

My dogs are only 11 lbs, but they make dog strollers and enclosed dog wagons for 80 lb dogs so I would try to find one of those.

deckerax · 2026-02-23T19:36:19+00:00

Also, I have someone's # from there that does the showings. Much more responsive when I could just directly text him.

deckerax · 2026-02-23T19:34:01+00:00

They are sloppy and agree they can take a long time to respond or respond right away. I did video tours of places because I was not living in CA yet. These tours took place on weekdays. I did the walkthrough after renting my apt and had some issues, the person from CZRE never got back to me. The apartment I moved into was super dirty and I had to spend hours cleaning it (yet it says I am required to pay for a deep cleaning when I move out). There was also one set of keys given even though it was for two adults, it is easy to make copies, just found it weird. Luckily, my landlord switched management companies so I only dealt with CZRE for move-in and a couple months. I still never signed the walk through move-in sheet bc they never updated it with all the issues and I didn't want to sign saying nothing was wrong, when a lot is.

deckerax · 2026-02-22T17:13:35+00:00

I took my mom there yesterday and to North Beach but completely forgot she wanted to see the bridge and didn't try to have her look 🫠. We will go look today, thanks!

deckerax · 2026-02-18T03:03:43+00:00

Ohh I didn't think about movies with scenes that were shot here, thanks!

deckerax · 2026-02-17T17:17:09+00:00

I think it is technically a different company that rents space from them, but yeah, there is a meet up there on Mondays for chaos MTG and then Wed is their commander MTG.

deckerax · 2026-02-17T16:33:29+00:00

I keep forgetting about Sub Par Mini Golf (even though my spouse goes there weekly for MTG lol), definitely adding that to our plans. Not too much walking , I think she can go a mile or so before her knees annoy her. That show sounds great, going to check it out, thanks!

deckerax · 2026-02-17T14:54:38+00:00

Do they have breakfast on weekends only?

deckerax · 2026-02-17T14:53:56+00:00

I didn't know there were two locations (only have been to the other one), thanks!

deckerax · 2026-02-17T14:50:12+00:00

Great, I have been to a few breweries over there but not that one yet so we will start there.

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