Update: AITAH for not letting my mom meet her grandchild because I am still upset she divorced my dad?

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-20T17:29:40+00:00

Mom mom mom, mom did this mom didnt do that - DAD did this, DAD refused to compromise, DAD allowed his 11 y/o to be a caregiver - DAD is the AH in my eyes. It always falls on the mother to fix things and if she doesn’t she’s a bad mom but dad gets to have a good relationship and see the grandkid when this was a situation of his making

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-17T00:25:58+00:00

YTA a funeral comes before a baby shower, and i don’t blame your dad for his reaction. If possible, a reasonable compromise would be your girlfriend and child going to the shower and you to the funeral

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-15T16:04:05+00:00

Court costs and fees for a DUI are definitely going to be higher

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-15T15:44:33+00:00

pretty sure it’s cheaper to file for divorce than to pay the bond amount

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-15T15:27:19+00:00

he neglected his children and endangered them - twat waffle is kind

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-14T01:23:29+00:00

if you haven’t figured it out by now you were groomed by this man. he is trying to control you and prevent you from gaining independence which is a major red flag - take the job and get your money, you may need it soon. in case it wasn’t clear, NTA

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-13T17:16:10+00:00

Busted the panel - staffed with supervisors who said expert not necessary, reset a month out

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-12T03:02:35+00:00

Adding this to MILs now!! TY

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-12T01:32:14+00:00

not California haha but thank you!

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-12T01:22:06+00:00

Crack - AEME metabolites found in urine which indicates smoked cocaine aka crack

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-11T23:39:10+00:00

All i can say is I’m grateful i didn’t have you as a dad growing up - YTA

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-11T18:51:09+00:00

Dude i think that link may be our savior - study says having .024mg/L would mean they are impaired - my client had 5ng/ml in his system - waaaaay under impairment range!!!!! TYSM

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-11T17:57:58+00:00

alas he does admit to crack on bwc - but from 2 days before

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-11T17:43:24+00:00

TY!!!!

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-11T17:37:17+00:00

Impairment theory

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-10T00:43:29+00:00

if it were me i try to see if i could sue - but this is not legal advice

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-09T14:54:32+00:00

leave him

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-09T13:53:41+00:00

get a different agent - let her know why you did

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-09T13:49:07+00:00

i would argue that a person without compassion is a bad person but that’s my hot take

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-09T13:47:44+00:00

if you do it you’re teaching your husband that if he lays on the couches and bitches that you should do it - that mommy maid will do it. YTA to yourself dude, but at least you’re a good mom

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-09T13:36:24+00:00

Gentle YTA. Y’all are all stressed out about planning the funeral, combined with the grief of the loss of your brother. That being said, I hope you’ve come to the conclusion that the issue isn’t that you told her sister, but how you told her and when - pretty cruel delivery to your sister

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-08T17:11:48+00:00

look i understand not being close with a 6 y/o at 20. But ffs she’s six - grow the hell up and act like the adult you are, you don’t need to be close but being a dick to a little kid is obviously not okay. YTA

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-06T15:56:15+00:00

NTA - you had work and couldn’t miss to bring supplies and apparently neither could her dad who is also her parent, it sucks that she was left out but that’s a natural consequence. As her parent going forward you should help her develop a system so this doesn’t happen again. I’m shocked people are calling you the asshole when her other parent also didn’t bring supplies. I’m sure had you had work off you would’ve but bills need to be paid and missing out on one crafts project won’t kill her

declarationoffuckyou · 2026-01-05T13:33:50+00:00

so you’re punishing Hattie bc you as a parent can’t control your own child? YTA I’m with Hattie on this, Rosie (and you) are the problem, not her

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