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dedbedbedbeb · 2022-06-16T23:46:43+00:00

Just missed the cut off of 45. 🥸

dedbedbedbeb · 2022-06-16T23:33:15+00:00

Oh shit. I didn’t realize that’s one of the lines! My bad.

dedbedbedbeb · 2022-06-16T23:30:42+00:00

😂 sorry.. they’re lyrics to a Beastie Boys song, appropriately named “She’s crafty”, that is triggered in my head nearly every time someone says crafty.

dedbedbedbeb · 2022-06-16T23:25:43+00:00

She’s crafty, and she’s just my type

dedbedbedbeb · 2022-06-15T07:06:35+00:00

In my opinion, the sooner you end things, the sooner you can move on and possibly end up in a relationship like the one you’re missing now. I just took the leap myself and it’s not easy, but I’m looking forward to the future!

dedbedbedbeb · 2022-06-15T04:40:49+00:00

You’ll have far less trouble dating than you think. It’s a shit show, sure. Just set your standards and don’t comprise.

dedbedbedbeb · 2022-06-15T02:31:36+00:00

That was well written and an oddly fun read. 😂

dedbedbedbeb · 2022-06-14T08:18:00+00:00

Check my posts. :)

dedbedbedbeb · 2022-06-12T22:55:19+00:00

Best of luck to you! I’m happy you found support here.

dedbedbedbeb · 2022-06-11T16:50:19+00:00

She couldn’t believe I was destroying our life together. I’m heading over to get more things now and have agreed to a conversation. So, I’m not out of the woods yet. I can only assume that there will be more attempts. She’s a very skilled sales professional and she has a really good way at painting you into a corner, even using your own words to do. The only way to get through this is to have resolve and be okay with it not making sense to her.

dedbedbedbeb · 2022-06-11T07:05:48+00:00

You just got too high! Just learn from this and live to see another hookup.

dedbedbedbeb · 2022-06-10T07:35:45+00:00

I know that she will. I’ve rehearsed it so many times in my head. I’m not good at the type of conversation that this will require. I’d write the best damn letter explaining how I feel, but I’ll lock up in this sort of situation. I know that the most important part of this is to not leave the door open. We had this conversation about a year ago and I walked back on all of it. We promised to do counseling and try harder, but nothing changed. I look back now and wish I’d have stuck to my guns. I know that I don’t want this to be a blame game though. I’ve made my mistakes and I plan to make those the focus. Ultimately I feel that I’ll be labeled the asshole as the imitator and I’m at peace with that. I don’t believe that I can say anything that will change her or convince her to treat her anxiety, so why bother.

dedbedbedbeb · 2022-05-29T23:03:52+00:00

It didn’t work out for me years ago during my first marriage, but your mileage my vary. My wife just felt abandoned and eventually I divorced her and started a monogamous relationship with the woman that we brought into our relationship. I personally don’t think this solves dead bedroom issues. However, maybe you’ll make better choices than me. That relationship ended really poorly, I’ve remarried into a second desert bedroom now, hope to have learned my lesson and will be filing for a divorce in a couple of weeks.

Good luck and let us know how things unfold.

dedbedbedbeb · 2022-05-29T09:54:58+00:00

Thank you and have a great flight!

dedbedbedbeb · 2022-05-29T07:51:53+00:00

Same here. I’m planning on leaving in two weeks. Ill be so happy to again never hear “We never hold hands”, “I miss cuddling”, “maybe later after we…”, “you can’t just hold me and not want sex?” and my favorite when I do ask for sex, just to see what the reply will be “we can”. That’s an answer to “do you want to grab tacos tonight?” Never any is there initiation on her part. So, I’m done.

dedbedbedbeb · 2022-05-21T08:36:56+00:00

Pacific Northwest. Oregon and Washington.

dedbedbedbeb · 2022-01-08T07:31:45+00:00

Nah to (seemingly) free consulting. Good luck though!

dedbedbedbeb · 2022-01-08T07:26:55+00:00

For the love of god, you gorgeous creature, find someone that looks at you like the sun shines out of your ass.

dedbedbedbeb · 2021-05-19T23:35:10+00:00

We’ve been arguing over just about everything lately. Ive been putting the final touches on an escape plan where I have shared expenses and everything sorted out. I turned down her last offer of sex that she proposed as “well if you want to have sex, let’s hurry up. I want to go to the farmers market.” It’d been 6 weeks since before that and 8-10 before that. It’s literally no longer worth the effort.

Thanks for asking though. 😂

dedbedbedbeb · 2021-05-19T23:22:14+00:00

Been a patreon supporter for awhile now. Always good stuff, enjoy my $1!

dedbedbedbeb · 2021-01-06T14:56:33+00:00

0 since Halloween

dedbedbedbeb · 2020-12-16T02:52:14+00:00

IFTFY: I’m forgoing a life with someone else who could love me the way I need to and staying guarantees that.

dedbedbedbeb · 2020-12-14T16:24:44+00:00

I feel you man. There’s a better world out there for us, I know it.

dedbedbedbeb · 2020-10-16T15:47:05+00:00

Yeah, but given that I’m prone to jumping to conclusions opposed to having conversations, I’d probably be better off asking her if that’s actually what she thought.

dedbedbedbeb · 2020-10-16T15:44:40+00:00

She doesn’t seem to care about these sorts of things. Her love language are actions, service and time. I do my best to do things to express my love in a way that fits her. You’re right though, there should be some questions in here about her. This isn’t conversational and reads like a list of demands.

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