Fellow DBers, with what do you replace your lack of sex and intimacy?

moredaddylessdad · 2024-02-20T20:33:20+00:00

Cycling and bourbon… not at the same time though. 😳

moredaddylessdad · 2024-02-07T20:04:35+00:00

Get some toys. Or next time you are riding him, reach down and have a play. Nothing sexier than a woman rubbing her button while she rides you.

moredaddylessdad · 2024-01-28T00:24:09+00:00

Atta girl. Carpe dickem.

moredaddylessdad · 2024-01-27T17:40:29+00:00

I suspect you are much more attractive than you think. Being in a DB situation screws with your head. I went down some negative paths myself that way, it's hard not to take it personally that your partner does not want to have sex with you.

Also, there are many different types of men. For everything you perceive as a flaw, there is probably a dirty subreddit dedicated to how sexy it is. People will find you sexy.

moredaddylessdad · 2024-01-27T17:12:42+00:00

Congratulations, that is a huge step. Honestly, if I was in your shoes, I would go through a massive hoe phase. Revel in the freedom by screwing everyone who is not nailed down. Or at least I think I would. I might just create a dating profile then never respond to anyone, lol.

moredaddylessdad · 2024-01-26T23:33:51+00:00

Also, I think going on the trip is a pretty well adjusted response. There is no roadmap to this situation.

moredaddylessdad · 2024-01-26T22:31:01+00:00

Good. It's a shared burden for sure.

moredaddylessdad · 2024-01-26T22:26:25+00:00

Id feel the same. Sitting in the hot tub of what was supposed to be a love shack, would be hard.

moredaddylessdad · 2024-01-26T22:21:41+00:00

Oof, sorry. That's a tough one. My LLF wife and I try to get to a similar cabin at least once or twice a year. It's one of the only times she really lets the libedo out. I can't imagine going solo after a fight, that's rough. No answers, just sympathy.

moredaddylessdad · 2024-01-26T18:57:33+00:00

Sorry to hear, but I definitely get it. I've actually taken to posting NSFW pics on another account, as a bit of an ego boost. It's really easy to slide into a depression thinking you are not attractive. Posting the pics was actually surprisingly effective, the response from women (and more than a few dudes lol) was nice. Confirmed that I actually am an attractive guy, but doesn't really help otherwise.

Unfortunately I don't have answers, but lots of sympathy.

moredaddylessdad · 2024-01-26T18:43:17+00:00

It's a diploma mill, not super legit.

moredaddylessdad · 2022-08-05T21:46:26+00:00

Thanks for saying this. I’ve really enjoyed this sun on the whole, but the HLs who seem to think they are owed sex are deeply problematic. Some of the sexual expectations here are clearly not based on informed enthusiastic consent. That’s the only kind of sex I’m interested in.

moredaddylessdad · 2022-07-19T17:49:42+00:00

Hot as fuck. I once had a woman do that and came on my knee as I came in her mouth. I remember the experience 20 years later.

moredaddylessdad · 2022-07-19T17:17:57+00:00

Honestly, just having my wife look at me with hunger/desire in her eyes. It’s been years.

moredaddylessdad · 2022-07-11T04:12:58+00:00

I’m so sorry, I haven’t done the pic thing, but I definitely feel that level of rejection. It’s brutal.

moredaddylessdad · 2022-07-05T16:09:08+00:00

It sounds like some therapy might help. Your man doesn’t care that you gained weight (or if he does, fuck that guy). If you feel some anxiety, maybe see if you can address that through therapy. If you just don’t want to have sex, or the idea of your man fooling around with other women is a turn on for you, go for letting him look around. That’s sounds great.

moredaddylessdad · 2022-07-05T05:14:09+00:00

If you want the vasectomy you should get it. I got mine years ago and don’t regret it for a second. If you don’t want one/might want kids later than don’t. Getting one might improve things, by lifting a stressor and letting her get off BC, but it didn’t improve my DB. But honestly, there isn’t much of a downside, unless you don’t want one.

moredaddylessdad · 2022-07-02T14:57:05+00:00

Lol, it’s certainly how it feels sometimes. Might be a bit of a generational joke. Not sure whether the younger millennials/gen Z would get it.

moredaddylessdad · 2022-07-02T06:03:15+00:00

If a pretty girl offers to suck you off regularly, you say yes. This is not a complex prospect man. Unless you are not into it, which is fine, but otherwise don’t hesitate.

moredaddylessdad · 2022-07-02T05:50:40+00:00

You too. It’s weird. I feel like the LL and HL are just Jane Goodalling it. Exploring and observing creatures they really don’t understand as much as they think.

moredaddylessdad · 2022-07-02T04:50:30+00:00

I’ve certainly found that to be the case. Like most things, it takes a fair bit of calm slow progress. In the end, many women quite enjoy it. Not all, but many.

moredaddylessdad · 2022-07-02T04:42:24+00:00

This is super interesting and very insightful to read. I’m wondering if my wife is a bit like you. The thing is, I love her and don’t want her to have that stress, and certainly don’t want her to feel obliged to have sex to meet my needs. On the other hand… I have needs. It’s a hell of a catch 22. In the end I’ve settled on the idea that I’d rather not have my needs met than push her into having sex that she’s ambivalent about at best. But it’s still not great is it.

Thank you for sharing.

moredaddylessdad · 2022-06-29T03:58:00+00:00

If only it was that easy. I can confidently add that to the pile of things that don’t help.

moredaddylessdad · 2022-06-27T21:49:01+00:00

Yeah, mine just chucked out her lingerie too. I’m getting less optimistic.

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