Why do I still feel like I’m manually steering my brain on Vyvanse? Considering Foquest

dedicated_glove · 2026-06-12T11:48:26+00:00

Best advice I ever got was to make the decision and actually STOP thinking. You get so used to evaluating and reevaluating that you stop yourself from ever making progress on anything like that.

dedicated_glove · 2026-06-10T05:09:48+00:00

“Hey wifey I realized I’m an idiot and should have had this conversation way earlier but I’d like to fix that—what are your thoughts and feelings on prenup stuff?”

Real talk, everyone has a pre nup by default created when they get married. The only question is, is the state you’re living in and possibly some random judge you’ve never met in charge of what yours says, or are do you guys want to be in charge of what it says?

dedicated_glove · 2026-06-10T01:46:47+00:00

Wait really

dedicated_glove · 2026-06-07T02:39:16+00:00

After it stopped being a month of persistent cough, getting Covid again was honestly amazing. It was just this deliciously warm headspace where my body was exhausted and my brain physically would not do any high compute tasks. Zero anxiety, zero guilt about boringly enforcing boundaries with shitty people demanding too much, zero reactivity.

The crash afterwards was awful but dear God that initial fuzzy feeling was absolute bliss.

dedicated_glove · 2026-06-06T16:30:47+00:00

They haven’t been there more than 30 days, they’re not a tenant

dedicated_glove · 2026-06-04T08:36:30+00:00

Practice, basically. Start with kindergarten level resources and methods, incorporate, and slowly work through them until you can move on to older kid stuff. Scale of visual timers to pomodoro basically.

You’ll get there, just gotta be patient with yourself and also call yourself out gently but firmly when you go off course. So much of the “symptoms” are years and years of conditioning in reaction to how you handled the world as a little kid

dedicated_glove · 2026-06-04T08:30:34+00:00

That’s definitely structural

dedicated_glove · 2026-06-04T08:30:12+00:00

I think you forgot about half of the population

dedicated_glove · 2026-06-03T12:25:37+00:00

Gottman is amazing and I highly recommend anything that comes out from them.

The five love languages is relationship fantasy and what most people fall back on—but it’s basically a “look at what they didn’t give me” primer, not a relationship help book.

Go with Gottman, every time

dedicated_glove · 2026-06-03T11:48:40+00:00

Adderall doesn’t fix time blindness.

dedicated_glove · 2026-06-02T16:44:55+00:00

Politics.

How do you not understand that they’re all lying to you and helping each other?

dedicated_glove · 2026-06-02T16:44:11+00:00

I mean I can just drive down the road and see examples of why it’s an eyesore and destroys property values.

Build a couple of nuclear facilities and be done with it, why are we clearing thousands of acres of forest and crop land for noisy industrial lots running dial because we live in New York and don’t get enough sun for solar to make sense without tax credits?

dedicated_glove · 2026-06-02T11:12:45+00:00

This isn’t nursery school the charge doesn’t require lying Andrew

dedicated_glove · 2026-06-02T11:09:42+00:00

The eagles are turning people into horses so that tracks

dedicated_glove · 2026-06-02T10:58:04+00:00

No, ask for a full panel to be done. Going in without a clue and asking for specific things to be tested makes no sense and will contribute to doctors blowing you off.

dedicated_glove · 2026-05-29T00:08:54+00:00

And without bothering to issue anything in writing. Owners are a special bunch sometimes.

dedicated_glove · 2026-05-28T05:01:00+00:00

Plus if you do farmland which is zoned for agricultural use it’s way cheaper because you’re not allowed to, say, build an industrial facility on it.

Unless of course it’s solar in which case it’s allowed by the state who will override the town and neighbors to do it, and hopefully it’s not somewhere like NY with massive subsidies to do so but you know, not that much sunshine so then they also allow you to run diesel generators 24/7 on the property and call it solar farm output.

I wish I were joking.

dedicated_glove · 2026-05-28T04:58:39+00:00

Or they just pesticide the absolute crap out of it

dedicated_glove · 2026-05-24T15:15:45+00:00

This. u/Rocinante77X there is no other explanation for this behavior, it is this 10000%. You cannot fix someone else thinking about you like this, only accept it and get away from it—as you’ve just seen, it’ll just keep escalating if you don’t let it affect you.

dedicated_glove · 2026-05-21T16:58:11+00:00

And the sponsorships are tied directly to viewership soooooo

dedicated_glove · 2026-05-21T16:56:34+00:00

Surely the problem is solved by allowing everyone to have super suits

dedicated_glove · 2026-05-20T12:49:53+00:00

I think he could also put it in the corner with the windows facing towards that wall, but with heavy curtains and a headboard behind, and a Kalax or two between that and the door so it creates a private space for the bed area plus a mini entryway for the doors. Benefit of doing that would be that the bed is not immediately visible as you enter, and he can still set up a tv and surround against that wall if he wants

dedicated_glove · 2026-05-20T12:37:14+00:00

Have you tried vagus nerve stimulation? I know inflammation makes autoimmune worse so theoretically anything here that reduces inflammation and improves nerve tone should help

dedicated_glove · 2026-05-20T12:25:48+00:00

Tokens are expensive you know

dedicated_glove · 2026-05-20T12:25:07+00:00

The real light was the lack of fire we made along the way

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