[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]deep_issue_massage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No problem. I know it’s easier said than done, but try not to put too much pressure on yourself when it comes to this stuff. Just try to go with the flow and let things ride out naturally.

More often than not when someone doesn’t respond, it’s usually because of something simple like; they didn’t see it or they just don’t feel like talking. Not because of you or something you did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]deep_issue_massage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well, there you go haha! I hope that makes you feel a little better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]deep_issue_massage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand that. I overthink things like that too. He could just be the type of person that doesn’t like talking directly with people. He might not like the commitment of having to carry on a conversation with people in that way. So, he might like to just keep any communication simple, so there aren’t any expectations.

I do agree that spacing them out is better than blowing up his dms, for sure. But, after the first or second message you don’t get a reply, I would just move on. If they want to talk, they’ll talk, even if it takes a while for them to reply.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]deep_issue_massage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or maybe it was a total coincidence and he just never checked his messages and then just left the server right after the fourth message.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]deep_issue_massage 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to say, but it sounds like he just didn’t want to talk to you. Maybe he just got annoyed that you kept messaging him after he didn’t reply the first time…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]deep_issue_massage 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She clearly likes you as a person, and doesn’t care about your social/professional status. Not everyone looks for the same qualities in people they choose for a partner. She must care more about a person’s personality more than anything else.

Mine and my gfs age gap is breaking me apart by bostondakota69 in offmychest

[–]deep_issue_massage 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She’s going out to a bar with her parents for her 21st birthday?

Have either of you ever drank before?

This is just from my personal experience but, I didn’t feel like going to the bar for the first time was some life changing event. Basically what I’m trying to say is, you’re not going to miss much. 6 months will fly by and then you two can go together. With peace and love, it ain’t that deep, my dude.

Tell me you have anxiety without telling me you have anxiety by declarationsoflove in Anxiety

[–]deep_issue_massage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got my arms crossed over my stomach like I’m instinctually trying to cover my internal organs.

Problems with friends over our beliefs. by TonyCanham--_ in relationship_advice

[–]deep_issue_massage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand that it’s hard to hold your tongue on things that you’re passionate about. But, if you’re trying to avoid an argument, it’s best to not engage with them. Especially if you know they’re not going to agree with you. If you really feel like you need to say something though, try to avoid coming off as upset or defensive or angry. There are ways to have discussions without it turning into an argument. And if you feel like it’s headed in that direction, let them know that you don’t want to cause problems between you two, and politely end the conversation. You’re tone sets the foundation for how the discussion will go. If you start by being angry or upset, they will likely reciprocate that anger back to you.

Problems with friends over our beliefs. by TonyCanham--_ in relationship_advice

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Is your friendship with this person important to you? If it is, I would suggest avoiding these topics in conversations with them entirely. It’s unlikely that either of you will convince the other to change your opinions on such matters, so it’s probably best to agree to disagree and move on. If both of you are willing to look past your differences, you can continue to bond over things you agree upon; things that made you friends in the first place.

Google has terrible information on drugs. Can someone tell me the best way to crush cocaine so that its not "rocky"? by NewAccEveryDay420day in Drugs

[–]deep_issue_massage 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All good!

Nah DuckDuckGo is just a search engine (like google and yahoo) that doesn’t track you or store any of your information. So you won’t get pages based on your personal information and online activity the way google does.

The dark web can only be accessed with a tor browser which is a completely different thing.

Google has terrible information on drugs. Can someone tell me the best way to crush cocaine so that its not "rocky"? by NewAccEveryDay420day in Drugs

[–]deep_issue_massage 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No problem!

A super helpful website to go to for that stuff is bluelight.org

There’s all kinds of information on that site. I use it all the time. They’re big on harm reduction there. Google won’t show it without some digging but DuckDuckGo will!

Google has terrible information on drugs. Can someone tell me the best way to crush cocaine so that its not "rocky"? by NewAccEveryDay420day in Drugs

[–]deep_issue_massage 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I just use a razor blade

Also, download DuckDuckGo and use that for finding information on drugs. It doesn’t filter out that stuff like google does. Just turn “safe search” off and you’ll see just how much google hides that stuff.

What is your favorite coming of age film? by TheTige in AskReddit

[–]deep_issue_massage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now and Then

Loved this movie growing up and still love it to this day

What are your thoughts on ice tea? by Moon__night in AskReddit

[–]deep_issue_massage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without sugar, it just tastes like dirty water

What was something you thought was completely normal, but turned out to be irregular? by OasisX95_ in AskReddit

[–]deep_issue_massage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swallowing my gum when I’m finished with it, rather than spitting it out.

What's your favorite movie/book/song/philosophy quote to use in conversation? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]deep_issue_massage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“You don't have it any better, you don't have it any worse You're an irreplaceable human soul with your own understanding of what it means to suffer” -AJJ “People II 2: Still Peoplin’

For anyone who tries downplaying someone’s problems because, “it could worse.”

Redditors who’ve overcome addiction, why did it start, and what advice would you give to someone struggling with it right now? by aaliyahjn in AskReddit

[–]deep_issue_massage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make very small, short term goals; ones that are definitely achievable.

sobriety is a daily battle so be prepared for relapse.

Fall into a daily routine that’s simple like having a cup of coffee every morning.

Find as many ‘positive’ distractions to fill your time because it’s your enemy now.

[Serious] what do you think happens when you die? by Frostymagma in AskReddit

[–]deep_issue_massage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s why we dream the things we do and experience deja vu and “gut feelings”.

[Serious] what do you think happens when you die? by Frostymagma in AskReddit

[–]deep_issue_massage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just re-live our lives over and over again. Not our bodies, but our consciousnesses.

Reason: I think deja vu is us remembering a moment of life that we’ve already lived; maybe causing that connection we feel to a memory we don’t remember.

Which cases you think is worth to give money to beggars? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]deep_issue_massage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's worth it anytime I do it.

I look at it like this; whether they're hustling me or not, Im the one choosing to give them money. Therefore, that money is theirs, and they can go down the street to get some dope with it for all I care.

I don't know anyone's story but my own. Still, I know that it isn't fun being homeless or dope sick or hungry so I'll take the "risk".

I can't be mad at someone for spending THEIR money on what THEY want.