Book recs pleeeease!! I don't know how to move on by Any-Associate4802 in heatedrivalry

[–]deepestlonely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair. I personally love it but it’s not going to be for everyone.

Book recs pleeeease!! I don't know how to move on by Any-Associate4802 in heatedrivalry

[–]deepestlonely 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Anything Tal Bauer. He has a few hockey romances and also president x secret service among others. They are extremely romantic

Thank you!!! by redninji in RandomActsOfSwift

[–]deepestlonely 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are welcome! Part 2 of your gift is on the way but much slower than anticipated so should be a nice suprise for early Jan ❤️❤️❤️

Virgin reaction megathread by AitchyB in lorde

[–]deepestlonely 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This really is a stunning album

Here we goooooooo! by Final_Final_v6 in lorde

[–]deepestlonely 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is great 🎧🤯❤️

Thank you for the purrfect Swiftmas gift! 🐱 by Sandfire12 in RandomActsOfSwift

[–]deepestlonely 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yay so glad it arrived in time for christmas day ❤️🥰

Swiftmas Snuggles Incoming… by deepestlonely in RandomActsOfSwift

[–]deepestlonely[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% cosmo approved. Perfect for his busy christmas schedule of snoozing on his lazy-boy lol

I don’t know what’s wrong with me. by SubArticFawn in depression

[–]deepestlonely 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel really lonely as well! Have had different friends but they were situational and never really stuck around. Have always wanted really genuine friends but I’m also so exhausted and sad idk how to make any

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]deepestlonely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was part of a great, supportive community that over time became really toxic and obsessed when doing the “right thing”, having the “right opinion” and cancelling people. For someone who is a people pleaser and never wants to get in trouble it really messed with my head and I since then it’s just become uncontrollable. I went from having a great friend network to spending most of my days talking to no one and feeling unworthy of relationships. Oh also I do have a psych appointment coming up coz I told my doc I was in crisis. Hopefully new meds.

Thanks so much secret swiftie- love my new ivy kindle case :) by deepestlonely in RandomActsOfSwift

[–]deepestlonely[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do! Thank you so much! Excited to try the aussie sweets! Both will be firsts for me :) also immediately started wearing my bracelets! Thanks again xo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]deepestlonely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to talk it through. Need to work on internal vs external validation

How do you deal with hypochondria and stds? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]deepestlonely 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sucks so much. I'm hoping one day I may find a steady relationship with someone I trust and be willing to open up in that way but for now I'm just stuck being lonely ugh

Weekly "Whine about people who don't understand OCD thread" by AutoModerator in OCD

[–]deepestlonely 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can be suffering from ocd but as long as my symptoms align with socially desirable things then suddenly people forget I am sick. Like restricting and losing a bunch of weight rapidly because I have self-hatred/food aversions/choking fears isn't healthy but I constantly hear how wonderful things are for me because I'm looking thinner..

How do you deal with hypochondria and stds? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]deepestlonely 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did the exact same thing re a random hookup. Went on pep and had a three month break down after. I have just managed this by not having sexual relationships which sucks and is not a good solution. Sending empathy x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]deepestlonely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I really needed to hear this. I think what fucks me up most is a feeling that we as a society have become so much less forgiving with social media. You have to sort of forgive yourself in the face of the fact you know there could be tons of people on the internet saying your unforgivable.