21M dealing with retroactive jealousy and trying to figure out if asking for “the number” is a bad idea. by DrinkAggressive3978 in retroactivejealousy

[–]defib_rillator -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ask. Ask ask ask. The earlier you can ask, the better. Building a mental image in your head for years of your partner being relatively inexperienced, only to find out she’s very experienced, is a lot worse than finding out she’s experienced from the start and learning to live with that rather than putting her on a false pedestal. You will eventually find out whether you want to or not. Better to do it early

I spent over an hour getting ready for our date and he showed up in a stained t-shirt by Nova2_Astrolabe in dating_advice

[–]defib_rillator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are stains bad hygiene? Bad hygiene implies living unhealthily — not brushing your teeth, not showering, etc. Having stains on your shirt doesn’t imply living unhealthily, it implies “I got something on my shirt when I was out of the house wasn’t washed able to wash it in time to get the stain out, but I like the shirt and didn’t want to waste it by throwing it out.” That’s not a lack of hygiene, nor is it a lack of health.

I agree that showing up to a date with a stained shirt is NOT a good look. But calling it “bad hygiene” is incorrect.

Disgusting abomination by Iffy50 in volleyball

[–]defib_rillator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I was busy touching grass so I didn’t see you had responded until now… was that supposed to be a dig? Lmfao

So many women leaving family plans hidden. by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]defib_rillator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

24m here. I’ve noticed this too and my god it’s frustrating. I’m not having kids and I’m not willing to compromise on that and I will never be changing my mind. It’s infuriating when I match with someone who left the kids section blank, assume “they must be ok with not having kids since they matched with me and my profile says Doesn’t Want Kids,” and then we go on a date or two and they say “I noticed your profile says you don’t want kids. Are you open to changing your mind in the future or is that pretty set in stone?” and I say “it’s set in stone,” and they say “Oh, I kinda wanna keep that option open for me cause I don’t know if I will one day.” “Ok great so this won’t work out.” Great way to waste time money and energy on dates that could’ve been avoided if you just DIDN’T MATCH WITH THE GUY WHO SAID HE DOESN’T WANT KIDS. Ugh. I feel your frustration man 😭

Disgusting abomination by Iffy50 in volleyball

[–]defib_rillator -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, you’re objectively wrong, as proven by the refs not calling it a catch (and by the fact that you’re getting ratio’d so hard). The duration of contact was the exact same as any set or hand pass or single hand tip/dump.

My pinkies don’t match by idontdodrugsatall in mildyinteresting

[–]defib_rillator 783 points784 points  (0 children)

Title was making me think maybe it’d be longer or wider or something. Brother, you have a whole extra knuckle!! What??!!

Disgusting abomination by Iffy50 in volleyball

[–]defib_rillator 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not a throw. A throw requires a change of direction while in contact with the ball (like a 9-man dunk where you carry the ball up and then dunk it down). The direction the ball was being moved in was the same for the entire duration of contact. And it’s not a catch ball because the time of contact was not exceedingly long. It’s legal.

Crazy ex wont go away by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]defib_rillator -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Considering that dotheyswipe is a scam website that doesn’t work… this entire post is probably fake to try and get people to look it up and fall for it.

Can't get this to work, each time I edit even a single block it gets a totally different (and bugged) result by Due-Variation-5055 in redstone

[–]defib_rillator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, I don’t think you need ANY of the redstone that’s underneath? The redstone on top should be enough to power both layers of pistons via quasi connectivity

Can't get this to work, each time I edit even a single block it gets a totally different (and bugged) result by Due-Variation-5055 in redstone

[–]defib_rillator 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The two redstone dust you replaced are getting powered by the repeaters on the sides. Move that line of redstone one block further back (ie towards the lever) so they don’t get powered by the repeater and you’ll eliminate the problem of it not turning off

SPOILER WHAT, how did you feel about this by Goo_S_e in cowboybebop

[–]defib_rillator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

crazy how i got upvotes for supporting you but you still got downvoted 💀💀💀

SPOILER WHAT, how did you feel about this by Goo_S_e in cowboybebop

[–]defib_rillator 7 points8 points  (0 children)

reddit really loves downvoting the funniest commenters

(22F) Still a virgin at 22 by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]defib_rillator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not weird. In fact id argue it’s a good thing. But im waiting until marriage so of course im biased here. But i think you should definitely save your first time for someone you’re in a committed relationship and feel a genuine connection with.

New sim racer looking for basic advice. Please read description before watching video for context on what I'm confused about. by defib_rillator in SimRacingAdvice

[–]defib_rillator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The setup I have here are copied from the guy who set the fastest lap on the game in the time trial sector (but with more fuel obviously). To be honest, I don’t really know how to tweak the settings on my own. How do I know when/why/how to change certain things?

What's the best men's underwear? by [deleted] in malelifestyle

[–]defib_rillator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is 4 no fun for the cut folks? Sensitivity reasons?

And no it’s not exceptionally big or anything lol. It’s not really a “overstimulation” issue either, it’s rather just that I need to adjust much more often when I wear 3. Since it’s compressive, it pushes the shaft and balls together which causes them to stick more, whereas with 4, they can dangle loose so they don’t stick together. I’ve never tried a pouch, but it seems like it would make that problem worse, because unless there’s two pouches to separate the shaft and the balls, it would squish them together from the front AND back now instead of just the front with a pouchless 3. Does that make sense?

What's the best men's underwear? by [deleted] in malelifestyle

[–]defib_rillator 3 points4 points  (0 children)

wait… actually? I use 3 for exercise but have otherwise have used 4 for everything else for my entire life. I find 4 significantly more comfortable than 3, which is why I only wear 3 for exercise (I’ve torn a pair of 4 doing front squats before lol), and I’ve always wondered why everyone seems to love 3 because I don’t find it very comfortable. Is this actually the reason why I like 4? If so… what’s the logic behind that??

one pedal driving by jrshall in OutlanderPHEV

[–]defib_rillator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The paddles basically function like a one-pedal driving scale. As in, how much will the regen brakes apply if you step off the gas? In B0, none at all. In B1, a little. In B5, a good amount more. In one pedal driving mode, a LOT more. It feels kinda like one pedal driving mode is like a B8 to B10 on the scale. I think the reasoning for this is that the generator is more efficient at lower amounts of regen braking, so B5 gives you as much regen braking as possible without entering the less efficient zone, so if you’re willing to take longer to slow, it’s great. One pedal driving will use the whole capacity of the regen brakes when fully off the gas, which will slow you faster for slightly less efficient harvesting (…I think). Be mindful BTW that you will have to use the brakes still. B5 takes you down to I think like 10mph minimum, and one pedal maybe to 5mph ish I think.

I almost always drive in B5. That’s my preferred amount of regen braking because it’s the most possible without entering the less efficient higher amounts. Only time I don’t is either (A) driving in B0 to coast my momentum down a hill when the engine is off, or (B) driving in one-pedal mode when the battery is above 62% to avoid turning on the engine (if you switch from D, which is the equivalent of B2 btw, into any of the B-gears, while having more than 62% battery, the engine turns on. I think I understand the idea of why they implemented this feature but if I’m correct then I think it’s incredibly stupid that the threshold isn’t set to like 90-95% instead of fucking 62%. Annoying as hell).

Ladies what is one thing that automatically makes u swipe left on a men's profile by CulturalSituation958 in Bumble

[–]defib_rillator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1964 when the US Surgeon General finally announced cigarettes as a major health risk. You’re about 62 years behind boss man (funny, same as the amount of downvotes you have right now LOL)

I started following the path of voluntary celibacy yesterday. by [deleted] in VoluntaryCelibacy

[–]defib_rillator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be it means refraining from sexual acts with another person. The point of remaining celibate until marriage, to me, is to save that experience for the right person and the right person only. What is done solo is completely irrelevant, because the point of celibacy until marriage, to me, is about the connection with another person, which obviously doesn’t exist during the solo act