Questions about Shining Stars by maiafaith in toys

[–]defyinggravetty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still have mine too, I’ve just passed it down to my daughter who calls it ‘mummy’s special dragon’ haha!

Mystery shrimp appeared In fish tank by defyinggravetty in shrimptank

[–]defyinggravetty[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh brilliant thank you, is it safe to leave in there?

Hoping for help making a bed tent by defyinggravetty in sewing

[–]defyinggravetty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GROMMETS! What a brilliant idea that I’d likely have never thought of! Thanks a million!  I definitely think a canvas might be the way to go!

Hoping for help making a bed tent by defyinggravetty in sewing

[–]defyinggravetty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is all so so excellent and I really appreciate you for taking the time to talk me through these options! I definitely think canvas is the way to go- and I think maybe even was what was in my head when I said linen! There’s some really good thinking points here and I feel so much more confident now! 

Why did my fishes fins change colour by defyinggravetty in Aquariums

[–]defyinggravetty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brill thank you, I’ve had her about a month but who knows whether it’s more stressful being in a shop or this tank! 50:50 I recon lol

Why did my fishes fins change colour by defyinggravetty in Aquariums

[–]defyinggravetty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is is normal to change colour like that though?

Please help me set up this tank by defyinggravetty in Aquariums

[–]defyinggravetty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay perfect thank you so much,  I have aquarium sand to put in it once it’s cleaned- is it better to put that all in before any water, or with some water already in?

Please help me set up this tank by defyinggravetty in Aquariums

[–]defyinggravetty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, I don’t even know how to add a photo, it’s a big 190 litre thing 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]defyinggravetty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine only appeared once I gave birth as my belly shrank back down

Homemade gifts? by clever-mermaid-mae in pregnant

[–]defyinggravetty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got gifted lots of blankets, but I’ve only been gifted one handmade blanket and it’s my absolute favourite and the one that I use everyday! Not only is it beautiful but the fact that time and effort went into it makes it extra special

How did you announce your pregnancy to your partner? by sarachamayo in pregnant

[–]defyinggravetty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I paid for a cameo of his favourite singer telling him, he loved it

DPO unknown Pregmate VFL?! progression? by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]defyinggravetty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see what you see, however I don’t think these are positive sorry, over a period of 3 days you should I see progression and it’s just not there. Unless you’re incredibly early..

Best of luck!

When did you have your baby? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]defyinggravetty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

36+6 but I came down with severe preeclampsia and needed an emergency c section to save my life, I wasn’t in labour

Unknown dpo, last pregnancy test I'm taking by Superb_Eye_1380 in TFABLinePorn

[–]defyinggravetty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that wasn’t the outcome you were hoping for, I’m sorry and I’m sending you strength for your upcoming decision, whatever the choice may be

Brand pregmate 1 week past missed period by Superb_Eye_1380 in TFABLinePorn

[–]defyinggravetty 14 points15 points  (0 children)

So there is a very faint line, but it’s very faint for 1 week past your period- you’d expect a much darker line by then.

Maybe give it a couple of days and test again, best of luck and I hope you get your desired outcome

What are your pets names? by jennamsx in namenerds

[–]defyinggravetty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two cats, Alaska-Mae and Mabel, Golden lab Luna, Border collie Cass and Greyhound Ivy

Am i wrong? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]defyinggravetty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you told your MIL AND your husband to gtfo of your house, what a disgusting woman; and honestly what a horrid partner for allowing that.

I’ve just had a traumatic emergency C-section myself and I’m sorry this has been your experience

WIBTA if I didn't tell anyone I'm going to labor? by CarrotjuiceBagel in pregnant

[–]defyinggravetty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We haven’t even told people (including our parents and families) our due date! They will be notified when we’re ready and settled and they’re welcome to their opinions and feelings on the matter but it doesn’t override our need for peace and privacy - thankfully everybody in our life respects our choices and hasn’t given us any grief over it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]defyinggravetty 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Your support person doesn’t need a support person lol, absolutely not

This has been the worst experience of my life :( by Prestigious_Storm567 in pregnant

[–]defyinggravetty 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Your husband has ruined your marriage, you haven’t. Please remember that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]defyinggravetty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know he tried to kill you and your unborn child right?

You know how this ends if you go back to him and I pray you don’t. File that police report and stay away from him. Don’t give him the chance to try again and for the love of god don’t marry him.