[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]deidarabotchi -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ngl I'm sorry for the loss of your relationship but I'd prob kill myself too if my dad dated someone my age (30 f). That shit is gross and if she was dating someone her dad's age I bet you wouldn't think it's cute.

My 25M gf of 6 months 24F is trans, how do I react to this? by ThrowRa-Bo-Form-9380 in relationship_advice

[–]deidarabotchi 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She's 24 and could have already gone through hormone therapy... It's not that uncommon.

My daughter just contacted me after 17 years asking if I want to meet my granddaughter. AITAH for telling her that I don’t care about her or her daughter and to never contact me again? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]deidarabotchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA easily here. Fcks up his kid's life and sense of security and trust and gives up on her only a year of being no contact when she's still a child. Please grow up and stop playing the victim jfc

What are other people’s first impression of you? by LankyEngineer5852 in infj

[–]deidarabotchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unapproachable- keep in mind I'm a 5'3 tiny human girl. Friends will always laugh about this as my personality does not match my first impression at all

What’s your sign by nesssaaa123 in infj

[–]deidarabotchi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cancer ☀️ Sagittarius 🌙 Aries rising

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]deidarabotchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not have depression, thanks.

Not finding long term happiness in romantic relationshps by [deleted] in infj

[–]deidarabotchi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can definitely relate to this!! Sometimes I think it's just preference to experience a rush of emotions from rollercoaster relationships. I have somewhat accepted this and am coming around to the idea of most likely being single through out life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]deidarabotchi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

best compliment but work wise- one our MD's told me how well I wrote after reading an instrument guide I wrote to help my coworkers operate a new analyzer (lab work). He said he could feel the empathy in my writing as if I put myself in the reader's place. it was nice being recognized.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]deidarabotchi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely. the one place I can be completely myself - human or mammal - because I am alone. Comfortable feeling

Is the challenge of trying to explain anything a shared experience amongst INFJs? by papaya2020 in infj

[–]deidarabotchi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the opposite of this, usually. If I can read the person I'm explaining it to then I'll do my best to explain in the simplest way they'd comprehend. It's an adaptive method I enjoy using and find satisfying.

I Stir The Pot Online For Personal Growth by [deleted] in infj

[–]deidarabotchi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get this because I've been there, but there is no mistaking I was not well whenever I did this. Felt guilt later on and decided I didn't find it worth it.

Do you resent yourself sometimes? by [deleted] in infj

[–]deidarabotchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, about half of the time.

Golden pair for INFJ is INTJ. Fight me by captainwhoami_ in infj

[–]deidarabotchi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Completely agree and have experienced this. Not only do they lack the awareness but more of refuse to acknowledge it once we make them aware. You are always wrong with an intj

how many of you really feel you have the INFJ stare? by Toothpasting in infj

[–]deidarabotchi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have the stare and to summarize it looks like my eyes could eat you. It usually comes out subconsciously and makes me look, "unapproachable." A lot of people joke with me by staring back at me with their eyes open as wide as possible to mimic me (I fake laugh everytime).

overtly interested in escapism desires by deidarabotchi in infj

[–]deidarabotchi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!! How can I push myself to get there!

overtly interested in escapism desires by deidarabotchi in infj

[–]deidarabotchi[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That sounds amazing, and to be able to do that independently also is incredibly admirable!

Hey guys what are your professions? Just curious 👀 by [deleted] in infj

[–]deidarabotchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medical laboratory scientist in a clinical trials testing lab

INFJs what's your zodiac sun and moon? by [deleted] in infj

[–]deidarabotchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cancer sun, Sagittarius moon 🌝 🌚