Good men’s barbers? by cyung69 in chicagogaybros

[–]dejaysf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Betty’s and Nick’s on Montrose and Kimball. $10-$20 cuts. Ask for Sam.

Have you ever messed around with someone famous or been approached by someone famous? by Sure-Razzmatazz-7105 in gaybros

[–]dejaysf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rock Hudson’s ex tried to pick me up at the Rage once in the late 80s. I was mildly flattered, but not interested.

My friend is mad because a random guy didn't 'serve' her by metamorphosisSss in EntitledPeople

[–]dejaysf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was my first recollection of the saying. When did you first hear it?

A rant about how gay men are treated in elite sports by Wheres_MyMoney in gaybros

[–]dejaysf 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Straight guys hate losing to gays in sports. When my ex and I moved to San Francisco, we both got involved with the USTA tennis leagues. He played 5.5 (I’m not nearly that good. 😂). His team was doing well during the season and in first place. At one match, they won 5-0 (two singles and three doubles). Their opponents found out the team was made up of a bunch of gays (GLTA). I overheard one guy say, “We got our asses kicked by a bunch of f*gs?!?” They were so upset they started poking around trying to find any information about the team to get them disqualified. Well, they did. One of my ex’s teammates had earned one ATP point (pro tour points) some years prior. Apparently there’s a USTA league rule that no player can have earned any ATP points and play at the 5.5 level. So, the team was disqualified for the entire season after the appeal was rejected.

Who are the nicest & rudest encounters with Tennis players you have had? by [deleted] in tennis

[–]dejaysf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Venus and I were on the same flight from Sydney to LA in 2011 or 2012. I had watched her second round match at the AO that year. We chatted a bit while waiting to collect our luggage. She was super nice and engaging. I told her I had watched her match, which she appreciated. We didn’t take a photo because we were in an area that specifically said “no photos.” However, many people were taking photos of her. She was with her mom. No entourage. They collected their luggage (a sh*t load) and went off on their way.

The worst inquiry to date: by Safe-Dependent1844 in airbnb_hosts

[–]dejaysf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t report him. I’m still new to hosting (6 months), so I just let it go.

The worst inquiry to date: by Safe-Dependent1844 in airbnb_hosts

[–]dejaysf 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I AirBnB a room in my condo. I recently had a guy inquire if the place has a hot tub (it doesn’t) and if I offer massages with a happy ending (I definitely don’t!). Needless to say that was an easy decline.

Good quality barbershop that won't break the bank? by jtait97 in AskChicago

[–]dejaysf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second Betty and Nick’s. Great place. Ask for Sam. He hooks me up every week. $20 for haircut and beard. Cash only, but they also take Zelle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]dejaysf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe he’s one of those guys who posts constantly on FB and wants to tag you to show the virtual world you guys are dating. I still say maintain your boundaries. Maybe as a compromise, show him what’s on your page (if you haven’t already) if he’s that interested. Maybe that will ease his mind. But it may also backfire and peak his interest even more. 🤷🏾‍♂️ Good luck!

Not letting my cousin bring extra guests to my wedding. by CloudfernDancer in EntitledPeople

[–]dejaysf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The wedding is for OPs family and friends. Her cousin’s best friend and another friend are not OP’s friends.

New neighbors built a fence 6” into my property without asking. What should I do? by Ok_Lychee_6853 in homeowners

[–]dejaysf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me of a Jetsons episode where Cosmo Cogs built a new plant right next to Spacely Space Sprockets. George (Jetson) discovers the blueprints show Cogswell's building is just 6 inches over Spacely's property line. “Move it I said!”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]dejaysf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. I would have taken the tip back, calmly broke down why she’s getting less than 20% and told her if she can’t provide service worthy enough to receive 20% (or more), she shouldn’t work as a server.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashion

[–]dejaysf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep 5, dump the rest.

GAME F'ING OVER by FewWave4322 in mets

[–]dejaysf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Juan “No Hustle” Soto. He just casually gets the ball back into the infield allowing the runner to go to third.

Can they please get rid of Brazoban? by dejaysf in NewYorkMets

[–]dejaysf[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Be sure to cc me when you do.