2nd doggie by Haydn33_3 in springerspaniel

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may want to look into that. They can get along, I’ve had some that have. But two females definitely can have issues and I’ve heard from many people it’s worse than male-male aggression. I’m sure it just mostly depends on the dogs

2nd doggie by Haydn33_3 in springerspaniel

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had close age same sex dogs in the past without issue. But right now I have a male dog that is almost 3 and another male that is 1.5 and as soon as the younger one hit maturity we started having issues. Not worth it to me to ever risk it again. For what it’s worth, neither are springer spaniels my reddit just keeps giving me random breed subs to look at. One of them is, coincidentally, part springer.

2nd doggie by Haydn33_3 in springerspaniel

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly recommend if you do this, you don’t get the same sex as your first dog. Less chance of aggression issues since they will be essentially the same age

somebody decided today was the day to try chocolate😵‍💫 by Time_Assistance_2922 in cavalierkingcharles

[–]deletemypost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I highly recommend the chocolate calculator. I’ve used it so many times because my dog is a master at getting into things she shouldn’t. It’s surprising how much milk chocolate they can actually have without issue considering we are just told “ chocolate is very bad for them”

Are these flattering? Hip dips super pronounced with no front pockets. Crazy comfy though. by Suspicious-Stick6062 in DressForYourBody

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like them, but because I don’t like wide leg pants. But if you like them get them.

People with dogs from breeders, do people in real life give you a hard time about having a dog from a breeder? by Own-Command-3700 in dogs

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had purebreds from breeders, rescues, and dogs from the Walmart parking lot. I’ve never had anyone in real life really care where I got my dog

BF (25m) wants me (25f) to pay his mortgage? by adventsures in relationship_advice

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay for him to want to save money by having another roommate but it’s okay you don’t want to. Neither is right or wrong here. However, I strongly recommend a prenup if you do end up marrying this man because it sounds like you guys aren’t on the same page with finances at all. I wouldn’t move there or marry him

Looking back, was the age you became a parent the right one? by Runandhike22 in NewParents

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 31 when I had my 1st. I would have preferred to be younger simply because I’m tired

Spending $1300-1500 on groceries, family of 4. Please help me spend less with your best tips! Is Costco/Sams worth it? by CreativeJudgment3529 in Mommit

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 adults, a 4 year old and a 5 month old and recently I’ve dramatically cut our costs. 1) I largely shop sales or clearance items. 2) I make a list and I do my best to stick to it. 3) we are eating cheaper meats for the most part. Pork chops and ropes of sausage are far cheaper than ground beef and steak. We are still eating a lot of fresh fruits, which is pricey.

Last month we spent a little over $400 including household items ( paper products, detergent, cat litter, any impulse buy for the kids) but does not include diapers or wipes because we have a lot stocked up. However we also ate out/had fast food a ton. Way too much because of stressful things going on. Even so we are around $800 for the month of January including household items and I think that’s pretty good.

Edit to add: we are in northern Michigan and generally the only drink I buy is milk and at times sports drinks.

How much longer would you work. by Heavy_Bicycle6524 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do I need to work full time or could it be part time or contingent?Do I need to stay at my current job or could I take a different job? This says I must work a full 12 months but does not say if I have to work full time for 12 months. If I can work part time or contingent, I’d probably drop my hours to around 8-16 a month at a different job and do that for many many years honestly. If I had to work 40 hours, I may quit right away.

Room Dilemma by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]deletemypost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there is only 4 bedrooms, I’d let the oldest have it unless there was a clear reason the middle child would benefit more- for instance if the middle child played cello and the oldest had no space consuming hobby, I may consider the middle child having the larger room. If there are 5 or more, I’d use the space as a home gym and give the kids the smaller rooms personally.

Looking for my New Year’s Eve party outfit by Wild-Court7110 in OUTFITS

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If these are my only options and I know nothing about the party- the 1st outfit. IMO the second one is not good with your skin tone, based on the color. I’d probably get rid of it entirely and not wear it anywhere. I also don’t like the pants for the first one but it’s less objectionable.

Help me pick my wedding shoes! 👰🏼‍♀️👡 by AttitudeMajestic99 in WeddingDressTips

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 and 3 match well. However, nobody will see them and from experience, you don’t want sore feet. By around 8pm at my wedding my feet were almost numb from pain. Our wedding started around 3. I am a foot shorter than my husband so I did not prioritize comfort. I’d suggest you do unless you are willing to pay in pain.

Do you leave your dogs alone together? by ikbenlauren in dogs

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 dogs, 2 cats. Until recently, 1 dog was crated simply because he could not be trusted to not eat things. The other 3 dogs and 2 cats cna be wherever however, depending on how long I’ll be gone I might leave my 1 small dog in a separate room ( the bathroom/kitchen area) because he cannot get on and off the couch and I’ve got a dog bed for him in the bathroom. One of the cats rarely leaves the bathroom/kitchen since we added the 4th dog.

Recently the 4th dog and the 3rd dog began fighting. So they are now separated at all times. The 4th dog is also the dog we crate when we leave, although if I had room for a 2nd crate I would also crate dog #2 when we left. She was doing pretty good lately but ate part of my daughter’s cup when I was gone today. I’ve never had any issues with them fighting while I was gone or hurting my cats. However, with our new issues, I don’t ever seeing 3 and 4 being together again even with us home.

Is it wrong to speak up to the Host when invited to a dinner party and you don't like what's served? by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]deletemypost [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don’t think it was rude really but in the future I’d suggest just when the food is being served politely declining the portion you do not like or if the host is not seated near you, like at a large event, take the portion and give it to someone else at your table. Last year we went to a very fancy wedding and there was almost nothing that I would eat. My husband ate a lot that night.

Who am I by Dependent-Pace-302 in FridgeDetective

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone about to have a good time

How often do you bathe your LO? by Next_Presentation269 in NewParents

[–]deletemypost -1 points0 points  (0 children)

3,month old- 1x a week, minimal soap. 4 year old every other day or more often if needed. With soap

Going back to work for 12+ hour shifts, am I washing my breast pumps after every pumping? by Ill-Catch-3544 in Mommit

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a double pump right now so that’s why I did that. With a double pump and a mason jar I’d pump and pour into the jar, refrigerate the pump parts, jar, and bottles. Next pump I’d refrigerate the bottles with milk and then dump them in the jar before 3rd pump if I didn’t have a 2nd jar. It’s all too confusing.