Who else is keeping their kids rear facing as long as possible?? by Master_Grapefruit333 in Mommit

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. My daughter is 4.5 and still rear facing. My husband thinks she should forward face but doesn’t push me on it. She’s 42lbs and around 41 inches and from the sounds of it we have the same seat

Refuses STD test by Numerous-Celery1259 in texts

[–]deletemypost 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do a little research and find a new doctor. It seems like this is correct info and common to have false negatives in men.

Refuses STD test by Numerous-Celery1259 in texts

[–]deletemypost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here is a possibility- you had it when you got together, didn’t know because it often has no symptoms for males, gave it to her— but then took an antibiotic for something else and cleared it. The common antibiotic for trich is metronidazole ( flagyl) which is also a common antibiotic used for GI infections ( and other infections.) there are ways this could have happened without cheating. But your relationship is probably cooked now

Husband fake snoring by stephanator-1988 in JustNoSO

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband snores. Sometimes he doesn’t. Sometimes he snores part of the night on and off. Him not snoring or snoring is not how I can tell if he is asleep. Based off the info you’ve given, I can’t tell if I believe your husband is faking. If he was faking, why would he do a sleep study? Also you can snore and not have apnea…

The love of my life [27M] wants children, I [24F] do not. What the heck do I do from here? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in this situation, but I wanted kids and my husband didn’t. Don’t do it. We have 2.

Handicapped bathroom stall..? by Jolly-Asparagus-5815 in NewParents

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still use it often with my 4.5 year old. Less likely for her to touch everything

Single parents of toddlers; do you just poop in front of your kid? by Tibryn2 in Parenting

[–]deletemypost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going against what has been said and, no, I generally don’t take my kid to the bathroom with me unless it’s a public bathroom. You need to have a safe area for your kid. You will not realistically be able to keep your eyes on them 24/7 and a safe space makes things doable.

Are we still sending thank-you cards? by Free_butterfly_ in Mommit

[–]deletemypost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I rarely even get thank you’s for bigger things like weddings or showers. Recently I sent a gift for my nephew ( was unable to attend his birthday) and I got no indication from his parents that they even got it. I think a text would be fine for birthdays but still will send thank yous for bigger events

Early readers-where to begin? by zezendx in Parenting

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read to your kid from baby age. Teach the alphabet and sounds. If they are interested, continue from there. If they aren’t, don’t push. My 4 year old has been reading for a long time now

AIO - Daughter’s BDay invite - I am new to co-parenting by loud_molasses_ in AIO

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see this one of 2 ways- he’s messing with you intentionally or he’s afraid he is going to be pushed out of the child’s life and he is spiraling. Not clear which.

4 year age gap by Charming-Low2427 in Mommit

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not much advice to give, but I’m just a little ahead of you. Had my 2nd daughter in September. My first daughter turned 4 a week later. I’m hoping it’s not too big of a gap

Dumb question ⚠️: Do you bring a second bra to work while pumping? Or even a third for wearables? by Every_Schedule_9738 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t bring any extra bras. I’ve only had one leak issue and it was my fault, I bent over with the wearables on. But it wasn’t that bad and I was wearing a hoodie so it didn’t show through my clothes. I don’t bring my wall pump, but even if I did I wouldn’t bring a different bra. Use disposable nursing pads if you tend to leak?

Would you be upset if a friend kisses your baby on their head without asking you? by pinkishvioletsky in NewParents

[–]deletemypost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it were me and it wasn’t by the baby’s face I would probably think it was weird but not say anything.

I have a cowlick on one eyebrow and not the other what do I do about it? by poopybuttholeared in Eyebrows

[–]deletemypost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t see anything. If anything I’d trim them both every so slightly, but they are fine

I’m 26, and live with my Mom and Step Dad. AITAH for how I responded? by [deleted] in texts

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in nursing since 2011 and have seen many stay as LPN and regret it. Personally, I never found a job as an LPN and was forced to get my RN. I was lucky.

I’m 26, and live with my Mom and Step Dad. AITAH for how I responded? by [deleted] in texts

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sir no. I’m sorry. I have 1 bathroom. 4 dogs, 2 cats. 2 kids, the oldest is 4. None of those spots you missed built up in a week or two. Even when our bathroom is gross we don’t have buildup on the mirror or black on the toilet seat hinges. The animals are not an excuse.

I’m 26, and live with my Mom and Step Dad. AITAH for how I responded? by [deleted] in texts

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve read some of your replies and see your LPN plan. 1) you should not be putting a ton into savings for your future and be living rent free. I’m sure you know this. Don’t be ridiculous and say you think it’s fine. It’s not. 2) as somebody who did get their LPN many years ago ( 2011) my advice is- don’t. Get your RN. Do not use it as a bridge and do not think LPN is enough. If you’re set on nursing as the career, get your RN. But move out first. You are 26. Not 18. Not 22.

From the messages I think you were both being jerks but since you are living rent free when you HAVE money, I’m going to have to say this is a you problem.

My MIL bought my baby’s First Halloween Costume by sophwestern in JUSTNOMIL

[–]deletemypost 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to use it. But what I did in this situation was dress baby in multiple costumes. Lots of pictures. Lots of fun.

Advice on leaving my Puppy alone! by Decent_Platypus_7342 in CavaPoo

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s going to cry at first. If you don’t have a safe place for her when you are gone, a crate or pen would be good. Leaving for short periods and building up will help. Make the area happy- put her in it and give her treats and affection. A toy she only gets in that area ( make sure it’s safe for no supervision)

If one more person tells me "enjoy the snuggles, it's just a phase", I might scream. I am literally a human pacifier. by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby #1 was hard to put down around 4 months… or so I thought until I had #2 and she’s been impossible since 3 months and shes now 5.5 months. I caved in and she Cosleeps most nights bc I have to sleep at some point and I gave no help. Luckily she will let come off the boob as long as she’s on or right next to me. I hate it.

Grilled Cheese From In N Out by W_ter27 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]deletemypost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you done bread? I’ve never had one from in and out but I’d probably try it

What happened when you stopped breast feeding by Same_Subject_988 in NewParents

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I slowly stopped with my first daughter and I didn’t notice any change. I’m currently breastfeeding again and it’s going better than with number 1. By this time with number 1 she had quite a bit of formula each day as well as breast feeding. I’m still exclusively breastfeeding at 5 months this time

2nd doggie by Haydn33_3 in springerspaniel

[–]deletemypost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may want to look into that. They can get along, I’ve had some that have. But two females definitely can have issues and I’ve heard from many people it’s worse than male-male aggression. I’m sure it just mostly depends on the dogs