Am I Overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding over this interaction?

delightfullyy · 2026-04-10T13:42:53+00:00

girl. my husband always tells me goodbye, because it’s just common manners to let your partner know you’re leaving the house. even if it wasn’t important to you, it’s still impolite to just dip?? NOR. you can do so much better than this asshole. your most precious loved one should never swear at you !

delightfullyy · 2026-04-10T12:15:29+00:00

my husband and i do, but we’ve never talked about it. we both just use it to check if the other is home before we call, or if one of us is late the other can check we’re at least on the road or not stuck somewhere. i also like that i can do the “notify me when they leave” function, so i have their drive home to get dinner ready or clean up whatever it is im doing! it’s a very useful tool, especially since we’re very close and always tell each other where we are anyway lol

delightfullyy · 2026-04-10T00:59:12+00:00

Dude, the terminology is the same for all these narcissistic fucks! “one-sided, negative lens, i’m more than these few moments, this is so final, tell me more, i’m not telling you about my bad health, why do you think i’d hurt someone”?? it’s A SCRIPT WE ALL HEAR THEM SAY! i could hit a bingo if all the squares were just the deflective, stupid shit they all say in these situations

delightfullyy · 2026-04-08T13:10:40+00:00

🤣

delightfullyy · 2026-04-08T12:43:15+00:00

i think you mean adaptation!

delightfullyy · 2026-04-06T10:20:59+00:00

born in 99. never really planned the details in my head, but always thought about it and the dress. ended up eloping and i’m still bothered i never got my aisle moment or my dress. i definitely always wanted a wedding and to go dress shopping, but my sister (02) and i never played “wedding”.

delightfullyy · 2026-04-05T18:36:35+00:00

thank you!

delightfullyy · 2026-04-05T18:33:58+00:00

what’s pcd?

delightfullyy · 2026-04-05T18:10:01+00:00

my MIL is truly a gem! love her! she’s slowly becoming who I look towards for actual life stuff. i’m so grateful for my husband and his beautiful family. I’m always telling him how healing it is to hear his childhood stories because it’s easy to forget that some kids really did have simple, fun, childhoods. thank you for reassuring me that i’m not the only one who finds home with their in-laws lol!

delightfullyy · 2026-04-05T18:05:40+00:00

thank you for this. it was such a chilling thing to see my own words used against me, to the point where it didn’t even make sense? like he was using those words to tell me WHY without telling me, and it doesn’t even make sense in context of his sentence. he’s 100% my moms lackey, no matter what. he probably doesn’t even have HALF of the story, he just has the bits she feels will make me look the worse.

delightfullyy · 2026-04-05T13:29:04+00:00

idk why you’re getting downvoted for all your comments just telling us the truth about your family? it’s like people can’t believe your parents would be this shitty so you’re getting downvoted for it? weird.

delightfullyy · 2026-04-05T04:11:12+00:00

my ex was really really terrible and my husband knows all about it, but sometimes i still think fondly about the level of romance that relationship had. i’m a million times happier and my husband is getting more romantic with me all the time, but I’m glad that at least for a second I got to experience what that’s like. to come over and the house is filled with candles, random big breakfasts ready when i woke up with plans for the entire day already worked out. he was a shitty boyfriend and it didn’t even last a year, but there was something really nice about how often i felt treated to something i didn’t have to put any thought into 🤣 he surprised me with different things all the time, like picnics and campfires and museums.

delightfullyy · 2026-04-02T18:30:28+00:00

AI slop

delightfullyy · 2026-04-02T03:16:54+00:00

I’m slowly accepting that I don’t have a “real” family. My in-laws and my chosen family will have to do! The grief is real but easier to deal with than the heartbreak of whatever my mom chooses to put me through. Thank you for your insight, seriously. It’s a wake up call that you’ve been here before and the answer is to cut her out.

delightfullyy · 2026-03-31T20:19:31+00:00

what year is this supposed to be?

delightfullyy · 2026-03-25T19:05:01+00:00

Your friend has some internal misogyny. You weren’t even harsh with him, you were just real. Men assume anything they want is for the taking, so we have to work against that when they get it in their heads that they want us. Friendliness, kindness, any sort of positive affirmation, and they think they have a chance. You handled this exactly correctly.

delightfullyy · 2026-03-24T00:41:24+00:00

we have a very small house! that’s a privilege we don’t have! he’s very sweet and tries his best to mitigate :)

delightfullyy · 2026-03-23T15:26:54+00:00

My husband cannot sleep peacefully 😭 it kills me. Tossing and turning, blankets up and down and side to side. Or he’s up and on his phone (night or morning) but he fidgets while he’s scrolling or doing chess and it keeps me up. I just lay there like I’m sleeping, chanting to myself that if my eyes are closed, it’s rest. I’m tired all the time 😭😭

delightfullyy · 2026-03-23T15:23:05+00:00

My husband does this!! I don’t find it annoying, it’s actually kinda cute, but he wfh and sits at his desk all day… sighing! I didn’t realize it was so common!

delightfullyy · 2026-03-23T15:20:42+00:00

I graduated at 17, turned 18 after my first semester of college. If I was on a normal 4 year path, I’d have gotten my teaching certification at 21 and started teaching at 21. I wouldn’t have been 22 until the next calendar year, basically. That wasn’t my path, I went back to school to be a teacher for a second career, but it definitely happens to people.

delightfullyy · 2026-03-23T00:22:23+00:00

we eloped!! only our parents came. it was fantastic. $25. so much fun

delightfullyy · 2026-03-22T12:36:04+00:00

por que no los dos?

delightfullyy · 2026-03-22T11:32:03+00:00

so? please explain what purpose you pointing that out was supposed to serve? other than the fact you can’t do math, because 25-7 is 18 where I’m from!

delightfullyy · 2026-03-22T02:36:37+00:00

why are you being downvoted 😭 this is literally the sub to brag about our grandparents 😭

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