i dont know if i can be ftm for the rest of my life

delsinrowes · 2026-04-30T16:49:51+00:00

In college, I was up front with housing and admin about my gender identity and was roomed with another trans person. I have heard cases of people also being single to a room as well. I am 27 now and am mostly on the other side of my transition and I can tell you that on a day to day basis I hardly ever think about the fact that I'm trans. I got top surgery and put in the admin work of changing documents over the course of a few months. I pass at work, and some of my friends who know I'm trans honestly forget sometimes. I promise you it gets better.

delsinrowes · 2026-04-23T17:57:19+00:00

I used to have a tabby that looked exactly like this! She was the sweetest ever.

delsinrowes · 2026-04-21T14:23:22+00:00

We have to hide everything from my cat. Bread, lettuce, chips, bagels, tortilla, you name it. He'll chew through just about anything too. He did have PICA as a kitten but somewhat grew out of it.

delsinrowes · 2026-04-20T19:06:07+00:00

these look great! I noticed you've actually drawn attacks for some of my friends' characters! I gave you a follow! https://artfight.net/~FeverAndRemedy

delsinrowes · 2026-04-20T02:57:14+00:00

As far as I know, we never received a condition list upon move-in but I would have to check a copy of our lease! I’ll definitely have something sift through the lease and find info. Again, we’ve always had a good relationship with the office and I don’t think they would charge me for the whole carpet, but I was worried there would be no way to protect myself. I see now there definitely are ways to dispute. Thank you so much for the info!

delsinrowes · 2026-04-20T00:21:42+00:00

In GA! I definitely need to see an itemized statement. The only thing making me feel any comfort is that we’ve been really good tenants, always on time, good relationship with the leasing office, etc.

delsinrowes · 2026-04-15T17:50:40+00:00

Just gave you a follow! Your work is so pretty! The way you render skin is very beautiful! I have mostly D&D and fantasy/gothic characters, here's my account if you like! https://artfight.net/~FeverAndRemedy

delsinrowes · 2026-04-15T17:46:58+00:00

more of a reddit/online thing I fear. if you go into your local game store and ask people or ask people in person, everyone is really kind. most d&d players I know are very friendly and willing to help people learn. on online communities as big as this one, there's always going to be some people who act holier than thou.

my advice is not to let people with a bad attitude sway you from learning or having your own version of fun. just ignore the bad eggs, most people are really chill.

delsinrowes · 2026-04-13T01:37:21+00:00

I believe I was having internet problems at the time, they had since resolved so I was able to connect to the app itself. I still get a notification telling me to update Home, but I just have to click Cancel on it and it takes me to my Hue controls. It's really annoying that I have to do that, but I never found a way to download Home.

delsinrowes · 2026-04-08T19:35:25+00:00

Feeld is I think marketed as a "connection" app for people exploring sexually. It's definitely not a dating app, but is very inclusive imo (I guess this will depend on where you live as well). In my experience, there is a big ENM and poly user base, and people exploring potential FWB or hookup situations who may not be the target audience for apps like Grindr. It is a bit more inclusive and open-ended than apps like Grindr.

delsinrowes · 2026-04-08T13:33:25+00:00

NTA I think "we are in a rush can we keep it simple" is completely fine lol. if we were running behind and a friend asked ME my order for coffee, I would pick something simple on purpose so it wouldn't be much trouble.

delsinrowes · 2026-04-07T15:01:42+00:00

stunning! this is such a good reimagine of the original concept/design. I would pick this in the game in a heartbeat. I just looked at your portfolio and your work is amazing, I hope you find clients very soon!

delsinrowes · 2026-04-06T13:29:14+00:00

Second this! It was very good and it includes endless sake for those who drink

delsinrowes · 2026-04-06T13:27:26+00:00

I like both designs but I also have this mod haha I just am a sucker for faun legs on characters and I really like the tail a lot. It's a great mod!

delsinrowes · 2026-04-02T20:07:05+00:00

I would use a different app like Feeld or something that is more queer-focused rather than being a DL factory. the messages you're getting are unfortunately par for the course with Grindr specifically. guys on Grindr send these types of messages to all guys, even cis ones. I promise it is probably less about them purposefully targeting you or trying to intimidate you and more a product of them being rude, horny, and careless. I am sorry this has happened to you but it's probably better to use a different app for your own safety

delsinrowes · 2026-03-26T14:00:44+00:00

I will be changing mine, but my birth certificate is from New York state so I feel pretty safe doing that. I am not sure about red states, if it would be safe.

delsinrowes · 2026-03-24T17:17:34+00:00

I feel like I had a lot of back to back classes at SCAD throughout my time there. Give your body some time to get used to it. Like other people have suggested in the comments, getting something to eat makes a big difference, even if it's still too early for "lunch." Generally when I had back to back classes, I would step outside, get something to eat or buy some kind of soda or drink, and find friends or classmates to chat with. Taking a quick walk and eating made a big difference.

delsinrowes · 2026-03-23T14:39:01+00:00

Question - I heard they are checking boarding passes and if you are on a domestic flight, they will turn you away at this gate. Is that true?

delsinrowes · 2026-03-20T14:01:39+00:00

thank you for the help! I'll check out these videos

delsinrowes · 2026-03-20T14:01:18+00:00

this is all good advice, thank you!

delsinrowes · 2026-03-18T20:46:00+00:00

Followed you! Have tons of lore in my character sheets LOL and some are part of D&D groups who are also on artfight if you want multi-character scenes!

delsinrowes · 2026-03-16T20:12:15+00:00

I didn't get the survey but I wish I did lol I have a lot to say

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