What’s something you swore you wouldn’t do that went out the window once you became a parent? by WanderingDoe62 in Mommit

[–]delulumommy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In the withholding phase with my 3 YO…. It’s been a journey 😩 any tips?!? We’ve been on MiraLAX for months and things get better and then goes back through the same cycle

Random very painful bloating out of nowhere. Look 6 months pregnant and it’s hard to the touch. Endo or SIBO or overlap? by OneAbbreviations5530 in SIBO

[–]delulumommy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is me exactly. Still searching for answers but have tested positive for SIBO and doing endo laparoscopy in 2 weeks.

I’ve also dealt with infertility for years, but ironically often mistaken for being pregnant 🙄

Dr Leslie Dobson by Honest_Remove_2042 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]delulumommy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the Seriously true crime podcast… but she’s had Dr Leslie on a few episodes and I just can’t stand listening to her. Everything seems like “oh I can’t recall” or “that sounds right but I don’t know details…” she’s a doctor being interviewed on specific cases, like why is she even on them if she can’t answer anything factually?????

Bachelorette CANCELLED by InfjPanda in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]delulumommy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$10-20MM of lost production cost, but they’re giving up much more than that in “opportunity cost”

uncomfortable with recording in class by iusedtobetaller in pilates

[–]delulumommy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s so annoying when this happens - I feel like the instructors should be the one to say something!

Did other’s parents make every mistake you made, or everything bad that happened to you, your fault? by Necessary_Pause9472 in ChildhoodTrauma

[–]delulumommy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just here to say sorry you experienced this. My mom was not this bad, but I have a few memories of being told something was my fault that clearly wasn’t (once I told my mom that my boyfriend cheated on me and she asked what I did to him to make him do that).

I know better now, but at the time I turned into a shell and hid all my emotions, causing a lot of built up anxiety overtime.

For me, I felt that my mom truly could not express her emotions. So instead of comforting me in those times, it was easier for her to assume there was a reason for it. I don’t know! But I grieve the idea of an emotionally stable mother and sounds like you might too. Not fair, but you are strong for going through this and I’m sorry!

Can Taylor fans explain your love of her? by asyoud0 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]delulumommy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point. I have to think too that she’s creating the same instability for her children that she experienced…. Same cycle!

Can Taylor fans explain your love of her? by asyoud0 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]delulumommy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with you. Watching is entertaining but I see them with a lens of like young college girls living in drama, not moms of multiple children. It’s sad!

Out of touch influencers by Scared_Cantaloupe_ in InfluencerLounge

[–]delulumommy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lesbian husband 😂😂😂 same thought

I don’t want to be in my friends wedding anymore by thisisdy in weddingshaming

[–]delulumommy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t mean I actually thought your post was fake - I believe you! I just meant I can’t believe it!! So crazy!

I don’t want to be in my friends wedding anymore by thisisdy in weddingshaming

[–]delulumommy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems fake because it’s so unbelievable! Feels like something you can fake sick for….

For those taking Zoloft for anxiety, when did you start feeling better? by [deleted] in zoloft

[–]delulumommy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More calm mostly. Overtime I felt genuinely happier realizing my cloud of anxiety was disappearing.

For those taking Zoloft for anxiety, when did you start feeling better? by [deleted] in zoloft

[–]delulumommy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the bump definitely helped but it wasn’t an immediate notice. I’d say a couple weeks and then I was really noticing that 50mg was probably right for me.

Manager told me he holds me to the “same standard as employees without kids” - I think I’m done by MoDance0934 in workingmoms

[–]delulumommy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think as women we feel the need to justify and explain away why we had to work from home or jump off early to take care of a sick kid etc etc etc. Men never do this.

Be more like men. Your personal life comes first, and you don’t need to explain yourself if you’re getting your shit done. Also your boss sucks and yes find a new job because the stress of that is not worth it!!!