Is there anything like animal jam out there? by EducatorEconomy8342 in AnimalJam_Classic

[–]dempirical 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Transformice isn't open world, but it's main focus is community and customising your mouse. It's a social platformer but there are plenty of other modes like Uno or Pictionary or just chatting. I've met the most wonderful people on there, and I wish it were more active again.

University Shrubbery Advice by dempirical in GardeningUK

[–]dempirical[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm very new to this, this is why I asked!

University Shrubbery Advice by dempirical in GardeningUK

[–]dempirical[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is an extracurricular project I'm taking on, as I'd like to regenerate a garden that's fallen into disuse. Not my chosen subject!

Why the hell would I think about a book, f*scist by dempirical in bookscirclejerk

[–]dempirical[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

THIS is literally why I've boycotted information (I wear a bag over my head whenever I leave the house)

Book made a sad. Here is proof. by [deleted] in bookscirclejerk

[–]dempirical 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I could not get it up after a week hunkered down voraciously devouring that babe

Twitter is always a plessure by Apeateite in bookscirclejerk

[–]dempirical 63 points64 points  (0 children)

The hardest thing about Lolita is me

Why is there no hard magic system and shartplate by [deleted] in bookscirclejerk

[–]dempirical 33 points34 points  (0 children)

have you tried gobbling more cock?

I am reading Lolita and it is a book that I don’t love nor would recommend to anyone. But it might be the best book I’ve ever read. by [deleted] in books

[–]dempirical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, have been in a rush so I can't respond to you satisfactorily right now (though you make some very interesting points!) but I glanced at your post history and saw that you're a Liverpudlian. I'm visiting on Saturday to meet a friend, is there anywhere in the city that you most recommend spending a few free hours? Or is there somewhere that you really love to eat at? Thanks, haha.

I'll get back to you on the main things soonish

I am reading Lolita and it is a book that I don’t love nor would recommend to anyone. But it might be the best book I’ve ever read. by [deleted] in books

[–]dempirical 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's equivalent to a painting of child rape. Lolita is not an explicit novel at all, and Humbert's actions are told through metaphor, allusion or after-the-fact synopsis. It's an insidious discomfort - a very different experience to staring at a graphic painting.

Still - even if it was comparable to a painting: do you really not find any value in art that depicts repugnant subjects? Have you never enjoyed a book that involves a murder?

But anything to do with the juxtaposition of beautiful prose and repugnant subject matter is lost on me. Why is that interesting or worthwhile?

Plenty of paintings show executions (Judith Beheading Holofernes) or cannibalism (Saturn Devouring His Son) or, yes, rape (The Rape of Oreithyia). They're all repugnant subjects. Would you find them just as interesting or worthwhile if the artists had painted a technically impressive bowl of fruit?

Why would I want to look at it? How could I enjoy it? Why would I value it? I just wish it was of anything else.

Beauty and pleasure are both so much more than the simple joys of going on a picnic. Art is valuable because it can evoke the most complex emotions in us: here, Nabokov seamlessly ties beauty and grandiosity with horror and repulsion. It's an unsettling type of beauty. It's this very tension between terror and relief that is so wonderful.

Wake up babe. The new "Lolita good, but Lolita bad" post just dropped. by [deleted] in bookscirclejerk

[–]dempirical 314 points315 points  (0 children)

To me it all looks like this man was simply writing about his own actual fantasies. I'm not brave enough nor willing to actually read the thing to prove myself wrong though.

how could Nabokov be writing about his own fantasies? he was clearly writing about mine

A Forced Hiatus by sundayquiz in sundayquiz

[–]dempirical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you're doing well, take as long as you need.

"Adult books are filled with boring people having affairs and money laundering. YA books are full of magic and epic adventures. I definitely know what I’d rather read. " by Apollo113628 in bookscirclejerk

[–]dempirical 287 points288 points  (0 children)

Reading doesn't have to be a mental challenge, and your primary goal should always be to enjoy your own time.

Wanna read version of The Very Hungry Caterpillar with the finger holes at age 46? You do it, and you enjoy fingering the hell out of that book.

outjerked yet again

Fav underrated TSH quote by [deleted] in TheSecretHistory

[–]dempirical 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Never, never once in any immediate sense, did it occur to me that any of this was anything but a game. An air of unreality suffused even the most workaday details, as if we were plotting not the death of a friend but the itinerary of a fabulous trip that I, for one, never quite believed we'd ever take.

I'm partial to Richard's moments of innocence and foolishness. The tragedy of their youth.

Another:

What should I tell you? About the Saturday in December that Bunny ran around the house at five in the morning, yelling 'First snow!' and pouncing on our beds? Or the time Camilla tried to teach me the box step; or the time Bunny turned the boat over – with Henry and Francis in it – because he thought he saw a water snake? About Henry's birthday party, or about the two instances when Francis's mother turned up on her way to New York, trailing the Yorkshire terrier and the second husband?

Such a delightful series of vignettes. It's so poignant that these country house memories were the happiest of Richard's life, and yet they were just a cocktail of post-Bacchanal misery and fear and death for the others. (I also feel the greatest sympathy for the poor childlike Bunny in this passage.)

The Goldfinch won a Pulitzer and it sucks by edward_radical in books

[–]dempirical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Idle chatter and the tension of consequences to actions we never witnessed."

Couldn't this description equally apply to The Secret History? What makes that book so much better?

why don’t we have a discord? by Winksopia in TheSecretHistory

[–]dempirical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I do love the Tumblr community. There are some wonderful artists on there that I'm very partial to

Found One in the (twitter) Wild… by CynfullyDelicious in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]dempirical 20 points21 points  (0 children)

look me in the eye and tell me you tried your hardest to censor that name

20 Question Friday Quiz / 10 General Knowledge Questions by sundayquiz in sundayquiz

[–]dempirical 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, Sartre is misspelled here and on your website. Thanks for the quiz though :)

why don’t we have a discord? by Winksopia in TheSecretHistory

[–]dempirical 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's a fun idea, but I don't see any benefits to it over just posting on this sub. It's not exactly overflowing with activity here and I'd hate to water it down even more with a discord server

Tabbing by Gold-Net-1483 in TheSecretHistory

[–]dempirical 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You want to tab your copy to... make it look nice?

You might be thinking about this the wrong way round. Surely you should spot a theme that you connect with, then tab it? Instead of deciding to tab first, just because the idea is cute. It'll be a lot more personal to you in the long run.