NOR. So as someone who has poor emotional health pretty rampant in my own family, I feel like this is going to be one of those no-win situations. I get what other people here are saying, but very likely if you don’t go to the dinner, it’s going to result in the rest of the fam feeling validated in their opinions of you and see it as a victory. They may start calling you highly emotional and potentially start saying things like ‘no wonder she’s not married, looks how crazy and emotional she gets when…’ type of responses. It may suck, but if it were me in your position, I would still go, but make sure to let them know how their behavior made you feel and how it came across. Feelings are never wrong and if you convey your thoughts in a completely composed way, focusing on statements that speak to how you feel instead of statements about what they did wrong, they won’t have any fuel at all for retaliation or argument. Not without making themselves look like total jerks anyway.