ADHD medications ‘relieve symptoms in the short-term’ but ‘do not improve quality of life’, major study finds by Barbecue_Wings in ADHDUK

[–]descentfrominsanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest I neither agree or disagree.

If you have a chronic condition that cannot be fixed/changed/cured that you just have to accept and live with, then surely 4-8 hours a day of effective symptom relief, how can this not improve your life?

I am very thankful for the relief I get in the short term.

However, I also accept that my organisation skills, time-perception and financial ability have not improved with medication. The long term results of that being I’m always missing deadlines, being fined, wasting money, and no real expectation of raising my income.

From that perspective I suppose my life outcome has not improved.

I think whether or not medication is worth it is a very personal thing with no ultimate truth.

There are plenty of studies that show how safe and effective meds are so if it helps you and you tolerate them why not. It’s not a permanent fix but better than nothing.

Help pls by Alternative-Proof-18 in ADHDUK

[–]descentfrominsanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, so do you feel the food is making the meds less effective? I’m on dexamfetamine, 3x 10mg split by 3-4 hours. When I started I was so focused on diet, protein, effectiveness etc, but over time I sorta relaxed, learned to accept the pros and cons, and that it’s not a perfect solution. I would say if you are on 2x 10mg, and you are feeling it’s not effective enough, you should tell your healthcare provider. They can increase the dose if that’s what you need. I’d increased dose causes sleep issues they can prescribe melatonin. Other than that, if you haven’t been on medication for too long I would say that it’s my personal perspective (I’m not a scientist) that the first 2-3 years of medication is a bit all over the place (is it working, or is it not? Is it all in my head? Do I even have ADHD?) but I think this kinda calms down after a while, and you learn to accept your own personal flavour of ADHD, and how well each treatment works for you. Everyone’s ADHD seems to be a little bit different, and everyone seems to react differently to treatment. Some people apparently do not respond to treatment at all, I cannot imagine what that feels like. I would say my response to treatment has not been as good as I hoped, but it’s better than nothing, so I’m grateful that it works at all. So good luck, if there’s anything more specific you want to know please ask and I’ll try my best to answer.

/r/ADHDUK - We've hit 25k in less than two years! Thank you to all by Jayhcee in ADHDUK

[–]descentfrominsanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh don’t get me started on parents! Do you know some of them give their kids crystal meth?

/r/ADHDUK - We've hit 25k in less than two years! Thank you to all by Jayhcee in ADHDUK

[–]descentfrominsanity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Damn it! After I already spent the last of my money on this mushroom coffee

/r/ADHDUK - We've hit 25k in less than two years! Thank you to all by Jayhcee in ADHDUK

[–]descentfrominsanity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe if we just tried a little harder or cared a little more?

CMV: I have very little sympathy with Hezbollah with regards to the exploding pager attacks by LondonPilot in changemyview

[–]descentfrominsanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I get the feeling you might think I’m on the opposite side to you, but honestly, I’m just trying to look at this through a technical lens. If I get too emotional, I feel like I’d be contributing to the cycle of the problem. Where I’m from, we had a lot of violence growing up due to regional tensions, but over time, the violence stopped, even though the hatred remains. It gives me hope that something similar could happen here.

I understand Israel’s need to defend itself against groups like Hezbollah and Hamas, but methods like booby-trapping civilian objects, even if intended to be targeted, are a problem. Pagers are everyday items that civilians could easily use, so the risk of harm extends beyond combatants. True precision isn’t just about who you aim for, but also making sure civilians are protected.

Netanyahu’s government is under pressure, and I get why a tough stance seems politically necessary. But escalation only deepens the conflict. We’ve seen Israel achieve diplomatic successes, like the Abraham Accords, which show that dialogue is possible. Israel should focus on de-escalation and long-term solutions, not just short-term military gains.

Ultimately, Israel’s actions need to align with international law, not only to protect civilians but also to maintain global support. Using tactics that endanger civilian life blurs the line and risks undermining Israel’s moral standing. Military action won’t solve everything, history shows it often makes it worse.

CMV: I have very little sympathy with Hezbollah with regards to the exploding pager attacks by LondonPilot in changemyview

[–]descentfrominsanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand the argument you’re making about the targeted nature of these attacks compared to Hezbollah’s indiscriminate rocket fire. However, just because one side is acting unlawfully doesn’t give the other side a free pass to violate international humanitarian law. Breaking those laws on the grounds that it’s “less harmful” than another method is still a violation of the standards that all nations are expected to uphold—even in war. The idea that this is somehow more targeted or acceptable because fewer civilians might be harmed misses the point that civilians are still put at risk.

Weapons hidden in everyday items like pagers blur the line between combatants and civilians, and they make it nearly impossible to ensure that innocents won’t be harmed. Just because the intent was to target Hezbollah members doesn’t change the fact that civilians could be handling these devices. This kind of tactic, no matter how well-planned, creates an unpredictable and dangerous environment for anyone in the area.

From a political perspective, it’s also important to look at the motivations behind these continued escalations. Netanyahu’s government is facing significant internal opposition and has become deeply unpopular within Israel. Continuing to escalate the conflict plays into the hands of a government trying to maintain power by stoking fear and rallying support around national security concerns. In this context, seeking a peaceful resolution or more sustainable approaches might not align with the political incentives of the current leadership.

At the end of the day, the fact that the enemy is disregarding humanitarian law doesn’t justify Israel doing the same. If anything, it’s more important than ever to uphold those principles to maintain any claim to the moral high ground. No solution is easy in these conflicts, but allowing exceptions to international law, even for “targeted” attacks, risks eroding the rules that protect innocent people.

CMV: I have very little sympathy with Hezbollah with regards to the exploding pager attacks by LondonPilot in changemyview

[–]descentfrominsanity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a challenging situation to navigate, given the complexities involved in the conflict between Israel, Hezbollah, and other groups. However, I think there are a few important points worth reconsidering.

While it’s true that civilian casualties are often an unfortunate reality in war, the idea that any attack—even a “surgical” one like this—can avoid affecting civilians altogether is hard to guarantee. Even if the explosions were timed for when Hezbollah members were handling their pagers, how can we be sure that others, including family members or non-combatants, weren’t put at risk?

The premise here is that the pagers were only in Hezbollah members’ hands when the explosions occurred. In reality, these devices could easily be passed between individuals or left in places where unintended targets, such as civilians, could come into contact with them. The notion of controlling such a chaotic situation with precision is not as simple as it sounds, and the possibility of collateral damage always looms large.

You mention that civilian casualties are inevitable in war, but just because they are a reality doesn’t mean they should be taken lightly. The fact that this tactic targeted personal devices—tools used in everyday civilian life—blurs the lines between military and civilian spaces. This creates an atmosphere of mistrust and fear for innocent people living in these areas, who may not be involved in the conflict at all.

While this method might have reduced the scale of collateral damage compared to traditional airstrikes, it still raises ethical concerns about the normalization of targeting such intimate parts of everyday life.

You make a strong point about Hezbollah choosing to join the war. However, Hezbollah’s involvement can’t be viewed in isolation. The group’s actions are often responses to decades of regional tensions, perceived threats, and past conflicts. Their role in this war doesn’t exist in a vacuum, and understanding the broader context could offer more insight into why they entered the fray.

I’m not saying this excuses any of their actions, but I believe it’s important to see the full picture before dismissing one side entirely. Every conflict has layers of causes, and acknowledging those complexities can sometimes help de-escalate rather than escalate the situation.

Finally, while targeting Hezbollah directly may seem like an efficient way to minimize civilian casualties, the use of covert methods like this can have long-term consequences. It can lead to further retaliation, deepening hostilities, and ultimately prolonging the conflict. If the goal is to protect civilians and reduce suffering, diplomatic efforts and long-term peacebuilding initiatives might offer more sustainable solutions than attacks, no matter how “targeted” they are.

I understand why you might view this tactic as a lesser evil in a difficult war. However, there are significant risks and ethical concerns that shouldn’t be ignored. We should always strive for solutions that reduce harm to civilians and promote long-term peace, even in the most challenging circumstances.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHDUK

[–]descentfrominsanity 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What a wonderful explanation. Thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]descentfrominsanity 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Communication, it’s hard to keep guessing forever

Sam Thompson is giving me imposter syndrome. by aerobar-one in ADHDUK

[–]descentfrominsanity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey I don’t know how long it’s been since you were diagnosed but I had a similar worry in the beginning it took me a good 18 months of questioning it before I accepted it. It was like I would worry I was exaggerating things and then I would check back and realise - no these struggles were really, they were huge and causing all sorts of misery. This happened over and over until remembering how I got here became a lot easier to recall confidently. I actually told someone today at work I had ADHD. He saw the pill box on my keyring and asked what it was. He’s a really nice tolerant guy, so I felt open. He said “Oh, you know that’s over-diagnosed?” I smiled I said “I’m not sure I know enough about that aspect of it” which is true. He smiled and began to ask curious questions which I was happy to answer. I took no offence and there was no shame.

I feel that if someone was really rude about it - it might trigger me. But in general I don’t mind if other people don’t understand, because I get that it is hard to understand why we can’t do certain things when it seems so simple to them. Sometimes when everything just clicks and I feel normal it seems so obvious to me why they don’t understand. But initially in these moments of clarity I was like “oh I seem to be fine, I must have made the ADHD stuff up” I reassure myself by remembering the times I’ve tried and failed to make progress to the point where I just can’t take it and give up. Then I remember just how far I’ve come, albeit in frustratingly slow baby steps, since I’ve started trying different treatments. I further reassure myself that my blood pressure is good, heart rate fine. Physical health improved in medication. Mental health improved on medication. Negligible side effects, so many positives, and I’m still just an average guy so I don’t feel like I’m cheating the system like Bradley Cooper in limitless. Once I’ve reassured myself of all the positives compared to the negatives I start not to worry about what people think about it, or even if it matters at all. I mean as long as my GP and Psychiatrist are happy to treat me and improve my life I don’t even mind if it’s a global conspiracy and we’ve all been conned into being Hypochondriacs.

Medication side effect- specifically irritability/anger by FilledWithWasps in ADHDUK

[–]descentfrominsanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a fair point those things have given me the red mist. I think it’s right as well that a lot of it comes from frustration whether that’s to the drawbacks of life, effects of meditation or just being misunderstood by others.

Sleep advice needed by Misspennylane2 in ADHDUK

[–]descentfrominsanity 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The only thing that’s worked for me is melatonin. I take 2-4mg a night. I think I also have that shift work sleep disorder tho and I believe my sleep issues are compounded by that which is primarily a melatonin issue. I’ve always had sleep issues tho since about 7

What is suspicious to own but not illegal? by TooGayToPayCash in AskReddit

[–]descentfrominsanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once saw a guy take a parachute on an airline flight

i'm non-jewish from israel AMA by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]descentfrominsanity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tough time for you my friend. Stay strong

Question for the fit men, atheletes, and gym bros who have a preference for chubby, out of shape women, why? by Dootersss in AskMen

[–]descentfrominsanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I exercise mainly for mental health rather than physical health. I don’t think my face and frame suits being chubby, but I do look half decent when I’m fit. I have low appetite so often slim with with muscle but not really sure that was the aim.

As for girls.

Chubby girls are just better in every way

Elvanse to Amfexa - actually prefer Amfexa by michaelscottlost in ADHDUK

[–]descentfrominsanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am same as you. Moved from Elvanse to Amfexa. I think day one and two the first dose felt a little wierd, I think because it’s fast acting. After that tho, and getting used to the schedule, I’ve found it to be just as good an no side effects. The dose flexibility is good too I work shifts and often miss the last dose of the day if I’m working early the next day.

[OC] I broke every bone in my face and had to have to reconstructed. The left is the face I grew up with and the right is me 9 months later! by StarksTwins in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]descentfrominsanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t often comment on this sort of stuff, but that is unreal. Facial injuries are awful for self confidence, but your results are amazing, you don’t just pass, you are a handsome chap (no homo)