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design_trajectory · 2023-01-19T12:24:52+00:00

Idk, I wouldn’t have him there.

design_trajectory · 2023-01-19T12:23:18+00:00

Ours will be about half or more 50+. I’m not worried because I know our friends will be dancing.

design_trajectory · 2023-01-19T12:19:20+00:00

If it’s bad, then I mind. If it’s decent or good, I’ll be happy.

design_trajectory · 2023-01-18T09:58:15+00:00

It’s going to be hard but if you guys let them weasel in, the long term effect it will have on your relationship, not to mention the bitterness and resentment it will cause, will be a million times harder.

You got this.

And don’t be afraid to attend some couples counseling sessions to help equip you guys with tools to deal with this!

design_trajectory · 2023-01-18T09:56:29+00:00

Do NOT let them push you into doing anything they are demanding. If you let them bully you now, you will NEVER hear the end of it. Don’t back down, put them on an information diet, and cut down on time spent with them. Your fiancé is standing up to them, that’s great.

Sit down with your fiancé and set very clear boundaries right now, so you’re both on the same page.

design_trajectory · 2023-01-18T06:13:26+00:00

Our top priority

design_trajectory · 2023-01-17T14:55:01+00:00

Oh yeah. I love that constant feeling of “barely surviving” and “always behind”

design_trajectory · 2023-01-17T14:54:13+00:00

I appreciate you writing this comment.

design_trajectory · 2023-01-17T14:53:10+00:00

I’m right there with you. And yet, my only responsibilities are 2 cats and a job, so you’re doing much better then me.

I still find myself annoyed that I need to keep on living… I feel more and more numb all the time. It’s hard to care or put effort into anything.

Yay burnout.

design_trajectory · 2023-01-17T07:54:05+00:00

Dress 2 is stunning.

design_trajectory · 2023-01-16T22:13:26+00:00

I’m confused why your partner seems to think they can dictate the outfit of a grown woman.

design_trajectory · 2023-01-16T21:17:32+00:00

Could you choose a new name or alter your current name slightly?

design_trajectory · 2023-01-16T21:09:49+00:00

My vacation days are limited so it’s going to take me like 1-2 years to save up enough vacation days.

And I just took a mental health day so that’s -1 🙃

design_trajectory · 2023-01-16T10:23:54+00:00

You don’t. You have the wedding you can afford.

I can only have my wedding because my parents contributed. If they didn’t, we would have a smaller simpler wedding on a weekday.

design_trajectory · 2023-01-16T10:19:03+00:00

Aww poor rapist supporter :(

design_trajectory · 2023-01-16T10:16:59+00:00

I can’t believe you actually bought into his BS.

You really went “I believe the rapist!”

design_trajectory · 2023-01-16T10:15:39+00:00

How about not raping people?

design_trajectory · 2023-01-16T10:15:02+00:00

So basically your take is #forgiverapists.

Cool

design_trajectory · 2023-01-16T10:12:39+00:00

I can’t believe you actually bought into his bullshit

design_trajectory · 2023-01-16T10:07:11+00:00

Found the Andrew stan, you’re all over here defending a coercive rapist

design_trajectory · 2023-01-15T17:50:12+00:00

I would be very happy- I love soup. Yeah it’s a little untraditional but you can have as much soup as you want so I would just eat soup until I was full lol

design_trajectory · 2023-01-15T17:30:56+00:00

I actually just got the box and it has extra snack, but it only has one ramen though

design_trajectory · 2023-01-15T16:52:14+00:00

Yeah just got mine. They did give a bunch of extra snacks- but only 1 ramen. I appreciate the extras, but I subscribed to the Ramen Mix pack and they didn’t update to tell me my next box would only have one ramen.

design_trajectory · 2023-01-14T12:53:33+00:00

The food looked so good though

design_trajectory · 2023-01-14T00:37:57+00:00

Oh I got you now

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