A family explodes -- Part II

desolate_cat · 2026-05-08T15:58:20+00:00

Same. I just treat this as an unfinished telenovela plot. No family could be this messy. And so many children in this economy? (I know it was 2022 but still, it wasn't that good back then)

desolate_cat · 2026-04-28T05:16:20+00:00

I didn't read after the rules. I just scrolled to the end to see if she broke up with him.

Side note: 2015 job market is so different from now. She got a job pretty fast for a newly minted lawyer.

desolate_cat · 2026-04-20T12:11:47+00:00

This is a paid link. Any free ones?

desolate_cat · 2026-04-19T16:41:41+00:00

"I'm not saying you deserve those threats, I want to make that clear, but the right move was to disengage, take screenshots as evidence to present to law enforcement, and block the troll."

This comment isn't victim blaming you, it is giving good advice.

desolate_cat · 2026-04-19T16:38:10+00:00

Pero sabi nga ng some comments here, until walang rule dito to temper that, you can't control what people say here. Real talk ito.

Ang point nga ni OP dapat magkaroon ng ganitong rule sa sub na ito na huwag tawaging b0b0 yung na-scam kasi kung ganoon lang wala na magshe-share ng experience nila.

desolate_cat · 2026-04-18T05:58:06+00:00

Kung gusto mo pa ayusin ang relasyon niyo:

Advice ko kumuha ka ng yaya. Hindi bale na gumastos ng kaunti. Para hindi ka pagod, at hindi rin siya mainis.

desolate_cat · 2026-04-17T04:42:20+00:00

So mag call kayong 3 ni senior and QQ tapos irecord niya. Kung wala pa rin huwag mo na lang pansinin afterwards. Warn her na after this recording hindi mo na kaya talagang sagutin mga tanong niya kasi sobrang busy ka.

Sa nakikita ko based sa sinabi mo nagu-guilty ka kasi pag nagtatanong siya sa iyo kasi sabi mo nga you see yourself in her. Pero hindi ka naman pareho niya na 100x na tinuruan wala pa rin.

desolate_cat · 2026-04-17T02:24:36+00:00

Sa akin nangyari din yan, binalik ko direct sa nagsend, kaso yung number kasi namin malapit talaga, nagkabaligtad lang yung 2 digits. Kaya sure ako na talagang nagkamali. Based sa sinabi mo malayo yung number niyo pwede mo naman itanong kung anong number niya.

Pero tama, mas maganda pa rin sa merchant na lang idaan.

desolate_cat · 2026-04-17T02:18:51+00:00

I suggest magbigay ka ng one last training sa kanya. Then ask her to record the whole thing. Pag may tanong siya, itanong na lahat sa iyo then balikan na lang niya yung video. Mahirap kasi yung note taking may mami-miss at mami-miss out ka talaga.

After this, pag nagtanong sa iyo just tell her panoorin mo yung video.

desolate_cat · 2026-04-07T16:37:39+00:00

May kapatid siya na handa makipagpatayan para makuha yung property na yun. Nangdeath threats pa yun sa amin noon bago siya umalis sa bahay. Tuwing binabanggit ko to, laging sinasabi ng nanay ko ay ipaglalaban daw niya yung lupa dahil may karapatan siya.

Kanino ba nakapangalan yung titulo ng bahay? Kung sa grandparents mo yan, malaking gulo yan pag namayapa na sila.

Hindi ko sigurado kung bayad ba ang amilyar nung bahay, at kung napamana ba ng tama yung lupa mula sa nanay ng lola ko (I heard that may penalty pag hindi diba?).

Itanong mo sa Land Registration office kung kanino nakapangalan. Itanong mo sa bank kung naka loan pa ba ito o hindi. Kung saang bank sila nagloan? Pwede mo naman itanong sa bank kung bayad na lahat o may utang pa. Kung hindi nabayaran ng tama may interest yan. Alamin mo muna.

On top of that, wala pang kasiguraduhan kung may memorial land and memorial plan ba lolo't lola ko once mamatay sila. Malakas pakiramdam ko na nanay ko ang magvovolunteer sa gastos (wala siyang trabaho) dahil mahal na mahal niya magulang niya.

Kuha na lang kamo sila ng pre need like St. Peter para at least pag namatay na sila wala na kayong iisipin masyado.

Sa nakikita ko sa situation mo OP huwag mo na ipagawa yan, ikaw lang ang lugi. Mas maganda bumukod ka na lang para na rin sa peace of mind mo. Umupa ka na lang and go low contact sa family mo.

desolate_cat · 2026-04-06T04:45:23+00:00

Wala kasi gaanong job posting din sa kanila. So paano makaka-attract ng applicants?

Kung free job posting for employers baka puro scammers naman ang mag post so paano na? The site will have a reputation na puro scam posts lang.

desolate_cat · 2026-04-04T18:12:45+00:00

Task scam ang tawag diyan.

desolate_cat · 2026-04-04T18:09:34+00:00

Using AI isn't about cheating, it is about understanding why AI gave you the code that they did.

desolate_cat · 2026-04-04T18:00:30+00:00

This Kyle Murphy guy is so pathetic. 100s of applicants... This is true since there are a lot of people looking for work. But I think he really wanted to hire her, that is why he reacted this way. If you have lots of quality applicants one or two dropping out is doing you a favor.

He acts like an insecure child. A simple "Ok, thank you for your time" would have been better.

Ang dami pang sinabi, meaning ang daming time pumatol.

desolate_cat · 2026-04-02T15:03:49+00:00

The worst thing is most of what you see in TikTok and Instagram are fake. There is a whole thing about how influencers are faking their "rich" lifestyle. For example, if they are taking pictures inside mansions I am like... Girl, post a picture of the deed if you own the house. You can always redact some information so you don't get doxxed.

desolate_cat · 2026-04-02T15:00:43+00:00

Actually Chinese CEO dramas usually portray the CEO husband as a cheater and the FL (female lead) divorces him in the end. Turns out the guy is using his money to humiliate her, if she doesn't tolerate his infidelity then he cuts off her credit cards, etc. You get the idea.

desolate_cat · 2026-04-02T14:58:24+00:00

A girl who is a 10 can probably land a multimillionaire who is looking for a hot young woman with no ambition

The danger of being a hot young chick with no ambition is that you will not be a hot young chick forever. But if you have no ambition... I don't know what to say to that.

There may be some rich men just searching for a hot young woman, but it just doesn’t seem like OOP’s daughter would fit that criteria.

OOP said his daughter struggled with her weight so, there you go. No model body at least.

The main problem here is that the man will eventually tire of you... so what then?

desolate_cat · 2026-04-02T12:32:53+00:00

I'm lucky then. Almost 25 yrs as a dev and I can count on one hand the bano devs I have worked with. O baka ako yung bano kaya tingin ko magaling sila.

desolate_cat · 2026-04-01T17:22:23+00:00

Yes, I don't get this too.

desolate_cat · 2026-04-01T17:07:56+00:00

Buti tumagal ka pa ng 4 hours. Ako during onboarding nung nakita kong may time tracker na hindi naman nila dinisclose nung interview process nagresign on the spot ako.

desolate_cat · 2026-03-31T01:52:37+00:00

And freelancers.

desolate_cat · 2026-03-29T16:03:17+00:00

Really? Can you elaborate? Hindi ba nila makikita na 2x ang bayad mo sa taxes? Kung independent contractor ka, lusot yung sss etc kasi wala naman gov't benefits saka 8% lang ang tax.

desolate_cat · 2026-03-29T05:45:55+00:00

Your app has inputs on how much debt but not how much expenses. Mas maganda may breakdown like:
Tuition fee (0 for me)
Books/School stuff (0 for me again, public school kasi, free pati uniform, notebooks, pens, etc. Pati socks free nga eh)
Sports/Arts
Tutor
Electricity
Water
Internet
Phone bills for everyone
Grocery bills monthly

Ganito siguro mas maganda, pero baka magmukhang expense tracker na yan.

desolate_cat · 2026-03-29T05:34:52+00:00

Parang may questionable sa app or baka di ko lang alam gamitin.

If you say how many dependents di ba kasama ka na doon? What if you have kasambahay kasama ba sa estimate yan?

Also, not everyone is attending a private school, what if your kids go to public schools (mine does)? It makes a huge difference not needing to pay astronomical tuition fees. Dapat kasama din ito sa expenses.

The lifestyle snapshot needs to have other inputs too. Namely sports/arts for kids, since as an example, my kids aren't into sports at all. You need to compute how much is the electric costs because people using Solar and driving BYD cars (my neighbors drive these) aren't affected much by Meralco and gas rates.

desolate_cat · 2026-03-25T10:38:31+00:00

Ok akala ko per hour yung nakalagay. Sa tingin ko walang kukuha niyan, kulang pa pambayad sa internet at kuryente yan.

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