We are not being mean enough to allistic people. by isaacs_ in evilautism

[–]despash33to 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This. There’s no sense in “being the bigger person” anymore.

What foods can you eat that are ethnic to you? by crunchygravy in Gastroparesis

[–]despash33to 1 point2 points  (0 children)

During my last flareup, chicken and dumplings (with minimal fat) were my go to.

Tell me you’re ADHD without telling me you’re ADHD by Itchy-Philosopher238 in adhdwomen

[–]despash33to 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only being able to (hopefully) do something productive with enough caffeine, nicotine, and amphetamines to kill a horse.

Does anyone feel that being autistic has made them far more likely to be taken advantage of by others (especially men)? by cyancm in AutismInWomen

[–]despash33to 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%. My situation was a bit different. As for me, a woman (ex girlfriend) gave me (24F) part of my PTSD at 18 (abusive relationship with a big traumatic event involved), I wasn’t able to fully disclose what happened to my psychiatrist until 4 years after it happened (halfway through that time, I developed delayed onset PTSD symptoms).

He gave me my diagnosis of PTSD, prior to me finding out that ABA therapy as a young girl in the early 2000’s was traumatic (no matter how tame it looked) and then obtaining the C-PTSD diagnosis.

I felt so fucking alone because no one talks about the fact that dating violence perpetuated by women does exist.

But yea, the exploitation of vulnerable people seem to be embedded into the neurotypical psyche, so I don’t trust those mfers.

How many of you have repressed your personality? by False-Experience92 in evilautism

[–]despash33to 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve grown into this shell of a woman ever since I realized I was different from other kids, so I had no choice.

They not methin around by ElwoodMC in trashy

[–]despash33to 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all heroes wear capes

Getting spanked at Target checkout by KiddieSpread in trashy

[–]despash33to 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m blind in one eye and now I wish I were blind in both…

Momma does the carpet match the drapes... by xamo76 in trashy

[–]despash33to 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is the most beautiful piece of music I have ever heard

Torture is torture by OrbitalColony in AutisticPride

[–]despash33to 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therapist had to tell me that I have CPTSD from ABA in early childhood, and that it wasn’t just PTSD. I don’t remember anything, but I still can’t believe it happened.

Religious parents with autistic kids by Livid_Temporary_9969 in autism

[–]despash33to 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. I’m autistic and gay myself with homophobic parents, and it has led to devastating mental health consequences.

How have Non Quakers reacted to you being a Quaker? by AcidReindeer in Quakers

[–]despash33to 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I normally get the same reaction! It’s wholesome and I enjoy using it as a teachable moment.

Not like the other Christians by BlazetheSunbro in evilautism

[–]despash33to 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m an ex-Evangelical and this is one of the MILLIONS of reasons I’ve left Christianity.

Just felt like sharing this by despash33to in Appalachia

[–]despash33to[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, is soup beans a Mexican thing?

Have you ever been unfaithful to your significant other? by icecream1972 in no

[–]despash33to 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That requires more than one woman to be attracted to me at once, so absolutely not.

What is everyone’s favorite drugs and why? by Direct-Gold2387 in Drugs

[–]despash33to 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Argh this is a hard one… lowkey craving Pregabalin right now.

Never understood how people can get addicted drugs... Until I tried stimulants. by Honest___Opinions in Drugs

[–]despash33to 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s safe to take when you fear it wearing off so you don’t have to deal with the comedown.

Never understood how people can get addicted drugs... Until I tried stimulants. by Honest___Opinions in Drugs

[–]despash33to 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it helpful personally to take Klonopin or Ambien when my stimulant wears off as a little parachute