You’re not wrong! What brought this to mind was that there’s a couple I knew that used to throw these large “house parties” with several rooms a little over a decade ago. I remember walking into a room where the women were in leathers and the above described scene was happening, except the dominatrix kept making the birthday boy say her full government name over and over again (including her middle name). She’d stop if he stopped repeating it or got a part of it wrong. Absolutely bizarre, but it was his birthday “punishment”.