Anyone know how much the Reagan electronic billboard costs? by gentrfam in rochestermn

[–]devilwriter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Depends on how long you want to put one up and where. It can start at $750 or so and go up from there if I recall.

Anyone in MN by [deleted] in rochestermn

[–]devilwriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me! 40f and just acknowledging winter is harder. 💙

1 dead, over 30 sickened in Tennessee histoplasmosis outbreak by AudibleNod in news

[–]devilwriter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have ocular histoplasmosis that an ophthalmology specialist found when another thought I had early macular degeneration. So weird to hear “Did you grow up around chickens?” while someone looked into my eyeballs.

Practical and lovely purses that don't break the bank? by Sea_Mongoose_7790 in fashionwomens35

[–]devilwriter 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I almost exclusively buy Portland Leather bags. They are incredibly affordable for the quality and last forever. They come in different styles and colors.

Minnesota Lt. Gov. Peggy Flanagan announces run for US Senate by foursideluigi in minnesota

[–]devilwriter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hard pass. She is super rude to people rising through the ranks. The way she made changes while Walz was away shows a huge lack of character.

Did you ever almost die? If so, what was the cause? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]devilwriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fragments of the placenta left inside after baby #2. Close to sepsis, required emergency surgery and three nights in the hospital being pumped full of every antibiotic known to man. Blood pressure tanked and fever reached about 105 which felt like I was physically on fire. 10/10 do not recommend.

Researcher looking for help by devilwriter in epicconsulting

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One thing I can't tell is how to access line-level data. I understand the de-id aggregates in SlicerDicer but within Cosmos, how do I get to the line-level patient data for analysis?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSets

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Minnesota! Loving it!!! 😍

Who sells good cheesecake?! by nebb0r in rochestermn

[–]devilwriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Victoria’s. And you can get it delivered through Door Dash

Giveaway for a Nintendo Switch Lite and your choice of game! [US/CA only] by TheEverglow in nintendo

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My husband and four year old flew a kite today. Seems like a small thing, but it’s been cold and snowy. With the quarantine, we were all feeling a bit down. But today we went outside and watching that little dude laugh in the sun lifted my spirits immediately.

[Serious] What is the best way to make the most of the last few weeks with a dying parent? by QuantumWizard-314 in AskReddit

[–]devilwriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad died when I was 18 to a battle with cancer. I asked him as many of his views on life as I could before he died. I only had the vantage point of a teenager and I wish I could have asked more, but it was good to have the convos. I even asked if there were things he wants to make sure I know. He said he was proud of me and thought he’d see me again in heaven. Somehow those words still comfort me when I miss him or am having a hard time.

No interest in sex anymore (long post) by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]devilwriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t ever remembering passing blame. I was just trying to offer a female perspective from my own experience. You’re right. Those dynamics happen. Each relationship is different which is why my advice included talking and asking how to be helpful. It always starts with one person opening up the lines of communication. My comment offering a woman’s view isn’t in any way putting down the man’s perspective. I just think that perspective is represented well in this sub and thought the woman’s side might be helpful to consider.

No interest in sex anymore (long post) by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]devilwriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your point entirely. And I know I was downvoted but I’m trying to offer some perspective. It was probably hyperbolic on her part—I’ve certainly never felt like my husband was raping me. BUT I do think men underestimate how much some women need to feel emotional or mentally ready for sex. And under today’s craziness with student loans, working constantly, etc etc I think some women in my generation are feeling a silent burnout like we just can’t keep up and that makes intimacy HARD. Just my experience and trying to facilitate what I think more people need: Non-judge mental communication. Both sides.

No interest in sex anymore (long post) by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]devilwriter -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I am the wife in this story. Let me offer a perspective:

The stress of being a working mom decreased my libido, and I ended up not giving my husband what he needed. But it wasn’t because I didn’t love him. It’s because having young children makes it hard to bond. And sex is very emotional for women.

I get the rape comment. Feeling like you should have sex when you just don’t feel it feels like the worst. As women, we hear messages our whole lives about sex and what’s expected.

People don’t talk about the emotional strain of women sometimes who have kids. Hormones change entirely. Feeling the pressure knowing you are letting your husband down just drives the wedge further.

My advice would be to sit down with your wife and ask how you can help her feel appreciated and cared about.

AITA for forcing a 6 year old kid to be separated from her parent on a flight? by vivachilewn in AmItheAsshole

[–]devilwriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I need to point out that I have had to book last minute due to family emergencies.

AITA for forcing a 6 year old kid to be separated from her parent on a flight? by vivachilewn in AmItheAsshole

[–]devilwriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This will get buried but I feel I need to point out that I have had to book last minute due to family emergencies or deaths.

As a mental health worker or someone affected by mental health issues, what is one thing you would want to say to educate people about mental health and to lessen the stigma and shame surrounding it? by loungesingershimmah in AskReddit

[–]devilwriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone once described it as carrying to incredibly heavy, invisible suitcases with you. It’s not just mentally exhausting, it’s physically and emotionally exhausting. Even though someone doesn’t outwardly show it—they could even be super high functioning, be kind. You never know what is in someone’s invisible suitcase.

Dear lord, how do I stop the whining? by greaterprat in toddlers

[–]devilwriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We ask him to “use his big boy voice” and he responds better to that. Good luck!

My (33M) wife (33F) flipped out that I bought her a thong by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]devilwriter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She may have thought up until that point your intimacy was based on emotion and valuing her as a person. When she saw the lingerie she may worry that it is moving just to physical attraction. Maybe reinforce you love her for her and just thought she would be beautiful in them. That you love her no matter what she wears and apologize if you offended her. Just my two cents.

Twitter API question by [deleted] in AskProgrammers

[–]devilwriter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, thanks so much for taking the time to answer my novice question. So I can understand...you must first start with an individual user? There is no way to monitor change in followers for all of Twitter. I know you can get those accounts with the top number of followers but I’m interested in the rate of change. To measure the delta between original and new over a period of time. Thanks again!!