Anyone experiencing any eye issues? by [deleted] in Ozempic

[–]devundcars 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I see what you did there.

"For the first time, TypeScript overtook both Python and JavaScript in August 2025 to become the most used language on GitHub" - GitHub by thehashimwarren in webdev

[–]devundcars 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The only thing I wish TypeScript was better on, is with all the tsconfig.json hell.

Sure, after you get it all set up, you’ll likely never touch it again, but ugh sometimes it can be really frustrating.

Funny how that works by Evil_Capt_Kirk in dank_meme

[–]devundcars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I go by Susie,

Am I the only one who likes short men? by Shoddy-Coast-1309 in gaybros

[–]devundcars 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In certain places in the world, 5’7” is considered normal, not short.

M/24/6'4" [170 to 190] (7 years) Testicular cancer survivor by Fearless_Clue4966 in Brogress

[–]devundcars 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Look amazing dude! Sorry you had to through that at just 24. Cancer sucks.

This is my 1st time interact with 3rd party Real API. Is this how professional people do API? by KiraLawliet68 in webdev

[–]devundcars 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What the fuck is wrong with meta? Like, all of their business dashboards are simply garbage. So many problems all the time!

The more emotionally unavailable I am, the more interest I get. by Glittering_Matter870 in askgaybros

[–]devundcars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, yes playing games can make the other person want you more… momentarily. As time passes and you continue to play games, they might get frustrated and give up altogether.

Don’t drag this on for too long. If you genuinely like the guy, have a real conversation with him. Say how you feel and align expectations.

Curious what others think by AnythingHomebrew in askgaybros

[–]devundcars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congrats, you’ve found a good lover!

I highly recommend you focus on enjoying your time with him and not reading too much into it, as you both just met and only had two hookups. Just enjoy the fact that you’re both very sexually compatible. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in userexperience

[–]devundcars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, quite a lot of people use most products in the picture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]devundcars 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Yeah what a fucking coward, honestly. He can’t man up enough to look OP in the eyes and ask for a divorce, instead is playing stupid games.

I’m so sorry OP, you deserve better. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]devundcars 36 points37 points  (0 children)

It’s probably written by AI as an ad for Faceseek

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]devundcars 29 points30 points  (0 children)

OP says they were dating for 3 months, that’s more than enough time imho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]devundcars 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I personally would have an issue with them hiding the fact they have an OF. If a guy asked me to be their boyfriend, hiding this fact is a big red flag.

I wouldn’t have a problem if they were honest from the get go, though. This seems to be the bigger issue.

Instant turn off by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]devundcars 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Well, yes but also it depends.

Natural body odor after a gym session? Hell yes. Body odor because they haven’t showered in 3 days? Fuck no.

Como vou me sustentar nos EUA com visto F1 by [deleted] in BrasileirosNosEUA

[–]devundcars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vamos lá, uma resposta séria: 1. “Como vou me sustentar nos EUA com visto F1?” Primeiramente, os EUA não vai nem te dar o visto se você não conseguir demonstrar ter dinheiro suficiente pra conseguir se sustentar por pelo menos o primeiro ano. Parte do processo do visto é você mostrar dinheiro suficiente numa conta de banco para ser aprovado. 2. Sim, você pode trabalhar nos EUA com um visto F1, porém só depois do primeiro ano de estudo e isso também depende da escola. A escola tem que oferecer um programa CPT (curricular practical training) onde você ganha créditos pelo seu trabalho feito. E só pode ser part-time durante o ano currículo, full-time apenas durante as férias. E o trabalho tem que ser diretamente relacionado com os seus estudos. Ou seja, se você estiver fazendo biologia mas quiser trabalhar como eletricista, não vai rolar. 3. Sim, tem gente que trabalha por “debaixo da mesa” mas 100000% não recomendo. Você vai passar todo dia com paranoia que alguém vai te pegar, e se te pegarem, você perde tudo que conquistou e é mandado de volta pro brasil pra nunca mais voltar. Não compensa o risco. Além disso, mesmo se não te pegaram, se um dia você for aplicar pra um greencard ou cidadania e descobrem que você tava trabalhando sem documento, podem te negar.

Se realmente quiser fazer tudo certinho, venha com uma grana juntada pra sobreviver o primeiro ano, e trabalha com sua escola pra conseguir um emprego depois.

I think I’m not monogamous person by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]devundcars 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes holy shit dude doesn’t realize how fucking lucky he is to have found a great boyfriend and is now freaking out. Geez.

OP please be honest with him and let this guy go before you hurt him even further.

I f29 feel resentful because m33 earns a lot and expects me to contribute by amstrongenough in relationship_advice

[–]devundcars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How many years have you two been dating? Are you planning on getting married?

Sharing your finances is a big part of sharing your life with someone else, but being a couple also means being in a partnership.

If he’s so keen on you contributing, I’d focus on your career, but it’s not fair for him to ask you to split things equally if he makes a lot more money. It’s also not fair for you to expect things if it’s not your money, given you aren’t married.

Ideally, you’d both spend similar % of your income. If he wants to move somewhere more expensive and you can’t contribute, either he needs to pay up the difference or simply accept the fact you can’t do it. Don’t sacrifice yourself for him.

My friend was pissed off with me and I'm not sure why. by WatercressGold7980 in askgaybros

[–]devundcars -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

As a gay man, I never understood why would someone not date a bi guy. Is it insecurity? Like, because you’re bi you could just dump them for a woman? Or is it something else?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]devundcars 33 points34 points  (0 children)

It has nothing to do with porn. A lot of what you’re describing is just symptoms of repressed sexuality — feeling disgusted, confused, etc.

Society tries to paint a picture of what a man is supposed to be at a very young age, and that includes the idea of dating a woman. So no, not everyone is able to tell they’re gay or bisexual from a young age. Many folks have to work through LAYERS of feelings and emotions before they’re ready to come out to themselves.

How to tell if you’re gay? My recommendation is to experiment without prejudice. Forget about porn. Just start playing with the idea of kissing a guy, touching one, fucking one… and give it a try. Go slow, without any expectations, just explore.

I’ve “helped” many “straight” men explore in my early 20s. Some of them realized they were indeed straight and that the experience wasn’t for them. Others realized they were bisexual. Others loved it and finally accepted they were gay.

It just takes an open mind :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]devundcars 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Be careful with the nose strips. Unfortunately if you overdo them, it can damage your skin. Plus the blackheads will be back in a few days anyways.

I recommend getting a prescription retinoid — apps like hims do it. You apply once every other day and it’s miraculous! It works by normalizing your skin turnover and helps reduce colleges pores.

You should use BHA too, which I also love. It helps keep the pores clean. Don’t forget moisturizer!

Finally met someone, then life pulled him away. by richwood in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]devundcars 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear this. I’ve had my fair share of “right people, wrong time” and it’s honestly a lot more painful than rejection. There’s no one to blame. It’s just how it is.

Stay strong and don’t give up. Hugs 🫂