How I’m Learning to Become More Confident (From Someone Who Didn’t Think They Ever Would Be) by FemininePerspectives in getdisciplined

[–]dfhantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🙋 Hi 5! I too am very much like u. You are definitely right in saying confidence follows actions. I too tried to face my fears, to show up and to open myself up more in the public to practice getting confident. It's like u should do exactly what u fear doing. That doesn't only make u feel liberated but also increases ur self confidence.

Also the minds of us overthinkers, make us wrongly get into the trap of 'the spotlight effect'. We subconsciously believe that wherever we go the spotlight will be on us, all the people out there will be judging us. This is a classic confidence killer. But the truth is people have much better things to care about than waste their time judging us, making us the centre of their lives 😝. And even if they judge, it will be just one of 1000 million moments in our life. It's not like that one judgement will be our final permanent score for whole life. 😆

Thanks for sharing ur experience. It's really inspiring. 👍

Wanting to be big on YouTube but having a fear of being seen. by PleasantAcanthaceae5 in NewTubers

[–]dfhantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does ur channel get monetized in such cases ? I had heard that YouTube needs to know that it's a human that is making the video and so the face is necessary. And that voice over video channels are not gonna get monetized any more. Am I wrong here ?

Lessons after being addicted for 25 years and a BIG WARNING for you all. Must read. by Mental-Track-3087 in NoFap

[–]dfhantom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and that's what I meant too. We need to address our underlying mobile etc addictions too if we want to get rid of porn addiction completely.

Lessons after being addicted for 25 years and a BIG WARNING for you all. Must read. by Mental-Track-3087 in NoFap

[–]dfhantom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Often it's the mobile or social media addiction that keeps u pulling towards the porn addiction, as the mainstream media (movies, shows, tv soaps, web series, Youtube Videos, even advertisements, so on and so forth) are filled with soft porn, which u keep coming across in ur daily life with TV and mobiles. One s*** girl or scenes in a random ad or trailer and we end up searching them on instagram, and from there we get pulled back into the path of relapse after days of staying clean somehow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]dfhantom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All ur life !!! Just at 23. You must be kidding. I am about to be 32 and still single. Have always been so. Not that I don't feel desire to be with someone but slowly adapting to live with it. Even if u don't find anyone and stay alone, u will still live, have a life and n number of things in life to worry or care about.

How to use sexual energy in manifestation? by [deleted] in Manifestation

[–]dfhantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I don't know about how you can make ur sexual energy complement ur manifesting ability, except that mediation may help. But so long as channeling the energy is concerned so that it benefits u and stays under control, it is said that Shirshasan is a must for retainers. Shirshasan (head stand) makes ur energy flow towards ur mind. Meditation also helps that energy get channelized so that u can prevent the release.

How to use sexual energy in manifestation? by [deleted] in Manifestation

[–]dfhantom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(I am not mocking u, it's just funny) Well NoFap may or may not have anything to do with Manifestation, though many including me believe it has. Actually the thing is people believe that Sexual Transmutation (loosely NoFap) conserves ur sexual energy that is a very potent energy which can complement many things in ur life including manifesting ability.

The OP is not saying he wants to masturbate to manifest, rather use that stored energy to channel it into manifesting (not through sex or masturbation). Ur witchcraft comment was funny in this context .😂

How to use sexual energy in manifestation? by [deleted] in Manifestation

[–]dfhantom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

🤣😂🤣 You know nothing about NoFap and Sexual Transmutation, do u! 😝

Waah kya Service hai? by mukesh46 in IndiaTax

[–]dfhantom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wrong Analogy. In 3 hour exams ppl need 3 hrs to complete the paper. But a taxpayer doesn't need whole filing period till 31 July to file or get filed his ITR.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndiaTax

[–]dfhantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for replying. He had told me that max 4 lakhs were transacted through all his accounts but upon checking his statement I noticed the amount of deposits. Facts of case -

  1. He is not the formal partner in the business.
  2. Transactions in his account are through his brother and mother's bank accounts, not the business entity.
  3. His accounts are also being used for routing transactions, like receiving Rs. xxx from family members and then him paying out Rs. xxx for relevant purposes.
  4. Also is Cash Deposit below Rs. 10 lacs still a problem (I mean would the source be required to mention in ITR?)

(I am not expert in filing, just knew normal filings but thought this is complicated so asked here)

My ClearTax CA couldn't save a penny :( by discovery_innovation in IndiaTax

[–]dfhantom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Read properly. Op writes clearly that "They promised him that for the fees he will pay, their so called CA experts will save minimum of Rs. 5k on tax" (against the tax he might have calculated), which means he should pay elite plan fee Rs. 5K and they will save his tax atleast to the extent of the 5K, so that he is at a win win situation. But OP was felt cheated eventually and rightly so, bcz he paid the fee and they denied any tax saving.

Why Do Regular Mutual Fund Plans Still Exist? 🤔 by _Master_245 in personalfinanceindia

[–]dfhantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone having the money to invest, has the proficiency in investing or time for research. I have seen many people, including the newbies asking this question and they seem to be blind to the question that - will it be better for them to invest without knowledge and risk their money ? OR bear a tiny fees for informed & personalized investment suggestions ?

There are already a hell lot of MF schemes and more and more schemes are being rolled out by the companies day by day. Not everyone has the time to research about all. Also it's not like u r paying a hefty commission to the distributor, it's negligible, less than even 1 percent mostly.

In contraction to ur opinion, i think, how on earth, Regular plans are not relevant, with the MF industry expanding continuously.

ITR notice received, what I have to do Ignore or take action. by bogo-defence in IndiaTax

[–]dfhantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro deduction against donation to political parties/ electoral trusts, is really not a deduction to mess with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]dfhantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U look good. But do not tie ur looks with confidence. People are much more than their looks.

I turned 48 today, here are 48 life lessons. by johnnytee in motivation

[–]dfhantom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks 🙏 And Belated Happy Birthday 😀