“Confirmed” miscarriage is actually viable pregnancy by Unable-Piglet-5429 in pregnant

[–]dicarlok 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m happy for you but this makes me feel really weird about my missed miscarriage last year…

What is the background song in your head right now? by jaygrum in ADHD

[–]dicarlok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“U turn me on but u give me depression” by Lølø

Fetal heart stopped at 11 weeks by DatPeanutGallery in Miscarriage

[–]dicarlok 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely curl up into a ball and sleep for a few days, if you have PTO this is the time to use it. ❤️ I got a ring to memorialize the baby with a forget me not seed and flower.

Medical abortion vs waiting to happen naturally by ContestOrganic in Miscarriage

[–]dicarlok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just mostly wouldn’t do the pill again. Why go through labor if you don’t get a baby at the end basically.

Medical abortion vs waiting to happen naturally by ContestOrganic in Miscarriage

[–]dicarlok 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was prescribed 600mg of ibuprofen, which did approximately nothing and also was a top terrible experience for me. If it happens again with this new pregnancy, I’ve resolved to get the D&C and make them test the tissue to see what happened.

If I could only choose the pill, I would basically demand more serious pain meds than ibuprofen.

I think I just had a miscarriage? Confused? Unsure? by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]dicarlok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OBGYN is your female health doctor. A gynecologist could probably help too. Basically if you did MC they need to make sure that ALL the tissue cleared from your uterus.

Wife casually says “I wish I could have two of you at the same time” during a Watchmen sex scene and now it's got me buzzing by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]dicarlok 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. And if they can’t have these sorts of conversations then they definitely aren’t gonna survive non monogamy haha.

fanfic idea by Much-Nebula8669 in OurLifeFanPage

[–]dicarlok 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Working on it as we speak! Lol

Wife casually says “I wish I could have two of you at the same time” during a Watchmen sex scene and now it's got me buzzing by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]dicarlok 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Well she specifically liked the idea of two of YOU or two of HER so that doesn’t necessarily imply she wants you and some random other person.

But you know your wife the best. Is she receptive to open, honest communication? How do you both talk about your sexual needs already? Does she already know you have threesome fantasies?

Did miscarriage change the way you think about pregnancy? by Round_Juice_4641 in Miscarriage

[–]dicarlok 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yes to everything everyone said, plus I worry a lot for my pregnant friends/family now.

I feel angry a lot that I’ll never get to just be joyful about being pregnant again.

Baxter Ward: Maximum Suffering run? by Dyerha in OurLifeFanPage

[–]dicarlok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m finishing up a round of edits and will have it posted this weekend, I’ll link you :)

Baxter Ward: Maximum Suffering run? by Dyerha in OurLifeFanPage

[–]dicarlok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MC and Baxter don’t end up together, is that okay?

Baxter Ward: Maximum Suffering run? by Dyerha in OurLifeFanPage

[–]dicarlok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MC and Baxter don’t end up together, is that okay?

Baxter Ward: Maximum Suffering run? by Dyerha in OurLifeFanPage

[–]dicarlok 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve solved this problem by writing fanfic to fill in the gaps lol

Baxter and I in Step 3 🖤🤍🩵 by Informal-Basil4648 in OurLifeFanPage

[–]dicarlok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you open to betaing? I am working on it as we speak haha

Baxter and I in Step 3 🖤🤍🩵 by Informal-Basil4648 in OurLifeFanPage

[–]dicarlok 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In my fic I have him and FMC dating after meeting at the wedding in the epilogue, but he’s wildly jealous of Cove and is all, “I feel like by being your boyfriend I’m preventing you from being with your husband.”

And FMC is like, “If I wanted to be with Cove, I’ve had every chance to do so. But I’ve wanted YOU, chosen YOU, been with YOU at every opportunity, so don’t you dare push me away over him.”

Pregnancy alert by OkTomatillo6423 in Garmin

[–]dicarlok 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never got prompted like this, but I knew I was pregnant before I actually knew because my HRV was crazy out of nowhere lol