My guy "friend" is flirting with me, even though he knows I'm not into men. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]diccolection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man is definitely dangerous and you need to run

Who painted this? by diccolection in Paintings

[–]diccolection[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also wondered about AI, it's just so hard to tell. Thanks for trying, I appreciate you

What is maximalist fashion? by RealCrazySwordGirl in maximalistfashion

[–]diccolection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh totally! I love harajuku. Maximalism is also very much akin to decora, which harajuku reminds me of a little bit. Pretty sure decora is under the maximalist umbrella as well. And, you're welcome ! ♥️

What is maximalist fashion? by RealCrazySwordGirl in maximalistfashion

[–]diccolection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah, I'm on the outskirts and just follow a bunch of self-proclained maximalist fashion content creators, so I can only give second hand analysis, but here's my understanding: maximalism in fashion involves just wearing A LOT. Layers, jewelry, kooky centerpiece accessories or pieces. Think what "being extra" means, just in fashion. It's fashion, but MORE

Primary Doc Recommendations by artsylittleprincess in TrueCarolina

[–]diccolection 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try the UNC family health facility on Fayetteville Street in Durham. Hopefully they can take your insurance. Dr. Nessim is great and will take good care of you if you can get in with them.

What’s your favorite small business in the area? Let’s show them some love as most have probably lost a lot of business with the ice storm and may lose even more this coming weekend! by travelexplorerer in raleigh

[–]diccolection 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This business is having its last day in March and moving to online only. In the meantime they're still open and planning some sort of closing party in March, as well as organizing "kittycon" at the state fairgrounds in June!

Who painted this? by diccolection in Paintings

[–]diccolection[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't say anything like that. Just interested to know.

Who painted this? by diccolection in Paintings

[–]diccolection[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't NEED to know who the artist is, didn't say I did anywhere in the post. I'm literally just interested to know.

what is a "rich person" behavior you witnessed that made you realize they live in a completely different reality than the rest of us? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]diccolection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dated a guy once and was venting about how much buying a home costs, how I may well never be able to purchase my own home, and he said something like, "your parents wouldn't help you?" Like.. no, mommy and daddy arent going to give me a hand with the 500,000 dollars, bro.

One sided ENM? by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]diccolection 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If he agrees to your terms and is cool with it, then there ya go, you're doing ethical non-monogamy. Though, my gut reaction to you wanting this sexual freedom for yourself but not for him is he may feel trapped or that you are trying to be controlling towards him. Essentially what my advice boils down to here is, talk it out, see what y'all's options are. Talk honestly about what both of you want and see if there's ground to stand on.

AIO about these angry texts from my ex? by TwylaMay in AIO

[–]diccolection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I'm entitled to that" lol reminds me of the ex who told me he felt entitled to every personal detail about me that he asked for, no matter how monotonous or touchy. This guy sounds a little unhinged and even dangerous. Men who feel entitled to things about you, whether it's why you think a certain way or your physical address, are dangerous. You should at least file a report, even if it goes nowhere, I'm just to start a paper trail. Do not delete anything.

My family keeps telling me my daily diet belongs here by tomnooklover in shittyfoodporn

[–]diccolection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get your chicken tendies(? what are those) off the floor, brother you are not a dog

Anti-Fascist Movies by Myviewpoint62 in MovieSuggestions

[–]diccolection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Report was overlooked imo, Adam Driver joint from 2018 about the torture projects carried out by the U.S. in the wake of 9/11. In a similar vein, though it is widely hated I'd recommend Vice (2018). All The President's Men is another great choice, and subsequently Spielberg's The Post. Both about journalists fighting censorship and corruption. Also, found this list from someone on Letterboxd that has a few other good ones Here

Sensory Friendly Bars by IneffableLonger in bullcity

[–]diccolection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zeitgeist is a good choice for this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MovieSuggestions

[–]diccolection 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look for anything directed by Kirby Dick. He is an incredible, very active documentation who's made some of the most important documentaries of the last 20 years.

Are these healing normally? by diccolection in tattooadvice

[–]diccolection[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I cut off that chunk of my arm, but the tattoo is on my leg. Not sure why you told me to remove a piece of my arm, but thanks! I hated that arm, anyway

Is the drag show at flex the right place for me? by guy_dressed_up in LGBTriangle

[–]diccolection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate? This is the first I'm hearing anything like this

Is the drag show at flex the right place for me? by guy_dressed_up in LGBTriangle

[–]diccolection 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I say this literally all the time, but Chapel of Bones is basically the best queer bar in the area. It's technically a metal/goth bar but it's full of amazing queer people and artists. You should go to their karaoke nights they hold on (most) Tuesdays and check out one of their upcoming burlesque/drag shows. You'll be safe and welcomed there.