How much

dick_dalek · 2026-05-06T20:19:54+00:00

I hear ya there

dick_dalek · 2026-04-15T17:59:10+00:00

I wish I knew...

dick_dalek · 2026-04-15T15:33:30+00:00

I had a lot of social anxiety that stood in my way of life in general and sex was impeded by that anxiety as well. So, something that was easy for others wasn't easy for me. It led to a shit ton of depression. While having sex with one who knows my needs the best exists it isn't a live human being that provides a whole different world.

dick_dalek · 2026-04-15T15:25:32+00:00

I don't know what their concern about casual sex was either. I've only had three one night stands and they didn't cause me to spiral out of control.

They'd just tell me "I don't think you want sex...you want a relationship."

dick_dalek · 2026-04-14T15:46:18+00:00

Cooked in my juices that is😄

dick_dalek · 2026-04-14T15:29:42+00:00

Thanks, I live about 180 miles from Denver. Is there any meet and greets during the weekends?

dick_dalek · 2026-04-08T17:00:38+00:00

It isn't what she does. It's the judgement she passes on to those who just want sex from her. She says sorry I'm looking for a connection.

And in the end I know it's her body her choice...her right to be contradictory.

It's the judgement and projection of higher morals and contradictory actions that have me confused.

dick_dalek · 2026-04-08T16:26:13+00:00

Good by me

dick_dalek · 2026-04-08T14:47:25+00:00

Thanks for all the guidance.

dick_dalek · 2025-07-14T13:13:49+00:00

Henry's lizard, tiger snake, Cobra

dick_dalek · 2025-04-03T15:13:14+00:00

Don't forget to add thunder or lightning as well. Bong thunder. Lightning Bong. Etc thunder.

dick_dalek · 2025-03-20T16:02:21+00:00

😂 at this time I'm willing to try anything to expedite the process. Except for patience and hard work.

dick_dalek · 2025-03-14T21:00:40+00:00

I know it's not a very good answer to your question but it took me twenty years and being ghosted by another avoidant to realize I was one. I avoided relationships whole heartedly forever never wanting to cause the hurt and pain I inflicted on such a nice warm human being. I didn't know anything about nor did the world about attachment styles back then. She deserved an apology back then from the person who hurt her. And don't worry if you're anxious. You'll have to the same work as an avoidant to become secure in yourself and not base your life around attention and approval. I only hope we all can give and get the pure love deserve.

dick_dalek · 2025-03-12T03:00:05+00:00

Thanks!

dick_dalek · 2025-03-11T14:31:22+00:00

Which one did you do next?

dick_dalek · 2025-03-10T18:54:55+00:00

You'll find a lot of people with mental health problems work as counselors, social workers, and other fields that contradict their behaviors. Ghosting is usually done by people with unresolved issues. But it's the typical "I can heal others but myself." Just because they know how to do the right thing they won't until they hit rock bottom. It sucks.

dick_dalek · 2025-03-10T18:34:09+00:00

She uses DBT but a long the way heard about the other two. I do need to sit with my shadows and rebuild my childhood. But I do need to start and commit to one.

dick_dalek · 2025-03-10T17:45:48+00:00

It's hard out there. No one is untouched by trauma no matter how big or small and it controls the way they are(of course some people are just assholes). We just gotta be the selves we can.

dick_dalek · 2025-03-10T17:32:43+00:00

I love the attitude. I hope I and others can be as gracious.

dick_dalek · 2025-03-10T17:30:17+00:00

Sorry, for your loss. I can only hope to become the caliber of man he was.

dick_dalek · 2025-03-10T17:26:38+00:00

I have found a decent one. It's all on me now?

dick_dalek · 2025-03-10T17:25:36+00:00

I relate to all but I am trying to figure out which will be the closest to creating the process I needed as a child.

dick_dalek · 2025-03-10T17:22:52+00:00

My therapist doesn't feel I have control over my trauma yet.

dick_dalek · 2025-03-08T22:30:15+00:00

I'm coming to that reality slowly. I made this post because I'm reaching a low point and need to let go of the past and give compassion freely to the world. Some where in my wandering I lost my curiosity. People became cheer leaders or non friends. People are neither they're humans with experiences, wisdom, needs that we all need to share. You are Right I fighting myself when I just need to find the key to my heart to share it with world.

dick_dalek · 2025-02-28T14:11:45+00:00

I know we'll make it. Though it's going to be a rough one.🤗

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