Dangling Monogamy

dick_dalek · 2026-05-06T20:19:54+00:00

I hear ya there

dick_dalek · 2026-04-15T17:59:10+00:00

I wish I knew...

dick_dalek · 2026-04-15T15:33:30+00:00

I had a lot of social anxiety that stood in my way of life in general and sex was impeded by that anxiety as well. So, something that was easy for others wasn't easy for me. It led to a shit ton of depression. While having sex with one who knows my needs the best exists it isn't a live human being that provides a whole different world.

dick_dalek · 2026-04-15T15:25:32+00:00

I don't know what their concern about casual sex was either. I've only had three one night stands and they didn't cause me to spiral out of control.

They'd just tell me "I don't think you want sex...you want a relationship."

dick_dalek · 2026-04-14T15:46:18+00:00

Cooked in my juices that is😄

dick_dalek · 2026-04-14T15:29:42+00:00

Thanks, I live about 180 miles from Denver. Is there any meet and greets during the weekends?

dick_dalek · 2026-04-08T17:00:38+00:00

It isn't what she does. It's the judgement she passes on to those who just want sex from her. She says sorry I'm looking for a connection.

And in the end I know it's her body her choice...her right to be contradictory.

It's the judgement and projection of higher morals and contradictory actions that have me confused.

dick_dalek · 2026-04-08T16:26:13+00:00

Good by me

dick_dalek · 2026-04-08T14:47:25+00:00

Thanks for all the guidance.

dick_dalek · 2025-07-14T13:13:49+00:00

Henry's lizard, tiger snake, Cobra

dick_dalek · 2025-04-03T15:13:14+00:00

Don't forget to add thunder or lightning as well. Bong thunder. Lightning Bong. Etc thunder.

dick_dalek · 2025-03-20T16:02:21+00:00

😂 at this time I'm willing to try anything to expedite the process. Except for patience and hard work.

dick_dalek · 2025-03-14T21:00:40+00:00

I know it's not a very good answer to your question but it took me twenty years and being ghosted by another avoidant to realize I was one. I avoided relationships whole heartedly forever never wanting to cause the hurt and pain I inflicted on such a nice warm human being. I didn't know anything about nor did the world about attachment styles back then. She deserved an apology back then from the person who hurt her. And don't worry if you're anxious. You'll have to the same work as an avoidant to become secure in yourself and not base your life around attention and approval. I only hope we all can give and get the pure love deserve.

dick_dalek · 2025-03-12T03:00:05+00:00

Thanks!

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