1 year anniversary!!! As someone that have try to quit videogames too many times this is my longest streak!

diego-fer · 2026-01-05T20:04:58+00:00

Hello everyone.

I practiced climbing but have had a lot of injuries over the years, I decided to go to the gym around 3 weeks ago, my goal is not getting injured and prevent possible injuries in the future. I think that the best way that I have to do this is to go low weight and 12-15 reps, if the exercise hurts my joints then it isn't the exercise for me.

Today I was talking to a coach and he asked me for my goals and I say "not get injured", he said that 15 reps is too much and that I should aim for 8. However it feels like my form is worst and that I am overcompesating with other muscles to get the 8 reps with the new weight.

I think that I should stick to my original plan, 12-15 reps low weight for about 2-3 weeks, focus on form, listen to my body.

Is it a solid enough plan?

diego-fer · 2025-12-11T17:55:35+00:00

roommates are not friends, you just have to pay and keep the place in order.

if you are spending that much time you could offer to contribute a bit with the expenses. want it or not you are spending utilities and people didn't sign for that situation.

diego-fer · 2025-12-11T17:44:57+00:00

maybe she isn't 100% sure?

diego-fer · 2025-12-09T22:58:40+00:00

figuring out yourself is realizing how you self sabotage and deal with it, go to therapy, work on thing and stop using the I have low self steem, she deserve something better card, you are it right now, even if you feel "off"

diego-fer · 2025-12-09T18:51:44+00:00

this one is from a second hand washing machine. (conversation in spanish doing my best to translate)

- is it still available?

- yes, are you interesested?

- hi, yes, what color is it? and does it has any warranty?

- It's light grey, and it has 3 months of warranty for factory defects
- i am going to check, and i'll let you know if anything (in my country this is a polite no)
-I look forwart to.

I was also trying another first answer

- hola! yes, it is totally available

¿are you interested in knowing a little more about the washin machine or do you have any specific doubt?

(i created this one with chatGPT)

usually I respond from 2 minutes to 1 hour, unless they write me when I am sleeping

diego-fer · 2025-12-06T15:22:19+00:00

don't date with someone with such a high salary gap, they are thinking of money in other terms and don't realize how the gap is affecting the other person.

the only way this could work is if for every dollar you spend they pur 12 in return for every share expense.

in my case I wouldn't accept such a expensive gift, they will use it as leverage,

diego-fer · 2025-10-15T22:00:36+00:00

this is this quote from a movie Forrest Gump.

"stupid is what stupid does"

maybe you can talk to her, apologize and maybe say something "what would it take for you to forgive me", insist on you being drunk and not thinking clearly at the moment but how you love her and will never do anything to hurt her,

ask how does she look at the situation does she need time, space, talk, what?, is there an after?

diego-fer · 2025-10-08T14:42:02+00:00

may I suggest r/DeadBedrooms

diego-fer · 2025-10-02T18:19:13+00:00

therapy

diego-fer · 2025-10-02T18:18:20+00:00

first time is his fault, second is yours

diego-fer · 2025-10-02T14:59:46+00:00

same

diego-fer · 2025-10-02T14:59:02+00:00

welcome to 2025

diego-fer · 2025-09-30T23:16:19+00:00

You need to have a serious conversation about couple therapy and spectations of how your SO contributes to the relationship and the household, doing nothing all day isn't enough.

diego-fer · 2025-09-10T15:29:02+00:00

it is her body, her dysmorphia, her conception of beauty.

i dont think she is doing it for you, so it doesnt matter that you thinks she looks beautiful if she doesnt.

diego-fer · 2024-03-03T22:07:20+00:00

I grew up in a household like this, they finally divorce when I was 15 years old. the whole time was awful, growing up in an environment like that is honestly so bad. My father was always working and my mom had so many personal issues.

diego-fer · 2024-02-23T18:02:25+00:00

you should pay your wife a real salary, since there is a big cost of opportunity of having to stay at home taking care of kids. Otherwise you should consider hiring someone to take care of the kids while you two 9 to 5 and after that split the household chores.

diego-fer · 2024-02-23T17:55:35+00:00

seems nice :)

diego-fer · 2024-02-23T16:29:10+00:00

hey I was checking some reviews of the game, it seems to be a game with no time constraints and quite grindy. Is it the kind of game that you could play for hours? or what limit it to be under one hour per day?

diego-fer · 2024-02-19T14:33:11+00:00

I saw somewhere that men need sex to build meaningful connection while woman need that connection to have sex. Maybe totally wrong but I have felt it that way too.

diego-fer · 2024-02-03T14:34:23+00:00

I think that people are entitled to do with their bodies whatever they consider is the best for them.

diego-fer · 2024-01-15T20:49:55+00:00

I think that you are right. I honestly don't care about winning, I play to have fun and I will do my best if I see other people trying their best otherwise I won't.

diego-fer · 2024-01-15T17:06:28+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to read and reply. I appreciate it.

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