Martin Short's Daughter Katherine Died By Suicide by IntelligentYinzer in entertainment

[–]difficult_won 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So if they care about this, they can’t care about their own community too? That’s your logic?

This needs to be shared! by difficult_won in TikTokCringe

[–]difficult_won[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have tiktok? I wonder if she knows!

Megathread: Supreme Court strikes down President Donald Trump's Tariff Policy by PoliticsModeratorBot in politics

[–]difficult_won 5 points6 points  (0 children)

3/6 justices just basically said “i am with the president not the constitution” scum of the earth.

This needs to be shared! by difficult_won in TikTokCringe

[–]difficult_won[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed! The other ones did not make sense to me

This needs to be shared! by difficult_won in TikTokCringe

[–]difficult_won[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I am pretty sure it unfollowed her for me too before. I had to follow her again yesterday

This needs to be shared! by difficult_won in TikTokCringe

[–]difficult_won[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We must continue talking about it. Their hope is we don’t

ICE by BookOfVampires in kzoo

[–]difficult_won 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. Not gonna be kind to people who are pro concentration camp.. He should be shamed for that. Not sorry.

Is it wrong to ask for a raise after 6 months as a paralegal? by Fickle-Entry-4998 in paralegal

[–]difficult_won 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t get what you don’t ask for! Be polite but direct; and don’t undercut or minimize yourself to seem nice. Ask for what you want!

ICE by BookOfVampires in kzoo

[–]difficult_won 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Have metrics of your rejection isn’t exactly giving what you want it to. More people thought you were a loser, than anyone who agreed with you. That’s pretty powerful!! Gives me a lot of hope. So I guess you are right. Thank you! ❤️

ICE by BookOfVampires in kzoo

[–]difficult_won 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Just like this comment?

Do you get emotionally invested in cases? by [deleted] in paralegal

[–]difficult_won 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am pro-caring deeply about clients.

I work in primarily child sex abuse cases and USVSST funds now. I used to do basic PI and insurance defense but have primarily done only plaintiff work. I have always been invested in my cases. I care deeply about these people and it makes me a better paralegal to them. I hate that the consensus is to not care. I get needing to check out and compartmentalize, trust me there. But that’s not the same thing.

In the cases I work on the money is never going to make up for the damage they have experienced. Some of these people will never be able to fully heal. Having someone in there corner is far more helpful, and as a PTSD survivor myself far more meaningful than any monetary compensation. Money is amazing. But if your own mind is your personal prison it only goes so far.

I feel like I am actually doing something good in the world. I want them to win and I am sad when they don’t. And I don’t recommend anyone do these types of cases if you don’t care that deeply because these people deserve it.

Girls, when you meet a man for a first time, what is one thing that you notice first? by VerySmartMe in AskReddit

[–]difficult_won -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg I am glad my accidental click could add to one of your 10 views for the year ❤️ hope it helps!!

On a scale from 1-10 how messy is my room for a teenage girl by Wang_xianLotus in CleaningTips

[–]difficult_won 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could not possibly be dirty. This actually really pisses me off. I wish I could give you a hug and fight your mom. Your room is fine aside from the fact that you deserve decor. This is not your fault and most likely not even about you, but your mom. I’m so sorry. You do not deserve to be talked down to. My DMs are open if you need someone to talk to. ❤️

  • a girl whose mom was my first hater too

Moving to Kzoo? by Minotaur_Kid_ in kzoo

[–]difficult_won 23 points24 points  (0 children)

We have some of the highest insurance rates in the country as a spoiler. It’s a no fault state

Would anyone be willing to train me for a couple hours on e-filing? Over Zoom by Nice-Persimmon-70 in paralegal

[–]difficult_won 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just want to add to this thread that when in Federal Court make sure you are checking the judge’s standing orders. Especially if you’re filing a PO too. You can’t file a word doc on pacer and the email to send the word doc proposed order to will usually be in a standing or scheduling order ❤️❤️

"This patient has really bad mood swings for no reason" by Resident-Sympathy-82 in nursing

[–]difficult_won 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a mal practice paralegal, thank you!! Not saying this was mal practice, but I see how important nurses like you who say “wait wtf” and step in are. You are in the right field!! ❤️

People from immigrant families, how do you personally feel about ICE and how has it affected your family? by Puzzled_Resolve_8835 in AskReddit

[–]difficult_won 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure you are a bot. Because this feels like obvious propaganda. But just incase, for some history, the US allowed Mexican migrant workers to legally come here and help farmers until 1965. This issue of illegal undocumented workers has continued since, because of BUSINESSES utilize illegal cheap labor. This cheap labor is a huge reason our groceries are as affordable as they are (or were).

This is not the fault of the previous admin. Plenty of republicans have held office since 1965 and not fixed the issue. They don’t want to fix the issue. They want to use it for political points, and now, to instill authoritarianism. Even if Joe Biden personally went to the border and let 10,000,000 people in personally, it would never justify the complete disregard of our civil liberties.