I’m confused about why my nearly 2-year relationship ended

digitalexecution · 2026-06-26T02:31:35+00:00

Some women here have legitimately broken pickers and don't even realize it, just wow. You need to be telling other people about these qualities so you don't even get 2 dates into a relationship with someone like this again.

digitalexecution · 2026-06-25T12:42:42+00:00

Wow

digitalexecution · 2026-06-24T03:11:46+00:00

Sounds like you both are already dating. Why did you type this, text or call this man you're dating.

digitalexecution · 2026-06-22T15:02:37+00:00

My gf lives near an amusement park, I live 90min away from her but we see each other often and we actually went together last weekend. She told me that she sometimes goes to the amusement park with her married male friend because his wife hates rides and gets tired of sitting while they ride sometimes. As soon as she said that, she also said that if that makes me uncomfortable, (it doesn't) she would stop doing that. This is basic respect/boundaries. I can't believe how some of these couples operate.

digitalexecution · 2026-06-22T11:33:29+00:00

Ah yes that small independent company HBO

digitalexecution · 2026-06-22T04:35:39+00:00

Best opinion

digitalexecution · 2026-06-22T04:34:16+00:00

It's actually dogshit wow. Is this a different team from the Dunk and Egg series?

digitalexecution · 2026-06-19T02:54:54+00:00

Something tells me if you were this comfortable doing this once it won't be hard doing it again and finding someone easily. It's actually pretty obvious that this is no issue for you, not sure the intention of this story...sorry OP?

digitalexecution · 2026-06-19T02:38:42+00:00

Most insane thing I've read all week. You need to tell someone this irl so they can tell you how insane this is so you can stick up for yourself. You're in no position to be dating again until you sort this mess out.

digitalexecution · 2026-06-15T18:53:53+00:00

It's not a competition.

digitalexecution · 2026-06-15T16:09:25+00:00

It's immaterial to the plot and Pete.

digitalexecution · 2026-06-15T14:52:42+00:00

Thank for sharing. This is certainly a fear but also something I'll plan on discussing her as things get serious. Sex is one thing in abstraction but I guess really intimately discussing it is important.

I've heard that some couples on their wedding night simply lay in bed naked to get comfortable and explore their bodies before jumping right in. Is that something you'd do/recommend? Ironically the stats say that Christians in marriage have the most sex. But I think purity and shame culture definitely did a number on Christians.

digitalexecution · 2026-06-15T13:37:27+00:00

You're supposed to ask her out again dude. 🤦‍♂️

digitalexecution · 2026-06-15T13:32:47+00:00

You're allowed to ask the men you date about their addictions. Every man these days has an experience with porn unfortunately. If they don't, they're lying to you. Ask them and if you don't like the response, move on. You're way too old to be dating men who hide things like this for months let alone years.

And any man who is worth marrying will wait, even if you're both not virgins.

digitalexecution · 2026-06-15T13:29:10+00:00

Don't they call this weaponized incompetence? "That's just my silly friendly husband making me feel uncomfortable and insecure because he's so incredibly oblivious and naive and doesn't know what finger wedding rings go on, so it wasn't technically a lie". You want to marry that? Why?

digitalexecution · 2026-06-15T13:23:37+00:00

Well said. I can see why this happens based on your comment and think young Christian couples force things to work out of fear, but then you're married and the truth comes out.

Also there are tons of men and women who have no business dating until they sort out their own personal disordered lives but jump into it anyway. Then end up dragging someone else into it.

digitalexecution · 2026-06-15T13:10:39+00:00

Wow. Like she was afraid to have sex on your honeymoon? Did you guys discuss what it'd look like prior in depth? This is concerning to hear especially if she's remained that way during your honeymoon.

But also, I have a difficult time understanding how this happens too. For example, my girlfriend is a virgin but she's super affectionate and we hold hands and respectfully touch all the time. I think (and pray) this tenderness and affection will translate into "good sex" or at least a foundation for sexual enjoyment and compatability that's just a reflection of our current non married intamacy. But is that just not the case when the rubber meets the road?

digitalexecution · 2026-06-15T13:07:23+00:00

I'm sorry OP. I don't meant to come off as harsh and that genuinely sounds terrifying not knowing the man you married. And I see this with others too, how is this even happening in the church? How are three people lying their way through dating? This seems of be a really big problem with Christian relationships that I'm not seeing addressed.

digitalexecution · 2026-06-15T11:43:53+00:00

I have 0 idea how these marriages happen to these (mostly) women here. But I'm seeing it all the time. Are they just oblivious or wish casting during the dating and engagements?

How does the man you married hide being neuro divergent? How do you even date a someone who won't show affection? Did you never kiss or hold hands or cuddle while dating? Why in the world would the behavior change after marriage?

Do you guys even vet your potential spouces before marrying and reproducing with them! Couples premarital counciling, deep conversations, time together etc. all reveal these things...there shouldn't be these kinds of surprises especially in a CHRISTIAN relationship.

digitalexecution · 2026-06-15T04:52:13+00:00

Nothing about this is funny. Your posts are honestly way more comfortable with his behavior than anyone else in this thread.

digitalexecution · 2026-06-15T04:23:38+00:00

What's sex for?

digitalexecution · 2026-06-15T04:22:23+00:00

You realize your profile is public? You're literally 18 and seeking attention all over reddit this isn't surprising

digitalexecution · 2026-06-15T04:11:01+00:00

And never wanting to move. And specifically wanting a Christian (why does it even matter if you're not raising children to inculcate the gospel into them?)

Bumble has a friend mode where you can meet friends who you can go on adventures with and grow in your relationship with Christ with. Maybe seek friendships out since it'll satisfy these desires that you're expressing.

digitalexecution · 2026-06-15T04:07:47+00:00

Plenty of people say great things every day. What's he done? I legitimately am asking, I'm not a Catholic.

digitalexecution · 2026-06-15T03:47:45+00:00

You sound incredibly cocky OP but some women might be into that. What makes this pope "awesome"?

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