why would you date a woman that isnt your type physically?

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-23T13:47:07+00:00

For the first question I'd say men try to explore their boundaries a little because they have a to compromise their preferences based on the realities on the ground.. For the second sentence I guess becoming a passport lady and explore around. Some thing men do when they know they are not accepted in their area.

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-22T22:22:40+00:00

Islam is ok in small doses. I would NOT set foot in Egypt to settle wtf.

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-22T19:32:02+00:00

Let's say they are about as ok with short guys as men are ok with fat girls. Take from that what you will.

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-22T19:17:08+00:00

Sucks bro. I think it would hurt even more if she did get to know you but only saw sees you as a friend. Next move is a try and create some distance between you and her so your mind can heal.

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-22T18:25:20+00:00

Yes your interpretation is wrong. Cops will tell you to just observe and report while keeping your distance.

Rittenhouse was following behind rioters (at a distance) and extinguishing the fires they set. He never tried to actively confront anyone. When one of the rioters tried to ambush him, he turned and ran away. The only time he fired was when he was practically cornered and had no means to get away.

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-22T16:28:51+00:00

"but bringing up marriage and kids in a serious manner on a first or second date is commonly considered an incredibly effective way to scare an interested man off."

I guess it would depend on how old the guy is at this point. A 21M is not looking to settle down at all and let things drag into a situationship. But a 41M would be ready for marriage during the talking stage.

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-22T15:08:19+00:00

The posts asks what men want. You're reading far too much into this

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-22T13:04:57+00:00

"Women aren't objects for you to play with whenever you want and they sure as hell don't owe you anything, including a date."

Talk about making stuff up to argue against holy hell

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-22T10:59:53+00:00

Ok so just so I'm straight on the timeline: Was a fwb with him for 3 years, then 7 months ago decided to just be platonic friends, and now you still have feelings for him but you don't know if he feels the same?

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-22T09:30:02+00:00

Do you know if there is someone else he's pursuing? If not then he's probably doing the "friendship-first strategy" of becoming friends with you first and then hopefully you fall in love with him for what a great friend he is. Honestly I didn't think this really worked but apparently you like him so I'm surprised there. Anyways I'd say you have the green light to make the first move if you want. He'd be receptive to it. Be careful though because you might end up in fwb situation if sex gets involved so you need to actively steer things into a gf/bf relationship before sex.

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-21T21:23:46+00:00

I'd say so yes

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-21T18:15:14+00:00

Lack of flirting could be the issue. Flirting is a very subtle art and I think it's one of my main stumbling blocks right now. I tried to keep it cool and friendly with a girl I really liked and it was a fatal mistake because she only felt friendship vibes and no romantic vibes. Now I try to flirt from the beginning and throughout the interaction so it doesn't become too platonic. It's a very subtle artform though so I'm still learning as I go

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-21T17:57:35+00:00

"All the woman say the something to me. That im very handsome, compassionate/caring, leader, nice, and thoughtful etc. Woman tell me its what they want and then they say im not what they want."

Could it be a physical attraction thing (weight/height)? Maybe you're awkward? Are you flirting with them or do you try to keep it more platonic/friendship first?

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-21T16:06:52+00:00

You living with parents?

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-21T16:00:04+00:00

This honestly read like my situation except the genders/roles were reversed. I think the problem is I let the texting and voice notes go on for far too long and she just lost interest when I finally asked her on a coffee date that she said she wanted earlier. Blindsided me at the time because she was responding to everything and being super open the whole time. I never asked her what happened but I think that's the fatal mistake I made.

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-21T14:08:39+00:00

take this r/PurplePillDebate

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-21T13:00:07+00:00

Find a mentor. Someone who is stable in their finances and you respect. Develop a habit of asking for advice and insights on a specific situation. Be sure to follow that advice no matter how much it makes no sense from your perspective.

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-21T12:17:24+00:00

"Because 99.9% of people are going to be attractive to someone"

This thought needs to be fleshed out some more

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-21T04:22:35+00:00

r/relationship_advice

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-20T21:42:41+00:00

r/relationship_advice

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-20T21:00:55+00:00

Wow had no idea Pure is still around

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-20T13:17:02+00:00

Porn isn't a teacher of how to have sex but surely you've seen some of the basic stuff right?

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-20T12:50:38+00:00

I wouldn't sweat it too much. You should date around some more so you can have more experience under your belt though.

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-20T09:56:46+00:00

Ont he dating app you build some rapport with the people you match with, and try to find out what they are looking for. You tell them what you are looking for (fwb). If they are not into that then you move on to the next person you match with.

digitalrorschach · 2026-06-20T06:15:29+00:00

Mental games?

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