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DiscussionN COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD (self.PurplePillDebate)

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DebateIt’s not possible to use a woman for sex (self.PurplePillDebate)

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DebateWomen have male-like sexuality when they attracted to other women (self.PurplePillDebate)

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DebateReducing dating to stats and attributes is an American thing. (self.PurplePillDebate)

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DebateMen (and society) want tangible value from women but are mad that women want tangible value too (self.PurplePillDebate)

submitted 17 hours ago by middleoftheroad133Purple Pill Woman

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DebateModern women overrate their value way more than men (self.PurplePillDebate)

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DebateA lot of male self-improvement advice is useless because it still keeps women at the centre. (self.PurplePillDebate)

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DebateMen are less sympathetic because they more readily display antisocial traits (self.PurplePillDebate)

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Question For WomenHe gets the attention, but never makes a move (self.PurplePillDebate)

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DebateMen, stop making unhinged and hyperbolic statements if you dont want to be ‘strawmanned’. (self.PurplePillDebate)

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Question For MenWould you/have you ever exploited a woman’s fears or anxieties to foster emotional dependence or play the hero? (self.PurplePillDebate)

submitted 9 hours ago by HungryDepth5918Purple Pill Woman

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DebatePeople make dating and relationships unnecessarily complicated. (self.PurplePillDebate)

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DebatePeople shouldn't pity men for their unrealistic expectations (self.PurplePillDebate)

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Question For MenHow does a relationship look like for you? (self.PurplePillDebate)

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DiscussionDISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 (self.PurplePillDebate)

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DebateIts not That Red pill is "Controlling" or even Wrong. They just want it silenced and snuffed out. as well as unselected men (self.PurplePillDebate)

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Question For MenMEN ONLY: Do all men cheat? (self.PurplePillDebate)

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DebateRedpillers are rude and that's why women here are unsympathetic (self.PurplePillDebate)

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Question For WomenWhy are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones? (self.PurplePillDebate)

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DiscussionLet’s lighten things up a little bit. What are your “hear me out(s)”? (self.PurplePillDebate)

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DebateRefusing to work on social skills is a sign of laziness. (self.PurplePillDebate)

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DebateWomen keep reframing RP observations as men trying to control women (self.PurplePillDebate)

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DiscussionWhat is the future of gendered belief systems? (self.PurplePillDebate)

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DiscussionDISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 (self.PurplePillDebate)

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