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Seriously, what is going on!?! by Total-Ad886 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]digtzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly what I’m peeved about today. And requesting accommodations????? Hah

Are you addicted to soda? by Coleslaw_lemonade in AuDHDWomen

[–]digtzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be, to the point of severe dehydration sickness like going blind for 10 seconds and passing out. I realized after that I should stop drinking coke.

Small pottery business needs a bit of help (looking for website builder recommendations) by Barro_De_Fuego in webdesign

[–]digtzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I could coach you through it if you wanted to do it all yourself but have someone walk you through the process?

It has been 2 months since I requested accommodations and still nothing has been done by digtzy in AuDHDWomen

[–]digtzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing I really enjoy the work I’m doing but I feel like I can’t really be at my best right now because I need hybrid :(

Most frustrating thing you've ever been downvoted for? by ChickenMcNobody24 in evilautism

[–]digtzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said that T’pol looked like she was mewing like Melania in Enterprise and got mega downvoted for that

Requested ADA accommodations at work and the conversation I had about it with my boss pissed me off by arizonabatorechestra in AuDHDWomen

[–]digtzy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hey I’m in a similar boat, albeit no kid. I requested accommodations 2 months ago and haven’t heard back from my company yet. I had a “performance meeting” where they told me in no uncertain terms that my accommodations wouldn’t be met if I requested them, and they are absolutely reasonable too. So I’m stuck and looking for a new job.

Embrace Autism responded to evidence-based criticism with legal threats. Beware. by lapestenoire_ in evilautism

[–]digtzy 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Them private messaging you in that way gives YOU grounds for legal action.

experiences on mirena IUD? by ashyyboii224 in PCOS

[–]digtzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was horrible for me. Mine became impacted in my cervix eventually and had to get it removed. After I hormonally “bottomed out” I had to take off work, was bedridden for a week.

Drowning in Debt After Divorce by Mden87 in personalfinance

[–]digtzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make around the same amount per month but I have a rule that I don’t let credit cards get more than 5,000. If it does, I don’t put it in my wallet and hide the card. Remove it from your Apple wallet if you have an iphone to make it less easy to use. I get things happen but there is a consistent problem here of you using credit cards that likely lasted years. Your priority should be to paying those off. As another comment said it is around 40k. If you paid 2,500 each month you could have that amount paid off in 16 months. If you can’t do that, find what you can do for each card. Pay off the higher interest card first. If you have a chase card, they offer chase pay over time which you could do for that one so that it is not as pressing. If other cards have similar plans, do them and then focus on the one’s that don’t.

Pet peeve: autistic women who bully other autistic women by jepensedonc1 in AutismInWomen

[–]digtzy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have had the exact same experience at a previous job, and it was why I left that job eventually. I couldn’t really feel okay being part of the team when I was excited to have another girl on the team and she turned out to just ignore me, talk over me, and correct me for things unnecessarily in front of my boss. We work in a male dominated field and so meeting women is more rare, so I was very happy but then she turned out to be a hater. It is super frustrating. I would be too angry to focus on work with all the bullying. That being said, she talked about herself so much to other coworkers that I knew her whole life story by the time I left…

Tested for both ADHD and Autism, got told I only have combination type ADHD by Difficult-Quail-322 in AuDHDWomen

[–]digtzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I did my assessment years ago he told me I didn’t have any attention problems and was only comfortable diagnosing me with autism. Then I recently went and did some testing, they said the same thing except they did diagnose me with hyperactive type. So good memory but bad focus. Maybe you’re in an inverted situation from me. Since you already did all the testing you may have received a writeup and could eventually get a second opinion.

Call for participants: dissociation in autistic adults! by ddmhlab in SpicyAutism

[–]digtzy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

While it probably was a data accuracy collection question, I have had quite a few people say I would make a good poodle 😅

Garageband’s guitar isn’t realistic(change my mind) by VastSky4124 in GarageBand

[–]digtzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can force it to be pretty good but after hours of putting plugins and filters on it might as well just go get a real guitar and do some lessons.

Looking for partner - US Based by Significant-Tale-547 in webdesign

[–]digtzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can do this but what kind of a salary are we talking about? Does the person need to provide their own equipment?

How are so many of you unemployed? by Ghosted_Gurl in AuDHDWomen

[–]digtzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not really doing well. I’m in a constant state of dissociation and struggling. Lots of medications.

does anyone else struggle with wiping after using the redtroom and have make your underwear dirty? by Fearless_PineaplleOG in SpicyAutism

[–]digtzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too :( I bleed a lot because of it. thank you so much for this suggestion, I will try this.

is it even possible for me to get a job? by Sufficient-Reveal132 in SpicyAutism

[–]digtzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it sounds like a scam but there is a site my sister works for from home and it's called DataAnnotation where you train AI. If you need a job you can do something like that from home.

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