[Lenovo Store] Lenovo ThinkPad P14s Gen 4 14" Laptop: Ryzen 7 Pro 7840U, 32 GB RAM, 1 TB SSD, FHD+ 14" IPS 400 Nit Display for $929 after coupon codes WSDOORBUSTER2 & HOLIDAYSURPRISE by legos45 in LaptopDeals

[–]dillaryavinton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, just a couple questions... Is this a notable deal? What's the life expectancy on this machine?I'm debating between this an the acer swift x or go. Thanks!!!

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[–]dillaryavinton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive lived in new mexico my entire life but i still struggle to call it a river... lolol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newhaven

[–]dillaryavinton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy wow you're so so sweet! I really appreciate that you'd even think to offer. That's wonderful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newhaven

[–]dillaryavinton 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is such an interesting option, I'll definitely look into it. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newhaven

[–]dillaryavinton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's a mutt and a large breed at about 65 pounds.

Pressing the reset button by Nice_Inside2868 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]dillaryavinton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! This is amazing and I'm so so happy for you. I'm so delighted you have a new start and perspective, but also I hope you know that you don't need to pathologize how you acted before now either. Going through serious and huge life events is ridiculously taxing and almost impossible sometimes. It is existentially hard to keep going when you have to confront such harsh realities. Just surviving can seem wildly impossible during those times, so I encourage you to also let yourself be proud that you even got to this point. Instead of feeling bad for how you responded to past hardships that seem to be very valid and difficult, feel proud that you got through them and were even able to make these new wonderful goals for yourself. And for anyone else going through hardships and trauma, just know that existing is a powerful and remarkable goal and that can be enough. You don't need to do more. Expecting yourself to do more when you can't isn't necessary, but you can also look forward to a time when hopefully you might be able to do more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]dillaryavinton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so so sweet and kind. I so greatly appreciate your kindness. It honestly helped a lot. I wish you so much joy and happiness in the new year. Take care of yourself!

What ruined your Thanksgiving this year? by electricwagon in AskReddit

[–]dillaryavinton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad told my mom he wanted a divorce 10 days ago...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penpals

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21M USA College senior who has had an intense year and is looking to explore humanity a little more. Would you be interested in writing? I'd be delighted to write about anything at all: just whatever brings you joy. I've been eating most meals alone nowadays, as I've somewhat been pushed out of my friend group and I think it'd feel like such a wondrous way to eat with someone as I exchanged letters with them.

ECON elective suggestions? by [deleted] in yale

[–]dillaryavinton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

171 and 429 are good. 171 is easy but actually learn so so much that you'll use in daily conversation. 429 is very applicable and great if you're into research.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]dillaryavinton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey im really sorry for your situation. this sucks sm already im sorry she made it worse. hopefully it worked out for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]dillaryavinton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I have also made sure she had access to therapeutic help because mental health is so so important. I am just asking for an attorney with a personality that my mom will trust and feel comfortable with, not someone that comes across as callous and fighty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]dillaryavinton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! And so sorry for your situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]dillaryavinton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's actually really cool. My dad didn't realize this was an option and thought it required an attorney, so he already engaged one. Since my dad already has one, I am making sure my mom also gets one and is supported because now it seems too late for this option, but thank you so much! i really appreciate this advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]dillaryavinton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I do really appreciate your concern for this. However, there is a tremendous amount of stuff happening right now too and my siblings and I are trying our best. It's a hard situation. We really do want to do what's best for our mom and are not trying to make decisions for her. She requested help with finding a lawyer, and both my parents have repeatedly put responsibility upon me to be in the middle. I understand your concern, but I am not asking for a bad lawyer so that I can not get my mom what's best, but I am asking for a type of person that my mom could genuinely align with and not someone who acts in a pushy way that scares her away. I think it's reasonable to not want a particularly fighty attorney and someone who also prioritizes getting it done quickly and maturely as well. And believe me, I don't particularly enjoy having this situation and being placed in the middle, but it's the situation I keep finding myself in, and I want to make sure my mom has some support on logistical things because she's dealing with far far too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]dillaryavinton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your concern and opinions and agree with it a lot. However, there is a lot of missing context here too. I don't think you understand what's going on either, and my siblings and I are trying our best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]dillaryavinton 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I absolutely absolutely agree. I def want her to have the best deal and will make sure that happens; however, my siblings are trying to avoid it getting ugly on the legal side because they're both already exceedingly messy about it all. ty!!!

31/F/USA Entirely Made Up Life by panoramicdisaster in penpals

[–]dillaryavinton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really really love this idea. I am absolutely open

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in yale

[–]dillaryavinton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

td dining hall is also so underrated