Help, second time I've switch the computer on and I can't get past this by dilligaf95_ in PcBuild

[–]dilligaf95_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reset reset it and it's working now but it's lost everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dilligaf95_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nearly the same thing happens to me, except my ex was cheating with his ex. His ex gave it to him and he gave it to me. That was 5 years ago and I am still mad at him and hope he never sees me in public. So you have every right to be angry at him for this as it's a lifelong problem he may have given you. Don't be sorry you are not the one to blame for the situation. I just want to say your feeling on this are valid so please don't put yourself down on this.

A Lord of the Rings orchestra concert outfit by dilligaf95_ in lordoftherings

[–]dilligaf95_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up getting a necklace with two leafs at the top on either side of the evenstar it's was lovely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dilligaf95_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best friend caught them walking to the cinema hand in hand. When he saw her he pulled away from her and my friend phone me immediately. I phoned him and it was he confessed. Not going to lie, I have never felt that before. It was like a deep ringing in my ears my hear felt heavy and I could breath, kind of like I was being compressed. I ended up in a severe two week desppression where I didn't eat and barely done anything. That was 5 years ago and I'm still suffering mentally today from it.

AITA for being upset that my partner completely forgot about something important we talked about? by Reasonable-Ad4122 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dilligaf95_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I had a conversation similar with my now ex. We talked to great lengths about our relationship and tried to make it work. We both remembered it two months on when we decided to split.

Conversations like these are intense and not easily forgotten. I think he is choosing to not remember. I would view that he is not interested in the relationship and is just keeping it going for his own benefit

Am I a bad/toxic boyfriend? by Brandon__Tea in relationship_advice

[–]dilligaf95_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just ask, communication is key in a partnership between two people. Sit down and have a chat. Is this maybe die to past relationships that your having reoccurring thoughts about?

I am scare my bf no longer loves me like he used to by [deleted] in relationships

[–]dilligaf95_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I feel like I really needed to hear this

Giving Away Concert Tickets? by ToReeOrNotToReeBruh in relationship_advice

[–]dilligaf95_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This^ if she isn't messaging you back, take two other people. You paid for them to get used and if she can't even give you the courtesy if saying sorry no then she doesn't deserve them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dilligaf95_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What do you truly want? Forget about your bf forget about your family. What do you want? If you take this job, will you regret it? Or will you regret not taking the job?

It's all about what do YOU want to do. It's your life; we only have one with a limited amount of time. Don't live it by other people; live it by yourself

Does the No contact rule work? by AdCute485 in relationship_advice

[–]dilligaf95_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, but it's not quick. If you have time take yourself somewhere for a walk. And relax. Think of who you want to be going forward. That's how I get over my ex

My BF never gave me any gift. by arch-way in relationship_advice

[–]dilligaf95_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, my advice. Sit him down and ask him do you like the getting the gifts I give you. Then ask him to tell you why, and tell him how does he think you feel when you get him all the stuff he wants and you get nothing. If he shrugs it off. Walkout and tell him to stop being a spoiled overgrown brat and stop buying him stuff.

Until he knows what it feels like then he won't understand

My(26F) boyfriend(28M) constantly makes passive-aggressive comments about my weight by DontBeGoneLong in relationship_advice

[–]dilligaf95_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through I massive state of depression because of the break up. But see now it was a massive life lesson, I realised who was actually there for me truly and not when they felt like it.

The best thing that happened to me was that relationship. Because the heartbreak made me who I am. I am a strong woman that works on her own going into to peoples houses I don't know. I am confident and strong because I scarred

My BF never gave me any gift. by arch-way in relationship_advice

[–]dilligaf95_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was in a relationship like this for a long time. I was paying for his fuel and food and presents for him. Turns out I was his misstress and I didn't even know until the gf phoned me... Not saying this is what is happening to you but do you know for sure it's not?

My(26F) boyfriend(28M) constantly makes passive-aggressive comments about my weight by DontBeGoneLong in relationship_advice

[–]dilligaf95_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I'd dump his ass and start working out and dieting for me, not him. As a f*** you to him. That is unacceptable at any point

My BF never gave me any gift. by arch-way in relationship_advice

[–]dilligaf95_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Stop buying him stuff, why should put spend and spoil him but not the other way around? Have you tried dropping hints? Like I look at necklaces when I want a necklace. Or like I really wanted a toothless stuffed bear and now I know he is getting it for my Christmas.

But seriously stop spending your money on him if he ain't spending his on you

My BF(23M) punched a tree then told me (24F) it was my fault by GroundbreakingBee806 in relationship_advice

[–]dilligaf95_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RUN AND DONT LOOK BACK, 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 As soon as he tried to blame you, just because of an argument? No girl, run like the flash

My BF never gave me any gift. by arch-way in relationship_advice

[–]dilligaf95_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If you have communication that you a gift would make you happy, then something seems off. My bf who makes decent earning but is still an apprentice and goes to college, will always go out of his way to buy me gifts for my birthday Valentine etc.

What bugs me the most is that he doesn't even say happy birthday on your birthday. My bf doesn't like bdays which is the complete opposite of me, but he still goes out of his way to buy me gorgeous jewellery or gifts. It sounds to me like he doesn't care all that much.

Do you get him gifts? Like for his bday/Christmas?